so, your online love says....

[Barely__There]

"I don't know why things have changed. Perhaps the distance and time have caused my head to overrule my heart. We can still be friends like before, can't we?"

Do you...

a) sagely agree and attempt to communicate without spilling your love guts?

b) weep, wail, gnash teeth, and vow to never ever let your heart be touched again?

c) cut things off completely?

d) slowly ease off and remember that there was love in the first place.

 

[lobito]

depends on how serious things were at one point.

 

[Barely__There]

almost a year of being committed to each other.

email of exchange of vows to be formalized when we could be together.

 

[lobito]

Sounds then, like you should cut your losses. Maybe the person wasn't as serious as you were led to believe?

 

[Devilish1]

Been there..Done that.

We just slowly let things fade out between us and went our seperate ways. We still email once in a while to catch up on one another but thats about it.


It was hard having a Online realtionship with someone when you lived in Tennessee and they lived in Sweden.

 

[LukkyKnight]

My reaction was to toss and turn all night, struggle into work, and explode at an idiot masquerading as an intelligent person. The only reason I didn't get fired was he couldn't figure out what an intelligent person would do under the circumstances.

I don't actually suggest you follow that pattern, though.

There is no denying grief. Resolve to live through it. Don't buy or load any weapons, and avoid narcotics.

 

[QuickDuck]

Do you...

a) sagely agree and attempt to communicate without spilling your love guts?

b) weep, wail, gnash teeth, and vow to never ever let your heart be touched again?

c) cut things off completely?

d) slowly ease off and remember that there was love in the first place.

done all the above and sucked at each of them.

funny thing though is that someone will always get through the wall if you put one up.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[Nora]

What would I do? Outwardly, let him go. Nothing else you can do. Inwardly? cry for days. Feel like shit for weeks. Hate everyone and everything for months. Then one day you wake up and it's just not that bad anymore.

 

[Nora]

Oh, and I left off the part about the voodoo doll. Those help a lot.

 

[Guest]

What would I do? Outwardly, let him go. Nothing else you can do. Inwardly? cry for days. Feel like shit for weeks. Hate everyone and everything for months. Then one day you wake up and it's just not that bad anymore.

______

I heart you Nora.



Don't leave me!

 

[Guest]

 

[Nora]

______

I heart you Nora.



Don't leave me!

Never, darling.

Unless you piss me off, of course.

 

[Guest]

Never, darling.

Unless you piss me off, of course.

_______

Never... sweetie.


(Until, of course, I actually do...).

 

[Barely__There]

get on a plane
go see her
ask her if she still see's things the same way while shes in your arms.

if you arent willing to take chances and be where she needs you to be, then cut your losses and move on.

ive been in this situation before. where in the beginning its great and loving and sweet and there are so many things to learn about one another and so many dreams at night abotu what it will finally be like, but yanno, people need people. i think you can love some one you never met personally, but im not too sure about being IN love with them when you have never met them, over 60% of communication is body language and such, if you are missing out on 60% of communication, then you are missing out on 60% of what makes that person who they are. if you truly love her, and this ending she desires is truly about the distance thing, then pick your ass up off your computer chair and go buy a damn plane ticket.

love is grand but it grows tired as we grow older. love never dies, but it does fade enough to push aside if you're strong enough.

if you dont want to lose her, you are going to have to make some sacrifices.

Well, 'her' is the him, I am the her. He has the mobility, I do not. I actually borrowed money for a ticket and lined up care for my son for a week, booked time off work, and told him I could come visit.

I got back a plain. "no, it's not convenient" So he is the one not willing to challenge the distance.

I like the idea of Nora's Voodoo doll, though

 

[Nora]

_______

Never... sweetie.


(Until, of course, I actually do...).

You won't, beloved. Or else. hehehe

 

[Guest]

You won't, beloved. Or else. hehehe

______

There can NEVER be an else, my love.




Unless...

 

[Nora]

______

There can NEVER be an else, my love.




Unless...

Now..where did I put that lock of ProofreadManx's hair? Hrm...

Get the voodoo doll, BT...you'll need it.

 

[Narcosis]

hmm
"a" never works and its too painful
"b" seems pretty horrible too
"c" maybe
"d" sounds like "a" except they dont talk to you much

i say call somebody that lives close to them and get them to shove a potato into the tailpipe of their car and then go with "c"

 

[Guest]

 

[cybergirly]

What would I do? Outwardly, let him go. Nothing else you can do. Inwardly? cry for days. Feel like shit for weeks. Hate everyone and everything for months. Then one day you wake up and it's just not that bad anymore.

Exactly, which is true of any relationship, rather it's online or not.

 

[Nora]

Oh, and the other thing, BT...as soon as you're able to, start trying to think of all the things you put off so you could spend time with the bastard and do 'em. Treat yourself. Do things that make you happy.

 

[Guest]

Now..where did I put that lock of ProofreadManx's hair? Hrm...

Get the voodoo doll, BT...you'll need it.

______

You're a Witchy Woman, Nora...

Raven hair and ruby lips
sparks fly from her finger tips
Echoed voices in the night
she's a restless spirit on an endless flight
wooo hooo witchy woman, see how
high she flies
woo hoo witchy woman she got
the moon in her eye
She held me spellbound in the night
dancing shadows and firelight
crazy laughter in another
room and she drove herself to madness
with a silver spoon
woo hoo witchy woman see how high she flies
woo hoo witchy woman she got the moon in her eye
Well I know you want a lover,
let me tell your brother, she's been sleeping
in the Devil's bed.
And there's some rumors going round
someone's underground
she can rock you in the nighttime
'til your skin turns red
woo hoo witchy woman
see how high she flies
woo hoo witchy woman
she got the moon in her eye

 

[Devilish1]

Well, 'her' is the him, I am the her. He has the mobility, I do not. I actually borrowed money for a ticket and lined up care for my son for a week, booked time off work, and told him I could come visit.

I got back a plain. "no, it's not convenient" So he is the one not willing to challenge the distance.

I like the idea of Nora's Voodoo doll, though

Humm...... "No its not convenient?????"

Are you 100% sure hes not married and when you talked about meeting in RL he panicked?

 

[Nora]

______

You're a Witchy Woman, Nora...

Darn I like that song!