So: Is it?

[Handley_Page]

'Masturbation is good for your health'

Apparently it is actually good for you:
See here.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

It reduces stress.

 

[Hypoxia]

Question: Why is a male masturbater a sleazy wanker, while a female masturbator is hot?

 

[monoblanco]

Question: Why is a male masturbater a sleazy wanker, while a female masturbator is hot?

For the same reason that a female exhibitionist is hot while a male flasher is a dirty pervert.

 

[Handley_Page]

Question: Why is a male masturbater a sleazy wanker, while a female masturbator is hot?

I think it depends upon the sex and inclinations of the viewer.

 

[Stella_Omega]

because in this culture we assume that a man wanking is only one step away from reenacting his wank fantasy on some unsuspecting woman, which is a Very Bad Thing.

And because we assume that every woman masturbating is dreaming about us reenacting her fantasy upon her, which is a Very Good Thing.

Both of these assumptions are mostly pretty damn groundless, but that's common culture for you.

 

[sr71plt]

I think it's just because the "we" folks are talking about here are men of a certain mind-set.

 

[lovecraft68]

because in this culture we assume that a man wanking is only one step away from reenacting his wank fantasy on some unsuspecting woman, which is a Very Bad Thing.

And because we assume that every woman masturbating is dreaming about us reenacting her fantasy upon her, which is a Very Good Thing.

Both of these assumptions are mostly pretty damn groundless, but that's common culture for you.

On your first point masturbation serves as a release for a man not to act on that aggressive fantasy. Once a man comes everything pretty much "calms down" so wanking off to a specific fantasy is not a bad thing.

Because trust me back in the day if I committed what I'd masturbated to I would still be in jail and they would have written books about me.

 

[patientlee]

Question: Why is a male masturbater a sleazy wanker, while a female masturbator is hot?

If we did a research study, we'd probably find that it is related to the reason that women make less money than men.

(ETA: I'm being snarky, not trying to start a riot!)

 

[Stella_Omega]

On your first point masturbation serves as a release for a man not to act on that aggressive fantasy. Once a man comes everything pretty much "calms down" so wanking off to a specific fantasy is not a bad thing.

Because trust me back in the day if I committed what I'd masturbated to I would still be in jail and they would have written books about me.

And when I masturbate its about as sleezy as it gets. And many men would much rather wank than go to all the effort of getting with a partner.

And I'm still female, nominally-- but you make an interesting point, and something that I noticed recently -- unless I get absolutely, fully, one hundred percent off, these days, the horny doesn't go away. Wanking 'girl style' doesn't suffice any longer. funny, huh?

 

[lovecraft68]

And when I masturbate its about as sleezy as it gets. And many men would much rather wank than go to all the effort of getting with a partner.

And I'm still female, nominally-- but you make an interesting point, and something that I noticed recently -- unless I get absolutely, fully, one hundred percent off, these days, the horny doesn't go away. Wanking 'girl style' doesn't suffice any longer. funny, huh?

Uh-oh sounds like the testosterone is taking over.

 

[Hypoxia]

And I'm still female, nominally-- but you make an interesting point, and something that I noticed recently -- unless I get absolutely, fully, one hundred percent off, these days, the horny doesn't go away. Wanking 'girl style' doesn't suffice any longer. funny, huh?

Maybe you need a friend. Do you believe in incest? Can I be your sibling?

 

[subdued_passion]

Wait, was someone actually waiting for proof that masturbation is good for health?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Maybe you need a friend. Do you believe in incest? Can I be your sibling?

I don't believe in incest, but I'm beginning to believe in femDom

 

[MrFoxwood]

So now the abstinence I go through while working on a story is a negative thing? Abstinence is my new vice, great.

 

[StrangeLife]

The problem is, that as you get older you can't masturbate very often without influencing your performance in the bedroom in a negative way. And wifey must come first or she'll get angry...

...and you won't like her when she's angry.


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[Hypoxia]

The problem is, that as you get older you can't masturbate very often without influencing your performance in the bedroom in a negative way. And wifey must come first or she'll get angry...

...and you won't like her when she's angry.


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Use your tongue on her. Enthusiastically. Or else.

 

[StrangeLife]

Use your tongue on her. Enthusiastically. Or else.

Tongue may be fine, but insufficient penile input would invariably prompt her to start looking for a cause. And if she should discover that she was losing out to porn, I would likely find every computer in the house freshly formatted and the internet disconnected next time I got home from work.

 

[Hypoxia]

Tongue may be fine, but insufficient penile input would invariably prompt her to start looking for a cause. And if she should discover that she was losing out to porn, I would likely find every computer in the house freshly formatted and the internet disconnected next time I got home from work.

Ah, so who is in control in your household? Sounds like a setup for a LOVING WIVES situation.

Meanwhile, you could try sharing your pr0n. Masturbate each other. Then move to tongues, etc. This has worked for my partner and I. How well? A dozen orgasms yesterday. And today is still young.