So I want to get rid of my bi-virgin status....

Mistress

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I have been thinking of looking through some personals (Can't believe I typed that) There is one adult finder place that I have signed up to already. Considering I live in a small town I figured it would be best to look out side of the town for sexual experimentation. I am going to be very cautious in this matter...besides Wanderer D would kill me if I wasn't. I'm just curious to how some of you view the whole 'personals' thing? I know it isn't safe unless you make it safe which I hope I am doing. I will not give out personal information regarding my where abouts/phone number/address until after I have spoken quite often with someone and feel comfortable with them. I am also intrigued into the whole group sex/three some experience and feel this will be the best way for me to research opertunities.
Any comments or suggestions would be appreciated, and I will try not to let any flames upset me or side track me from the new sexual experiences I am searching for.
 
As long as you are careful....

The personals can work. I met a nice girl that way once. ;) In fact, she's still one of my best friends. Mistress, feel free to PM me if you want to discuss it further.
 
I can't help you there, though my friend here did get hooked up with her honey a year ago through yahoo.

However, I am in utter agreement with you on the whole getting rid of the bi-virgin status. I want to get rid of PC's bi-virgin status so bad I can almost taste it. The rub, neither he nor the StudMuffin are terribly keen on this idea. Too bad cupid isn't really real.
 
I don't know if my own bi-virginity is ever going bi-bye. There seems to be a marked attenuation of interest in the whole Georgia get-together thing, and I don't know how I could make it that far on a Friday night unless I get a ride :(
 
Mistress,
I have been doing the online personals thing for a while, due to me having problems meeting anyone i like in my job or while I'm out. I'm glad to see that you want to be cautious about it. Just as in a bar or club, there are weirdos on these sites. Be careful.

If you decide that you like someone who you've been talking to online, make sure YOU call THEM- and block your phone number!!!! I had something very scary happen to me not too long ago because I made the mistake of not blocking my number. I wish you much luck, and if you want to PM me to find out more about online personals, I'd be more than happy to talk to you.
 
Mistress,

I lost my bi-virginity by answering a personal ad. Her and I talked on the phone a few times (this was before the internet) and then met for dinner. We totally hit it off and ended up going back to my house that very night.

Her and I went out a few more times and then I went to her place for dinner with her fiance. Well, that was a night to remember. :) My first FFM threesome and it was incredible.

The three of us became good friends and lovers and often got together over the course of the next year or so. Eventually I had to break it off because I had my first serious girlfriend and she didn't look too kindly on me fooling around.

I hope you have just as good of a first time experience as I did, Mistress.
 
Rubyfruit said:
Mistress,

I lost my bi-virginity by answering a personal ad. Her and I talked on the phone a few times (this was before the internet) and then met for dinner. We totally hit it off and ended up going back to my house that very night.

Her and I went out a few more times and then I went to her place for dinner with her fiance. Well, that was a night to remember. :) My first FFM threesome and it was incredible.

The three of us became good friends and lovers and often got together over the course of the next year or so. Eventually I had to break it off because I had my first serious girlfriend and she didn't look too kindly on me fooling around.

I hope you have just as good of a first time experience as I did, Mistress.

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&postid=1108104#post1108104

:confused:
 
Dear Unregistered,

Please feel free to ask your questions under your real name. I hate typing to ghosts.

I am assuming you believe I contradicted myself with these two posts?

To clear things up for you, the same sex experience I had in high school was far from consensual. I was full of guilt and shame about it the entire time it was happening, but felt helpless to stop it. I'm not saying the girl molested me, but she did have the upper hand as far as experience.

In short, while the girl in high school may have been exploring her bisexuality, I was not.

It was many years later before I had the confidence I needed in myself to explore my desires.
 
I let Mistress know that while I was a bit uncomfortable with this (hey, she's my Best Friend, I can worry a little;)), I would support her as long as she was extremely careful. She certainly doesn't need my permission or approval of what she does, but I want her to know that I'm there for her and hope that something wonderful can come of this.

I'm glad she has thought of safety and the support of her friends here is very good to see. :)
I mentioned that 'safe calls' came to my mind and was happy that she had thought of that too.

You mean the world to me, Misty.
Just wanted to tell you again. :)
 
I'm just going to stalk Lickerish til she'll let me do her.

Oh shit, I'm not a bi-virgin. :(
 
Okay, I am not about to give you advice in this area....

But I have this little fantasy about a scenario involving the loss of bi virginities about.

Here it goes.....

Angel, Mistress, and myself take a road trip out to Myst's Place, where Licky comes out to meet us, and then after a few days of 'fun', we take a joy ride to N.O., pick up the majikal mystikal man, and then swing back out to the Lavyland ranch for a two week fuckout.

Whoo ha. :D

(if FB wants to loose his bi virginity, then we'll have to pick up some man for him somewhere, but I bet he will be just fine, alone, amongst we chicas. ;) )
 
As long as you find that special person, and, are happy, it doesn't matter where you look for them. That's how I see it. Although, be careful. If you do find someone, meet somewhere that's open.
 
Angel said:
I'm just going to stalk Lickerish til she'll let me do her.

Oh shit, I'm not a bi-virgin. :(

:eek:

You may not be a bi-virgin, but I am. Stalk away :p
 
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