Soft Swinging Amongst the Mormons

[Wifetheif]

I'm surprised no one has tackled this story idea yet. Soft swinging is a real thing among certain Mormons. Soft swinging is being intimate with someone else but stopping short of actual intercourse. There are many Mormon men and women who marry young, sometimes as young as sixteen, and have had zero dating experience. Often the only person they ever dated was their current spouse. Naturally, after a few years of marital futzing around (many of them know so little about sex and intimacy that their marriages are terribly unsatisfying) they and their friends expiment with soft swinging. In this way they can experience cuddling, kissing, and other forms of intimacy that most people have had long before they found the person they wanted to marry. This activity is an attempt to breathe fresh air into their stale, stiltifing relationships. These forays often include nudity, blow job, cunnilingus, and fingering, but tab and slot NEVER meet! Sometimes this activity brings couples closer together but more often it leads to divorce as the couples who experiment with soft swinging realize that they were completely incompatible in the first place. It seems to me that this idea could be used in several categories, Loving Wives, Erotic Couplings, Novels and Novellas and probably several others. It is amazing how kinky even the most vanilla person is.

 

[PennyThompson]

Well, one of my stories has a scene that involves something close to soaking... but none of the characters are explicitly LDS-coded

I think I'd be interested in a story like this, but I would want it to come from someone who is either current (reformed/deconstructed) or formerly LDS. I think the magic would be in the subtle realities of the culture, both the positives and the negatives.

I've known some LDS members on different points of the cultural/religious spectrum, from strongly fundamentalist, to progressive/reformed LDS, to militantly ex-LDS athiests. It would be a fascinating world to explore from an erotica angle!

 

[Carnevil9]

I did a lot of LDS back in the sixties, but not anymore, man. That shit will mess you up!

 

[Dollar_Bill]

I could see an intensifying relationship that needs more, almost cruelly more. As you say, no tab and slot but the faith loopholes are fully explored, with bagpiping included?

 

[Rob_Royale]

I can see this being an interesting idea but not knowing a great deal about any particular faith, I'd have to make up one. I'd like readers to enjoy the story without getting caught up in details.

 

[ericalauren]

I mean, that’s good for them and all but just because sex does not include PIV does not mean it is somehow not sex.

 

[PennyThompson]

I mean, that’s good for them and all but just because sex does not include PIV does not mean it is somehow not sex.

You must not have spent much time among horny religious college kids, they can be very creative in their interpretation of scripture

 

[ericalauren]

You must not have spent much time among horny religious college kids, they can be very creative in their interpretation of scripture

Oral sex, anal sex, etc are still sex.

 

[Aussieguy8]

I've been tempted to write a story about cheating mormon tradwives who want to get bred by someone other than the husband they married way too young.

But I don't know much about the culture tbh as I'm not from the USA. This is an interesting little insight into it. thanks

 

[Landshark1]

I did a lot of LDS back in the sixties, but not anymore, man. That shit will mess you up!

Did any of your kids have antlers?

 

[Mittering]

Oral sex, anal sex, etc are still sex.

That's not their opinion and that's what we want to explore here.

 

[RoperTrace]

Are vaginal contractions allowed during soaking? So much to consider here.

 

[PennyThompson]

Are vaginal contractions allowed during soaking? So much to consider here.

Okay so an added fun layer is something called "jump humping" or "buddy bouncing," where the couple gets a friend to come and join them and bounce up and down on the bed, creating second-hand motion during the soaking session

I think this part is more of an LDS college kid joke/meme than something that actually happens regularly, but it's both very funny and could lead to some highly erotic scenes in the right hands

 

[RoperTrace]

Okay so an added fun layer is something called "jump humping" or "buddy bouncing," where the couple gets a friend to come and join them and bounce up and down on the bed, creating second-hand motion during the soaking session

I think this part is more of an LDS college kid joke/meme than something that actually happens regularly, but it's both very funny and could lead to some highly erotic scenes in the right hands

We'd call that the Mad Max scenario: two men enter(thunder dome or humping dome), one man falls off, another man enters.