Some couples CAN,...and some couples CAN'T,...

[Guest]

...maintain an Long Distance Relationship,(LDR).

Due to the committment of both Dream and myself, I thought for sure, we would indeed be a couple who could withstand the trials and tribulations of such a relationship.

I was "WRONG"!

I accept full esponsibility for the failure in our LDR, and it has indeed failed. Dream is a wonderful person, a beautiful woman, and whoever she chooses to be her Master, will indeed be a fortunate man.

I however, am removing myself from our relationship, because I will not continue to be a source of emotional upset for her. She is, and has been, the most honest, and trustworthy person I have ever known.

I truly wish for all her friends to gather round her, and give her the loving support she deserves. She does deserve it. I was unable to BE the Master she needs, (not her fault).

In apology to her, I will forever be grateful for the time we shared, and I will always hold you close in my heart. I am sorry I failed *US*, I am sorry for every hurt you have withstood trying to make *IT* work.

 

[artful]

The thread WAS started by me, (sorry for the confusion).

 

[lovetoread]

I am very sorry.

Be well, both of you.

 

[~Dream~]

lease dont do this

omg omg i have to read this in pubklic!! no no no
please Master i am terribly sorry
no please talk to me
I love you {personal information (name) removed in accordance with forum policy} and you are a great Master
i only have emotional trauma because of my past not you neber you

 

[P. B. Walker]

I'm sorry for both of you.

I respectfully would add that I think this is better done with PMs or emails or the phone.

PBW

 

[~Dream~]

...maintain an Long Distance Relationship,(LDR).

Due to the committment of both Dream and myself, I thought for sure, we would indeed be a couple who could withstand the trials and tribulations of such a relationship.

I was "WRONG"!

I accept full esponsibility for the failure in our LDR, and it has indeed failed. Dream is a wonderful person, a beautiful woman, and whoever she chooses to be her Master, will indeed be a fortunate man.

I however, am removing myself from our relationship, because I will not continue to be a source of emotional upset for her. She is, and has been, the most honest, and trustworthy person I have ever known.

I truly wish for all her friends to gather round her, and give her the loving support she deserves. She does deserve it. I was unable to BE the Master she needs, (not her fault).

In apology to her, I will forever be grateful for the time we shared, and I will always hold you close in my heart. I am sorry I failed *US*, I am sorry for every hurt you have withstood trying to make *IT* work.

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out of all fairness and honesty here,I HAVENot been the picture perfect slave here and you all know that ,however I am deeply in love with ____ ,I have No idea why he felt he had to do this publicly and i am quite embarrassed and ashamed that He chose to but I see now that I have hurt Him deeply ,I will NEVER take His Collar from around my neck,He has chosen to let me go ,but my grasp on Him is as firm as ever , all I neede to do was LISTEN ,but like a stupid ass little BITCH that I am ,I did not,now my life will be absolutely meaningless and if He ever knew me at all ,He knows that I need Him to understand that we ARE good together,,weDO *Fit* ..what about our Time in ________? what about that?I am going to hope that i can call Him and that he will talk to me..


Personal information (name & location) removed in accordance with forum policy

 

[~Dream~]

ditto

I'm sorry for both of you.

I respectfully would add that I think this is better done with PMs or emails or the phone.

PBW

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how Do you think I feel right now? the whole damn internet knows before I do!! I feel like the LOWEST form of life on this earth for hurting My Master this bad ..

 

[WriterDom]

Maybe people move too fast both in terms of future plans and of meeting. I wish the best for you both, but have to question why you are showing your dirty laundry in public. To me, it stinks of manipulation. But that's my opinion and I own it.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Maybe people move too fast both in terms of future plans and of meeting. I wish the best for you both, but have to question why you are showing your dirty laundry in public. To me, it stinks of manipulation. But that's my opinion and I own it.

This is bad on all sides..... I am so sorry for this.

 

[Lancecastor]

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[Ghost's amaris]

have to question why you are showing your dirty laundry in public. To me, it stinks of manipulation. But that's my opinion and I own it.

I would definately have to agree. I dont find that appropriate or right. That is something that should have been done in private as that is a private matter.

If nothing else it should have been done in private and you 2 discussed what exactly you should say to everyone about it so that people know, but not so that Dream finds out after you have already posted and everyone else can read it.

This is my opinion and i own it.

Ghost's amaris

 

[Ghost's amaris]

Re: ditto

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how Do you think I feel right now? the whole damn internet knows before I do!! I feel like the LOWEST form of life on this earth for hurting My Master this bad ..

