So would you suck his cock and kiss him afterwards

[buckinghamboy]

So I've been reading the threads about first experiences and steamrooms. A lot of the guys on there seem to be fascinated by the male generative organ, aka cock, but they don't seem interested in any on going relationship. In fact anonimity (did I spell that right?) seems to be a pre-requisite and a turn on. So my question is; are bi guys (or gals) just interested in casual sex or are they capable of forming 'loving' relationships with either sex at different times in their lives. Personally I fantasise about having sex with a man, oral, anal the whole shebang, but I can't imagine kissing a guy or wanting to cuddle afterwards. Is this typical or am I wierd? You feedback would be much appreciated. The banana has no significance, I just think it's neat.

 

[Sexygirl620]

For me personally, I think I am capable of forming loving relationships with either sex. Sex is part of a relationship yes, but it isn't the ON:Y part. And no, I don't think you're weird, I say whatever makes you comfortable is absolutely fine.

 

[blklthrjkt]

I love cuddling with my guy as much as the sex. Something about that man energy that I love.

 

[rjp44]

I think there's a wide spectrum of preferences. Myself, I get into passion. Kissing both before and after any sex. I'm bi and this applies to both sexes.

 

[LAcouple4fun]

So I've been reading the threads about first experiences and steamrooms. A lot of the guys on there seem to be fascinated by the male generative organ, aka cock, but they don't seem interested in any on going relationship. In fact anonimity (did I spell that right?) seems to be a pre-requisite and a turn on. So my question is; are bi guys (or gals) just interested in casual sex or are they capable of forming 'loving' relationships with either sex at different times in their lives. Personally I fantasise about having sex with a man, oral, anal the whole shebang, but I can't imagine kissing a guy or wanting to cuddle afterwards. Is this typical or am I wierd? You feedback would be much appreciated. The banana has no significance, I just think it's neat.

i could form a loving relationship with either sex and also could have mad raging sex with either male or female also i guess iam special
Dakota

 

[Bandit58]

I'm a bi woman, married to a straight man. I've only recently (the last 4 years or so) been exploring having sexy fun with women. My husband is very supportive and I have his permission to play alone, and we have shared a lady on a couple of occasions. He doesn't have penile sex with them, he prefers watching, touching and a little oral.

Right now, I have a female friend who I see about once a month or so for some casual fun. She's great, we get along well. She's married, her hubby knows what we do and is fine with it.

I consider myself bi, although I'm mostly attracted to men (say 70%). I don't think I could ever have a relationship with another female other than friendship with benefits. Oh, and I always kiss after oral no matter what the sex of the person I'm with

 

[buckinghamboy]

Hmm, Interesting.

Thanks for contributing everybody. Opinion seems divided so far and the majority of responses are from bi women. I guess what I'm trying to determine if there is a real qualatative difference between bi and gay. Is it just a variation on a theme or are genuinely bi people, as opposed to those in denial, a whole different species.

It might help if respondents could place themselves on the spectrum - bi, curious, gay or whatever. Any body out there who has had a deep and meaningful relationship with both sexes?

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

I am bi male and yes, I would kiss before and after. Although if it is just a sexual encounter I do not get to much into it.

 

[boi6969]

I'm very much a bi male and yes I'd love to kiss him after I suck his cock, even letting him taste his own cum.

 

[boggey]

cum kissing

That is my ultimate fantasy, which unfortunately, I have yet to experience.

 

[HeavenCanWait]

Until very recently I did the casual sex thing and would never have considered a relationship. That all changed about a month ago, I think I have grown up a lot. Now looking for a nice boy to make my own. :-D

 

[pa-guy]

I think there's a wide spectrum of preferences. Myself, I get into passion. Kissing both before and after any sex. I'm bi and this applies to both sexes.

I concur, although i'm really only bi when it comes to sex. I'm not romantically attracted to men.

Thats part of the problem with labels like bi, people make assumptions as to what it means.

 

[versatile1]

I didn't think I would, but when it got down to the heat of the moment in a mmf threesome, I sucked him, kissed him, licked his nipples...

 

[chromefreak]

I do it all the time. Then again I have never had a problem kissing women after getting a blowjob. Or going down on them after sex.

What's the problem?

 

[forestorgy]

yes yes yes !

 

[MyFriend27]

Interesting to hear an opinion regarding this thread from a female point of view

As alot of women for some reason like to associate sex with emotional feelings rather then just lust or pleasure in which our thread starter appears to be leaning towards and like myself feel the same as he does the only difference is that i have had those experiences save for the anal.
Anyways no kissing hugging loving or relationship here that to me is not fun at all and i almost get a little queasy (strange u may think) just thining about kissing a guy or hugging a guy.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

No kissing. Just sucking. Only person i kiss is my wife

 

[MyFriend27]

No kissing. Just sucking. Only person i kiss is my wife

Amen!

 

[Wolfman1982]

hmmm of course I would kiss the person afterwards, when I had gone down on him. But only if I was in love with the fellow.

 

[CuriousEd]

Kiss / suck / swallow?

No kissing. Just sucking. Only person i kiss is my wife

Is there a 'swallowing' in there somewhere?