So, I'm reading this book....

[enjoyingitall]

Ok..so I'm kinda bored this afternoon and this came to mind for a thread..Please entertain me..Notice I said please.

The book is called The Erotic Mind. It has some interesting concepts in it and makes the reader think about sexuality in some new and different ways..

One of the questions posed in the book is :

Imagine yourself really wanting to be sexually aroused but, for some reason, you're not. Based on everything you know about your own sexuality, describe the fantasy that would be the very most likely to arouse you.

Ok, I know it might be a stretch for some of you to not be able to get aroused easily, but think about it. I think most all of us have times when we just aren't quite there sexually.

So what would do it for you? Describe with some details THE ONE that would get you there.

 

[Jewelz]

You are right. This is hard. I am almost always "in the mood" nowadays......but a few years back, I could relate. Sometimes it was difficult to get "there" no matter how hard he was trying.

But if by chance that I wouldnt be in the mood now, I think erotic massage on my back and shoulders, the way they would touch my body, and then if they ease into lending their breath to my skin, kissing my spine and the small of my back, still massaging me somewhere. and that slight whisper in my ear that they find me irresistably sexy and want to taste me .....mmmmmm.......


ok...i just got myself all wet and bothered

 

[sortacurious]

Ohhhh, I can't decide! The more I explore my sexuality the more it changes and re-shapes itself.

I'll have to think about what applies now, and come back to this. It might be interesting to look back on this later to compare then and nows.

It'll be fun to see what other people's thoughts are, too. Great idea for a thread!

 

[enjoyingitall]

Thanks, hon. I knew I could count on you to stop by here for me.

I think most of us have some fantasy senerio that we call to mind if and or when it's needed. Something to just close our eyes and visualize until we are there.

Here I am just being nosey again..LOL
But it's so interesting to learn about others.

 

[Jewelz]

You are welcome! and yes, that is something else that helps me. I do close my mind and pull up a fantasy person sometimes

and lookie...lucky me...in between you and SC....This girl is pretty damn happy

 

[enjoyingitall]

Glad you stopped by too, SC..it could be interesting to look back at this later, I hadn't thought of that!

I'm really still trying to decide on THE ONE for me, too.

Do come back when you've narrowed it down.

 

[enjoyingitall]

and lookie...lucky me...in between you and SC....This girl is pretty damn happy

Hmmm........Did you say sandwich??

 

[sortacurious]

OMG! I just had to tell you this. I started to concentrate on this, and typed up what came to mine...Before posting it, I re-read. I realized I decribed a fellow Lit. person to a "T" without even thinking about that person or realizing it! Shit. I'm so not posting that one *muahahahaha*....Starting over.

 

[enjoyingitall]

LOL SC..too funny....but at least now YOU know the one that can really get you going...

 

[mbb308]

Fantasies???

My fantasies are so disgustingly simple, and yet, is something I've never had happen - positively ordinary, and nothing bizarre - except their lack of having happened. Oh well....all things in due time, and not a minute before!!!

 

[Jewelz]

Hmmm........Did you say sandwich??

ooooo delicious

 

[Jewelz]

OMG! I just had to tell you this. I started to concentrate on this, and typed up what came to mine...Before posting it, I re-read. I realized I decribed a fellow Lit. person to a "T" without even thinking about that person or realizing it! Shit. I'm so not posting that one *muahahahaha*....Starting over.

LOL silly girl.........you can share with me privately

 

[enjoyingitall]

Re: Fantasies???

My fantasies are so disgustingly simple, and yet, is something I've never had happen - positively ordinary, and nothing bizarre - except their lack of having happened. Oh well....all things in due time, and not a minute before!!!

But you didn't tell us THE ONE...doesn't have to be elaborate..and certainly not bizarre if that's not for you..

Just call me curious..wait...sortacurious already has that one..ok..call me also curious..

 

[Lance Hardrock]

OH I dont know

I'm just subbing to this thread. I want to give this a thought. I know most of you think, if she moves, breathes or is even warm, then Lance will be turned on. Well that's NOT true.

so let me think about it..... as soon as I stop thinking about a sandwich of SC Jewelz and EJ.




I'll post Monday, gotta go now.

 

[enjoyingitall]

Now, now Lance ...we would never think that about you, hon!

