Some opinions please...

[webber1998]

I am a 46 year old guy and I enjoy having sex with men and women. I have recently met a very nice lady and believe in being open and honest, but haven't mentioned my involvement with men to this point.

Just wondering what other people do/would do.

Would you tell her up front ?

If I have copied a thread somewhere, sorry about that....

 

[sdedalus]

depends on your comfort level with her.. you should probably ease into it.. make funny jokes or suggestions.. then let her know.. i let my girlfriend now my desires during sex, it seemed the appropriate time. you should definitely wait till you know she's sticking around.

 

[webber1998]

I guess I should have phrased that post a little different. I know exactly what I will do, I was just wondering what others do/would do in the situation or have done in the past. I believe in being honest and upfront, so before this went past dinner/dating, I will tell her.

Thanks for giving me your insight though.

 

[Etoile]

I think the decision you've made is definitely the right one. Honesty is the best policy; if she can't handle being with a bisexual person then she needs to be know before things get very serious. Then again, I continue to insist that same-sex cheating is still cheating; you might want to warn her what your intentions are regarding that so she can be aware that you might see men while you're seeing her if that is your intent.

That was a LOT clearer in my head.

 

[webber1998]

I think the decision you've made is definitely the right one. Honesty is the best policy; if she can't handle being with a bisexual person then she needs to be know before things get very serious. Then again, I continue to insist that same-sex cheating is still cheating; you might want to warn her what your intentions are regarding that so she can be aware that you might see men while you're seeing her if that is your intent.

That was a LOT clearer in my head.

I agree 100% and thanks for the feedback. From reading on this forum, you seem to give very straightfoward adivce. I like that.