I can only imagine Dream I am sorry you had to find out the way you did. I find that as wrong and I am sorry if there is anything i can do please let me know and send me a message.

Ghost's amaris

 

[cellis]

I am so very sorry for the two of you....

 

[Desdemona]

I can only offer my condolences to you both. While I can certainly imagine how bad this must feel for Dream, I can also say that I trust Art did it this way because he felt it was the right thing to do.

 

[~Dream~]

i thank you all

for all your kind words and Writer Dom? dont even mention that fuckin word manipulation around me ,ever again!! I have not done any manipulating to anyone here ,only to Master and now I will pay for it till the day I die!! .

 

[Sandia]

Dream... and Artful, remember, whatever happened... just posting about it doesn't mean things can't be undone.

 

[morninggirl5]

I'm very sorry for both of you.


Dream, i think you misunderstood my PM. Completely understandable since you are hurting so. I was referring to your use of Artful's given name and location in your post.

 

[Goddess Helena]

I am sorry for you both.

 

[kkceohcs]

Pity.

Artful, I thought you were truly a master. Would someone in such control have done this without telling her first? That is the lowest form of humanity you could have displayed as a human let alone a "MASTER"...

this Sir. was in very poor taste.

MY OPINION but is is mine: I hope you live long enough to feel the wrath that you have bestowed upon Dream.

{({({({({(DREAM)})})})})}
KK

 

[MissTaken]

Right, Wrong or Indifferently

what is done is done.

Whether posting publicly was a fair and correct move on Art's part, it is done.

Whether or not, Artful is a good master or Dream a good sub, it is done.

Anything that needs to be said to either them should be said privately.

That is my opinion and I own that one

 

[~Dream~]

Re: Pity.

Artful, I thought you were truly a master. Would someone in such control have done this without telling her first? That is the lowest form of humanity you could have displayed as a human let alone a "MASTER"...

this Sir. was in very poor taste.

MY OPINION but is is mine: I hope you live long enough to feel the wrath that you have bestowed upon Dream.

{({({({({(DREAM)})})})})}
KK

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KK while I still consider you my friend and I know your words were only meant to "support me' I have to tell you that i FEEL absolutely NO WRATH but Genuine heartfelt LOVE for my Master and He WAS and STILL is the BEST Master that any sub could get ,unfortunately I am just not the BEST at submisiveness ,thats all =TRUTH..

 

[Cirrus]

Dream, I know we haven't always seen eye to eye, and I have no idea what happened, but Artful's take on it is that he has done you wrong. Don't turn it around and make it your fault and apologize profusely. Whatever transpired between the two of you...sometimes there is no bad guy...things just don't work out.

Still, this DOES smack of melodrama, and would have been better handled elsewhere...but it's here now, and I with the best to both of you, whatever the outcome.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Coming out of lurk mode!

I am coming out of lurk mode to reply.

No outsiders know what the truth is in a relationship between two people.

I think we all should back off and not cast any judgment in any direction. You and I do not have the facts. Only dream and Artful has them. It is their business and we should leave them to it.

Ebony

 

[Lancecastor]

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[Ebonyfire]

This is a lesson to all of us

I think that it is one thing to share experiences in this forum, but it is another to subject everyone to the drama that engulfs us.

Making outsiders unwilling participants in a personal crisis is not a good thing.

Many people are contemplating LDRs and other online relationships. They see this self-indulgence and they wonder if they will see their own personal business splattered all over this website.

I too am in an LDR right now, and it has its ups and downs, but it is the business of 2 people. I can post some general things, but as for making this forum a participant in my personal life is just unfair to everyone here, and it is unfair to my SO.

Let this serve as a wake up call to us all. Think before you blurt out your business. I think Cirrus is a good example of how you can post your pain, without making your business a spectacle, and making it a forum for taking sides and causing havoc.


Keep some things private people.

Ebony <giving my opinion>

I've been having a hard time knowing what to say in this thread. Or if I should say anything. I did before and erased it.

By choosing to conduct your relationship out in the open the way the two of you have I guess we got to see the good, the bad and the ugly.

It's like telling a secret and saying "But you musn't breath a word to anyone.".....the teller is relieved of the burden, but gives it to another.

And that's unfair to all of us I think.

I like you both as posters go.

But I wish you'd gotten a room. A long time ago.

That being said...this too will pass. Sunny daze ahead!

Lance