So ladies?

[Bad_Bad_LB]

I'm wondering, seems the women I've met have issues; date-raped, incestual abuse, general mistreatment by mysogonyst, etc.. Women with sexual hang ups about things that aren't my fault. Heck if I had my way every rapist would be tied to the flag pole in front of the city building, the girl he raped would get on a bicycle, they would attach a reel of fine piano wire, call it 3000', to the back of the bicycle and put a slip knot around the genetailia of the rapist.

He could then watch as the girl rode away, knowing what would happen when the wire went taut.

I like women alot, I like the feel of women, I like the taste of women, I like the smell of women. I like to kiss women, hug them, feel them, cause them to have orgasms.

Are there women out there without issue who like sex? I'm not saying I'm a Dom, but I would like a woman who's a tad subserviant, a woman who wants to please her man, make him happy.

 

[Angel Undercover]

Hey Bad..... Unfortunately a lot of women have those kind of issues. The worst part is leaving the issue un-resolved, because it means they run away from or hurt men who havent done these things to them. I was 9 yrs old when I was sexually molested .... I told my parents, my friends and my school, the man who did it was fired ( he worked at my school) and made to leave town (small country town in upstate NY) or my parents would call the cops. At the time my parents were doing what they thought was best for me, a 9 yr old girl shouldnt have to worry about her face on the front page of the newspaper!

I didnt deal with what happened to me until I was 25 yrs old, by that time I had married a nice man, and we had two wonderful children. I found myself questioning EVERYTHING I had ever done, became severly depressed, and worse, blamed the world for everything that was wrong with me.

The good news??? With some counciling I am now ok! Before I looked at sex as a " if you love me youll have sex with me" type of thing, feeling like that was the only way to show my feelings. Now I realise that its not, and I have a healthy sexual appetite. I love doing things that please hubby, and sometimes thats enough I dont want anything in return!

So theres an answer! Didnt want you to think that not ONE woman would put her two cents in!

 

[YeahBabyyy]

Angel Undercover I know what you mean ( me too) ... took a while to really know myself , but i now know (who i am inside) and what i like and want ....

 

[Bad_Bad_LB]

Thanks for your responses. I really wish that that kind of thing wouldn't happen. The number of women I've come accross with these kind of issues is just staggering, and time and time again I feel like I'm being held responsible for some assholes actions.

I'm still holding out hope that there is someone out there who hasn't been traumatized.

 

[YeahBabyyy]

Thanks for your responses. I really wish that that kind of thing wouldn't happen. The number of women I've come accross with these kind of issues is just staggering, and time and time again I feel like I'm being held responsible for some assholes actions.

I'm still holding out hope that there is someone out there who hasn't been traumatized.

well i think the point that (we) were making is that sometimes shit happens ,some of us work it out and move on and yes i know there are alot of us that just can't ... I believe what i went through made me a stronger person ...I don't take what i went through out on the men that i am with ...I did open up to my Ex( of 14 years , when we were together) and in the end he used that to hurt me with ... So sometime i hold back on that now