Sometimes, I hate people.

AppleBiter

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Get ready for a rant. Thanks, in advance, for listening. :) :(

Okay, I've been gone for quite a while because I'm at school usually from 7:30 am to around 6:30 or 7pm, then I come home and do homework. I get done around 12am, which is also when I retire to bed. My husband works in another town, 20 miles away, and we have one tired, 18-year-old, beat up vehicle that we share because when we moved here, our one decent vehicle was decimated by a deer on the highway.

At school, I work as a writing assistant (or tutor) in the English department. They pay me for this. Not well, however -- min. wage -- but it'll look stellar on my transcript and it's the only job I could get with the flexibililty to deal w/my 18-credit-hours in school. Hubby is a graphic artist which does pay well, but not nearly as well as you'd think. Thus, we are poor. We live with a roommate in order to make rent and bills and we barely scrape by. If I need to go anywhere, I have to rely on others for transportation. It's been a rough and rocky road for us ever since we moved to this God-forsaken place.

Yesterday, we got up and went out to our vehicle at 7:15am, like we usually do. Hubby gets there before I do and says under his breath, "Oh my God." I say, "What? Did you forget something?" (He's always a little melodramatic, I had no idea what he'd seen.) He opened the passenger-side door that we both have to enter through, every day, because the driver side door has been stuck in place for ages. Then, I saw it.

The driver's side window was smashed out. The back window was smashed out. The truck had been ransacked.

This Christmas, I saved and saved to buy him a CD player for his truck because he's 26 and had never had a CD player in his vehicle -- ever. Too expensive. So, you can imagine how his eyes lit up when he opened that package. Gone. All that was left were wires. But, that's not all.

When my grandmother died, my grandfather sat on his bed, weeping, going through her jewelry and handing pieces of it to different grandchildren, explaining why he was giving each the jewelry that he was. He picked up a beautiful, gold locket and explained that he bought it for her because that piece of jewelry was just very special and unique and he thought it should go to a granddaughter that was also special, unique, and cherished. When he handed it to me, his shoulders shook with grief. I wore that locket on my wedding day, just 6 months later, so that I could carry a piece of her down the aisle with me. I was going to pass that heirloom down to my child (when I had one) on their wedding day. That locket was in the center column of the vehicle. Gone.

Last, but certainly not least (and you may snicker, but I think this is something to worry about), they stole a pair of my underwear from the center column as well. It worries me because they know where I live and they have my underwear and I'm afraid they'll come back . . .

Why? It wasn't even a nice vehicle -- it's 18 years old. It's a beater. It's our only means of transportation (my husband had to miss work yesterday.) That CD player was the only nice thing he's ever had in a vehicle and it's not like it was even a whole stereo -- just a CD player, for fuck's sake!! His truck doesn't even have air-conditioning. The window they broke out on the driver's side didn't even roll down.

God damn it!!!!!! I hate people. [/rant]
 
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AppleBiter said:
When my grandmother died, my grandfather sat on his bed, weeping, going through her jewelry and handing pieces of it to different grandchildren, explaining why he was giving each the jewelry that he was. He picked up a beautiful, gold locket and explained that he bought it for her because that piece of jewelry was just very special and unique and he thought it should go to a granddaughter that was also special, unique, and cherished. When he handed it to me, his shoulders shook with grief. I wore that locket on my wedding day, just 6 months later, so that I could carry a piece of her down the aisle with me. I was going to pass that heirloom down to my child (when I had one) on their wedding day. That locket was in the center column of the vehicle. Gone.


*hugs*

Fuck.
 
On the plus side, fixing the windows was only $65 (thank GOD). We filed a police report, but fat lot of good that does where we live. We also contacted every pawn shop in town, so hopefully the necklace will turn up. Keep your fingers crossed. :rose:
 
I'm sorry that you had that happen to you, people are horrible sometimes. :rose:
 
*HUGS* :heart:

Sorry for the loss Babe. :rose:

It really sucks to have that happen, especially when it's something that's irreplaceable that's lost.

I had a car stolen a few years ago. I was in school at the time and doing handyman type stuff to pay the bills. All my tools were in the car... all gone. But the thing that still pisses me off is my favorite raincoat was in the back... silly huh? THe car was worth only a couple grand, the tools were probablly worth another 2 grand and I'm upset about a 60 dollar jacket. Silly huh? But it was from a former employer and I couldn't replace it.

Hopefully if the locket is unique it will show up in a pawn shop somewhere. Just go for a walk in a day or two, don't wait for them to call you, cuz they probablly wont.

Good luck. :rose:
 
cheerful_deviant said:
Hopefully if the locket is unique it will show up in a pawn shop somewhere. Just go for a walk in a day or two, don't wait for them to call you, cuz they probablly wont.

Good luck. :rose:

Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I don't trust pawn shops. I think I'll probably visit them every day for the next God-knows-how-long. BTW, I don't think being upset about a raincoat is silly . . . it's the sentimental things that have the most value in this world. :rose: I'm sorry that happened to you, as well. :rose:

Thanks, everyone, for your kind words and hugs. They really do help. :rose:
 
I'm so sorry.

I'll keep up hope for the pawn shops. I bet it will turn up.

:rose:
 
That's absolutely horrible. I certainly hope they catch the person/people responsible. *HUGS*
 
I'm so sorry that happened to you, sweets! :rose:

I know how you feel. Some idiots broke into my house several years ago and stole an ancient VCR and a necklace with a small gold cross that my mom had given me, AND found my spare car keys and stole the car. I got the car back (though it was stolen for good a second time a year later), but never got the necklace and I'm still pissed about it. :(

It sucks when assholes rule the day.

:rose: :rose:
 
That sucks ass big time, so sorry babe, wish I was a gazillionaire, I'd send you a tank. :rose:
 
big hugs

adding my love to the rest hon,,
i have a ring from my grandmother and i'd flip if it went missing
may the universe send the perp what he deserves in more than the usual 3x law
:kiss:
 
Been there. Done that. Still hating it.

I think the worst thing about it is how vulnerable it makes you feel.

I'm glad they didn't decide to enter your home, but I hope you get your precious things back and are lucky enough to find out if bad things befall them.

~lucky (the spiteful)
 
Sorry to hear it, Applebiter. I know the feeling. :rose:

Oh, and I always hate people. I like persons, but people can really suck.
 
They did it AGAIN. Last night. This time, they came back and took the wires like the goddamn Grinch who stole Christmas and they committed criminal property damage against our landlords, ripping a metal pole out of the concrete of our driveway to bust out other peoples' windows with (we assume).

The police are lazy assholes who won't do one damn thing about it.

I have no faith left in humanity. None.
 
Apart from us, I hope.

I'd rip their hearts out.
 
At this point, I'd be wiring up a small webcam and a lead to your pc and setting record.... then leave something for them to "find".

Pricks!

*hugs*
 
Just-Legal said:
At this point, I'd be wiring up a small webcam and a lead to your pc and setting record.... then leave something for them to "find".

Pricks!

*hugs*
I'd spray itching powder on everything else that might be worth stealing.

Or anthrax, if I could find any.
 
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