Some questions

[KinoKe]

I have a few questions. And I thought: where better to ask them than here?

My first question is why do we call our wives (and other ‘significant others’) ‘amateur wives’? I’ve had a couple of wives and, yes, the first was a bit of an amateur. She did what she had to do. But she didn’t really study. She didn’t really train. She didn’t really develop her repertoire. Whereas my current (and probably final) wife is a true professional. She really works at the wifely things. Calling her an amateur is, quite frankly, a bit of an insult.

And if we are going to have a thread for unshaved amateurs, should we not also have a thread for unshaved professionals? Or are unshaved professionals just not that sexy?

And then there’s the business of some people being ‘curious’ – as in bi-curious. Isn’t curious where we all start out? Don’t we all start out wondering what it might be like to be ‘ambidextrous’ (as a friend of mine used to say)? And then, having investigated, having perhaps ‘given it a test drive’, isn’t that when some of us decide: ‘You know what, I prefer women’. Or ‘I prefer men’. Or ‘I’ll have some of each, thanks’.

Answers on a postcard …. Well … you know the drill.

 

[CuttingEdge]

Why type of questions are almost impossible to answer with any sense of clarity, because the reasons motivating us to do anything, are pretty complex most of the time, and different for everyone.

That being said, "Amateur Wives" is pretty simple because its said in such a way to differentiate it from being video or photos of a married woman in the pornography industry. A lot of those woman are indeed married, just to very understanding husbands.

Amateur Wives is a dinguishment, which is like saying, "girl-next-door", but also that she is married, or at the least, committed to another person deeply. So she is not a professional in pornography, and has emotional commitments to a singular man.

As for professional, it could be said that a married woman is a prostitute, just with ONE client!!

 

[Islander55]

Anyone not being paid is an amateur in my opinion. Skill level is a totally different thing. Some of us like to think we have learned a few things over the years and have even been willing to try some things and see how they work out. Personally I think enthusiasm is the most important thing to bring to a relationship.

 

[CuttingEdge]

Like above, Bi-curious is just a stacked modifier: it differentiates.

Yes we are all curious, that is part of being human, but it states bi, which in our culture means same sex curiosity.

Curiosity is taken to mean, having an interest in it, but not an active participant...yet! When that happens, then it becomes bi fully as long as the duality of genders continues, and then of course being gay if it proceeds to only the gender of the same sex.

It is great to have stacked modifiers so that we can tell the different degrees of activity.

If you do not think so, consider the word love. It absolutely sucks, because that single four letter word means the love I have for my children, but is also used to describe the love I have for a Big Mac Sandwich! Clearly the two are different in terms of degree of love. Unlike the Greek language that has five different words for degrees of love, we rather foolishly only have one in the English language.