Have a great w/e..see ya Monday.

 

[enjoyingitall]

Hmm..been gone for a good while today now, come back and this is about to be lost to page 2..so I'm bumping it up..just cuz I can. and well just cuz I'm still curious...

THE ONE THING?

Anyone?

 

[Ukin]

Oh dear Ej....I have so many fantasies..I have to

My fave I guess is the ...but wait..if it's happened, it can't be a fantasy can it? Shit..I was going to say how an ex lady friend of mine...damn horny young thing she was too (this was in England)..anyway, she came to my house one night and told me to get ready as we were going to the movies. Little did I know, until we got to the cinema and seated...little did I know until she undid the coat she was wearing..that underneath all she wore were stockings and suspenders..but as I said..not a fantasy

Okay...fantasy time: Damn..I will have to think..I will return

 

[enjoyingitall]

Hold on a minute..this isn't about just fantasies.

It's about what you think about to really get you going when you need a little something to spark things. Certainly it can be recalling an experience you've already had.


Glad to see you here.

 

[Ukin]

Hold on a minute..this isn't about just fantasies.

It's about what you think about to really get you going when you need a little something to spark things. Certainly it can be recalling an experience you've already had.


Glad to see you here.

Oh.I am a silly assed Brit at times

Well, then that above one stands as my all time favorite one to get me going..I do have others..but they included an ex girlfriend of mine with another woman.. or the time they tied me to the bed and one sat on my wotsit and the other on my face..I did TRY and struggle..Honest I did *chuckling*

 

[enjoyingitall]

Thanks for sharing, hon!

LOL@ struggling..uh hun..I'm so sure of that...

 

[navarre]

OMG! I just had to tell you this. I started to concentrate on this, and typed up what came to mine...Before posting it, I re-read. I realized I decribed a fellow Lit. person to a "T" without even thinking about that person or realizing it! Shit. I'm so not posting that one *muahahahaha*....Starting over.

C'mon SC.
Spill.
Inquiring minds want to know.

 

[sortacurious]

C'mon SC.
Spill.
Inquiring minds want to know.

Not gonna happen! It's a secret! shhhh

 

[naughtygirl]

Its rare that I am not in the mood! My fantasies change constantly but the requirements are for just one...thats hard...i can give 2 different scenarios off the top of my head...these have been constant, and I will often imagine one or the other when masturbating.

1. This one is more sensual...a slow soft massage always gets me "randy"....soft, slow touches through my hair, down the back of my neck and along my shoulders...my ex used to take his fingertips and slowly trace down the spine of my back which always sent a thrill through me...this coupled with hot breathy whispers on my neck and in my ear always makes me hot.

2. The second scenario is more animalistic and more fantasy coupled with specific experiences with different lovers...this is pretty basic, but my fantasy involves a man coming up behind me, reaching around to cup my breasts and pull me back towards him, so that I can feel his hard cock grinding against my ass as he whispers in my ear that he is going to fuck me now (without asking for permission!?!)...then him bending me over whatever is closest and pulling down my pants roughly and then just plunging himself into me hard and fast...

Experiencing or imagining either one of these will make me hot and wet immediately. Like now. damn!

NG

 

[lilrosie lips]

I have had this persistent fantasy since I was about 13 years old... embellished over the years as I learned a little bit about happens between men and women... I do learn... no matter what you hear about me... !

I am out (normally with whoever my current paramour is at the time) at a very fancy restaurant. The sort with soft candlelight, flowers on the table, comfy leather booths, long white tableclothes that reach to the floor. Somewhere during the meal my date drops some silver ware under the table, and instead of just asking for a new spoon, he goes under the table and suddenly I feel my things being gently parted with warm hands...

I think you all can see where this is going.... .. anyway... it always gets me going... and no it has never happened to me... *sigh*

 

[sortacurious]

2. The second scenario is more animalistic and more fantasy coupled with specific experiences with different lovers...this is pretty basic, but my fantasy involves a man coming up behind me, reaching around to cup my breasts and pull me back towards him, so that I can feel his hard cock grinding against my ass as he whispers in my ear that he is going to fuck me now (without asking for permission!?!)...then him bending me over whatever is closest and pulling down my pants roughly and then just plunging himself into me hard and fast...

This is a good one, NG. *sigh* I miss that!