Okay so I've shaved before and it was awful but I have noticed my hair down there catches a lot of stuff and its hard to wash and such also hubby doesn't like getting hair in his mouth and I think he'd be more vigorous in oral if it was trimmed better. We both don't like fully shaved but I have no idea how to remove most of the hair and leave a little patch and it look good. BTW you are talking to somoene who attempted to cut her son's hair and ended up having to shave his head.