Some Advice Needed

[DravenCrow13]

What am I doing wrong? I have posted quite a few, i thought,were detailed personal adds yet the only replies are my bumps lol. I see girls posts get tons of messages but nothing for the guys. Am i wording my posts wrong? Need advice on how to better get longer term connections on here.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Welcome to literotica crack

 

[Maksvel_Buger]

"I have l posted" *I have posted
"thought,detailed" *thought, detailed
"I see gira posts" *
"but nothkng" *but nothing
Am i wording my posts wrong? Yes

 

[DravenCrow13]

"I have l posted" *I have posted
"thought,detailed" *thought, detailed
"I see gira posts" *
"but nothkng" *but nothing
Am i wording my posts wrong? Yes

Fixed grammer. I meant what would attract actual replies more? Advice would be appreciated by all

 

[BornNorCal]

What you should focus on is getting involved in conversations, and putting yourself out there. Male to female ratios here are ridiculous and women are cautious and discriminatory, as well they should be.

 

[Noor]

Fixed grammer. I meant what would attract actual replies more? Advice would be appreciated by all

More info on your profile, some posts that actually give a. Better idea of who you are beyond a nerd who’s in an unhappy marriage and wants a secret sexual interaction.
I don’t know how many people are currently on this forum these days but I’d say most of them are just like you so far.
Make some friends here, get involved in some posts, stand out from the crowd.

 

[Annabelle1990]

What am I doing wrong? I have posted quite a few, i thought,were detailed personal adds yet the only replies are my bumps lol. I see girls posts get tons of messages but nothing for the guys. Am i wording my posts wrong? Need advice on how to better get longer term connections on here.

I don't think lit is a very good dating site.

 

[BillyWalrus]

Fixed grammer. I meant what would attract actual replies more? Advice would be appreciated by all

I don't think women on a site about literary erotica really appreciate guys who can't spell. I could be wrong of course.

 

[DravenCrow13]

What you should focus on is getting involved in conversations, and putting yourself out there. Male to female ratios here are ridiculous and women are cautious and discriminatory, as well they should be.

 

[DravenCrow13]

I don't think lit is a very good dating site.

Yeah was hoping for longerterm connections maybe one in same boat. Maybe just got to get involved more and message people to see if things click

 

[DravenCrow13]

More info on your profile, some posts that actually give a. Better idea of who you are beyond a nerd who’s in an unhappy marriage and wants a secret sexual interaction.
I don’t know how many people are currently on this forum these days but I’d say most of them are just like you so far.
Make some friends here, get involved in some posts, stand out from the crowd.

Thank you. Good advice! Much appreciated

 

[Noor]

I don't think lit is a very good dating site.

It does seem better if you are single.
Many long term relationships start here.

 

[zysmith]

What you should focus on is getting involved in conversations, and putting yourself out there. Male to female ratios here are ridiculous and women are cautious and discriminatory, as well they should be.

I hope you meant discriminating and not discriminatory

 

[BornNorCal]

I hope you meant discriminating and not discriminatory

Both? I meant the first thing more, but now I don't want to change it.

 

[Poetdontknowit]

For one, men outnumber women on sites like these by a crazy number. Women are inundated with stupid messages. It's no wonder they are gunshy in being the ones to answer an ad or post. They're already exhausted with the ridiculous. If you do want to get something started, be original, creative, funny and don't mention your size or the state of sexual arousal you are currently in. And even if you do get some hits, it's somewhat anonymous chat. There are more options every day to explore. And one wrong word or failed comment can make it all disappear. Even if it's really successful, going along beautifully, it can still vanish, often with no warning. Here one day, gone the next. It's the anonymous username and avatar world this is. And, I'm not blaming anyone for it. It's just how it is. If you really want to meet someone, then drop the chat and go out in the world and meet someone the old fashioned way.