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Brave Maximus

Brave Maximus

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It's my first time posting in this forum and I couldn't think of a decent title... so that's what you get... it is pretty a-typical of me though.

So, here's the deal... because of some one particularly awesome, I've really started to look into the D/s lifestyle and I find it rather interesting/stimulating. I've always been a dominant guy, I'm bigger than most, and used to being in charge... I kind of expect people to do what I ask of them. But when it came to the Dominant/submissive dynamic - I didn't really think that it would be my kind of thing...

And here I am... learning about it and becoming rather enraptured with it!

Now, please let me clarify, I will never be the degrading type of dom... It's just not in me. I don't want to beat down or use just anyone... what I want is someone to cherish. I don't want a slut, I want MY slut. I don't want to use someone, I want someone who cares enough about me to allow me to use them because they know it brings me pleasure. I want someone to want to give themselves over to me because they trust me implicitly and know that I care for them. They can let me push their limits because they KNOW I will never take it too far, never hurt them... we can just push it a bit.

I want someone to be gentle with, someone that I can go all out with and everything in between.

If you want to know more about me... check out some of my previous posts. But, I think this quote sums things up pretty well (bonus points if you know where it's from!)

Everything that you wanted I have done. You asked that the child be taken. I took him. You cowered before me, I was frightening. I have reordered time. I have turned the world upside down, and I have done it all for *you*! I am exhausted from living up to your expectations. Isn't that generous?

I ask for so little. Just fear me, love me, do as I say and I will be your slave.
 
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Brave Maximus said:
It's my first time posting in this forum and I couldn't think of a decent title... so that's what you get... it is pretty a-typical of me though.

So, here's the deal... because of some one particularly awesome, I've really started to look into the D/s lifestyle and I find it rather interesting/stimulating. I've always been a dominant guy, I'm bigger than most, and used to being in charge... I kind of expect people to do what I ask of them. But when it came to the Dominant/submissive dynamic - I didn't really think that it would be my kind of thing...

And here I am... learning about it and becoming rather enraptured with it!

Now, please let me clarify, I will never be the degrading type of dom... It's just not in me. I don't want to beat down or use just anyone... what I want is someone to cherish. I don't want a slut, I want MY slut. I don't want to use someone, I want someone who cares enough about me to allow me to use them because they know it brings me pleasure. I want someone to want to give themselves over to me because they trust me implicitly and know that I care for them. They can let me push their limits because they KNOW I will never take it too far, never hurt them... we can just push it a bit.

I want someone to be gentle with, someone that I can go all out with and everything in between.

If you want to know more about me... check out some of my previous posts. But, I think this quote sums things up pretty well (bonus points if you know where it's from!)

Everything that you wanted I have done. You asked that the child be taken. I took him. You cowered before me, I was frightening. I have reordered time. I have turned the world upside down, and I have done it all for *you*! I am exhausted from living up to your expectations. Isn't that generous?

I ask for so little. Just fear me, love me, do as I say and I will be your slave.
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You certainly strike a chord. You will surely find a submissive who fits your needs. Good luck in your search. :kiss:
 
Thanks for the bumps and comments ^^

I can hope for some good conversations anyway :D
 
Shameless bump for myself, but also posing a question:

What are your thoughts on tasks and punishment?
I do think that setting a task for my sub to be both a fun and erotic thing, it also lets me see what they think/want/feel. So far, it's been things like "Show me the most erotic thing you can think of" and stuff like that. I allows me to see where their head is at.

However, failure of a task (I believe), should result in some form of punishment. I'm not big on.... some forms... but I generally think of things like Orgasm denial or even just disappointment, if the relationship is right, to be some of the best forms.

Thoughts?
 
Saturday *checks watch* still morning bump!

Long but awesome night last night.

I would love to find someone to chat about this stuff with.
 
God I love Jim Henson. The Dark Crystal, Labrynth, Farscape, MirrorMask. All amazing!!!!!!!!!!

You, sir, deserve a bump!
 
:D thank you

Labyrinth is my 2nd favourite thing from Jim Henson, my first being The Story Teller.

Hope your evening is going well
 
Brave Maximus said:
Shameless bump for myself, but also posing a question:

What are your thoughts on tasks and punishment?
I do think that setting a task for my sub to be both a fun and erotic thing, it also lets me see what they think/want/feel. So far, it's been things like "Show me the most erotic thing you can think of" and stuff like that. I allows me to see where their head is at.

However, failure of a task (I believe), should result in some form of punishment. I'm not big on.... some forms... but I generally think of things like Orgasm denial or even just disappointment, if the relationship is right, to be some of the best forms.

Thoughts?
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Bump,

I love when my Sir sets tasks for me. A lot of the times he will ask me for suggestions, which I'm not really fond of, I feel like I'm being put on the spot. But he does it for the same reasons, to see where my kinky mind is.

I've only been punished by him once, denial. It was emotional, which I hadn't expected, but it was good learning experience for me.

Hope you find what you're looking for.
 
PureAnni said:
Bump,

I love when my Sir sets tasks for me. A lot of the times he will ask me for suggestions, which I'm not really fond of, I feel like I'm being put on the spot. But he does it for the same reasons, to see where my kinky mind is.

I've only been punished by him once, denial. It was emotional, which I hadn't expected, but it was good learning experience for me.

Hope you find what you're looking for.
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I think that's where part of the communication comes in....
When I ask for suggestions, I don't want them right this second. I want them for the future, as long as my sub thinks on them and actually comes back with something. I this instance it's almost like a minor task...

Interesting... I think all punishments should be emotional, or they don't have much meaning. Or... were you surprised by how emotional it was?


And hi Angelfish :D

How is everyone's weekend shaping up? Thanks giving around here... lots of family... which means I might close the doors and hide for a bit... hopefully there will be some people to talk to.
 
StrawbryCRUSH said:
You through around some entertaining ideas... and love the title of your post.

Bumps for you ;)
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I will always, and gladly take bumps :D

How's everyone's weekend going?

For me, cooked a gorgeous turkey... and got sick. While my family is enjoying it... I'm trying desperately to breathe through my nose....
 
little bump for myself.... seeing how everyone's doing?

I find it curious that no one wants to talk about the tasks idea...
 
Brave Maximus said:
Shameless bump for myself, but also posing a question:

What are your thoughts on tasks and punishment?
I do think that setting a task for my sub to be both a fun and erotic thing, it also lets me see what they think/want/feel. So far, it's been things like "Show me the most erotic thing you can think of" and stuff like that. I allows me to see where their head is at.

However, failure of a task (I believe), should result in some form of punishment. I'm not big on.... some forms... but I generally think of things like Orgasm denial or even just disappointment, if the relationship is right, to be some of the best forms.

Thoughts?
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There is no one-size-fits-all form of punishment. It has to be tailored to the individual. To use your given example, some subs really like orgasm denial, making its use a "Please bier Fox, don't throw me in the thorn patch," situation.
 
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