Something I Thought Was Nice

BgMma

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Someone sent me an anonymous feedback the other day....it was really nice.

I was told that this person really likes my writing and I am one of his or her favourite authors.

I don't know how to feel about that since I really don't think I am that great of a writer. But The comment stuck in my mind and I am really still shocked by it.

I dont' think I will ever know who it was, hence the anonymous, but I would love to tell that person how fabulous I feel now.

Maybe I shouldn't put so much weight in that comment, but I really needed it. When it came, I was at a crossroad in my mind and I wasn't sure about "things" in my life.

It sounds silly, but that comment made my put myself in perspective. I do put many things on the board, and there are many that I don't, but I will share this with you all........if it wasnt' for my son, I would have left this plane........it was a rough year for me last year and this one isn't that great, either. But, as I sat and thought about my son and all the things I do to make his life better......this mail came up.

I was serious doubting myself as a person when I thought about how moved this person was just by a story......and I thought about how I really do matter. It wasnt' the story aspect, believe me, I am more realistic than that, but it was the idea.....The idea that I could make someone feel good with my words.

So, I thought harder about my life and about my son. Where I want to go in the future and where I see my family. You know what? I am glad I am still here.

There is a good lesson here. You don't always know a person. Sometimes what you say can be the last string. Think hard about who you are speaking to.

As I said. I am really glad I am here for my son. Truly.
 
BgMma99 said:
So, I thought harder about my life and about my son. Where I want to go in the future and where I see my family. You know what? I am glad I am still here.

There is a good lesson here. You don't always know a person. Sometimes what you say can be the last string. Think hard about who you are speaking to.

As I said. I am really glad I am here for my son. Truly.

And many of us are glad you are still here for you and your son.:heart:
 
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bluespoke said:
And many of us are glad you are still here for you and your son.:heart:

Thank you. It seems that I am loved, at home and here, and that is what I was forgetting.......:kiss:
 
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BgMma99 said:
Thank you. It seems that I am loved, at home and here, and that is what I was forgetting.......:kiss:


When you need reminded, just let me know.

:rose:
 
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BgMma99 said:
Thank you. It seems that I am loved, at home and here, and that is what I was forgetting.......:kiss:

I know I certainly appreciate you!:rose:
 
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*goddess*emi* said:
When you need reminded, just let me know.

:rose:

anytime, sweetie......*hugs*
 
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Bluesboy2 said:
I know I certainly appreciate you!:rose:

LOL, yes, I know! You are one of the most thoughtful people here, that is why I like you so much. Kisses, love!
 
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BgMma99 said:
Thank you. It seems that I am loved, at home and here, and that is what I was forgetting.......:kiss:

watch out HUGGGS are catchings
 
We all need to be reminded once in awhile that we are loved and cared about. I'm glad that you got yours when you needed it.
*big hugs*
 
PepperminTrish said:
We all need to be reminded once in awhile that we are loved and cared about. I'm glad that you got yours when you needed it.
*big hugs*
Thank you, honey. I sometimes shut down and won't let anyone in. That is my undoing sometimes.......


Thank you, sven!
 
BgMma99 said:
Thank you, honey. I sometimes shut down and won't let anyone in. That is my undoing sometimes.......


Thank you, sven!

Ahhh, I know how that is. I've been known to do the same thing.
Let me know if you ever need someone to help open you back up.

;)
 
Awww, Dont'cha just love nice people? :)



Thanks for your thread, BgMma99.
Makes me wanna go be nice to someone. :D
 
Kisses and hugs to you all!

Ahhh, it has really been a great day......hopefully it has been the same for everyone.......:D
 
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