So I married a lesbian...

[senrew]

The wife and I are in a 100% perfectly functional emotional relationship, but she has zero desire for boy parts. I still had hope that she still had some desire for them, but, nope. Had a long talk with her tonight, and my needs are simply something she's incapable of fulfilling.

I haven't felt that visceral, physical desire that a girl has for a guy for several long years. I need a girl to remind me what it is to feel like a real man again. Someone who loves cock and loves to make her man feel wanted.

It would be nice if I could find a girl local to me here in South Florida, but I think a little online play time is a good start.

Any one up to help me out?

 

[Spenser41]

Why in the world would you marry someone who is a Lesbian and better yet, why would she marry you????? It was destine to fail.

 

[senrew]

Well, she wasn't exactly girls-only at the time. She's skewed that way heavily since she's had the chance to explore that part of herself.

 

[southern_gal]

This thread has sent chills all thru me. I have, for years, wanted to be with another woman and my husband has told me several times he is ok with it. I am an emotional gal at times and part of me has worried that if I ever got the nerve to follow thru with this intense desire, I might fall in love with my new lover and cause problems in my marriage. I love and adore my husband more than anything on earth so this cautionary tale bears keeping in mind. To the OP: I hope the two of you find happiness in whatever path you choose. I have never been an advocate of divorce and maybe the two of you love each other enough to overcome this rather large obstacle. Let's face it however, many marriages survive one partner being paralyzed and not able to have sex so it can be done. Enough love usually conquers most obstacles. I wish you well.

 

[Jannejnsn]

Hey Ross! Sorry about your situation, give Carol and Ben my best!

 

[eric60red]

The wife and I are in a 100% perfectly functional emotional relationship, but she has zero desire for boy parts. I still had hope that she still had some desire for them, but, nope. Had a long talk with her tonight, and my needs are simply something she's incapable of fulfilling.

I haven't felt that visceral, physical desire that a girl has for a guy for several long years. I need a girl to remind me what it is to feel like a real man again. Someone who loves cock and loves to make her man feel wanted.

It would be nice if I could find a girl local to me here in South Florida, but I think a little online play time is a good start.

Any one up to help me out?

Well Senrew, I dont think that you are alone, although not for the same reason. There are marrried ladies who loose the desire to be made love to, and there men folk crave for a good fuck, so join the club. Thats why some of us are here

 

[AW48]

Even a lesbian can give a blow job. She knew what she was signing up for. I wouldn't let her off that easy.

 

[senrew]

Had a talk with the wife last night. Explained how I felt. Really don't think it made any difference.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I feel for you.

What about suggesting you find (advertise for?) a bisexual woman, so you could have threesomes? Then the other woman could satisfy both of you.

 

[lk2011]

What about suggesting you find (advertise for?) a bisexual woman, so you could have threesomes? Then the other woman could satisfy both of you.

I was just about to suggest that... If you two are good emotionally and the problems are just in the sex department, why not find a third party who's looking for the physical side who's interested in both of you..

 

[CJinMA]

Same thing happened to friends of mine. She went to the other team and stayed behind in Dublin and is now with a Rugby teammate.

 

[drtyyoleman]

Don't be surprised to find that a LOT of guys here are in the same boat.
In my case, my wife just doesn't feel sexual anymore at all.
We go months without any intimate contact at all and even then it is (for her) just to get it over with.
It's so mundane it's not at all fulfilling.
GL

 

[SexPlz]

lol. That fucking sucks.
I only want sex..so wouldn't care if someone is married or not. Not currently in FL although I'm trying to get back there.

 

[Dyslexicea]

The wife and I are in a 100% perfectly functional emotional relationship, but she has zero desire for boy parts. I still had hope that she still had some desire for them, but, nope. Had a long talk with her tonight, and my needs are simply something she's incapable of fulfilling.

My dear boy it's time for you to move on. She's a lesbian, she may love you but it is impossible for her to be "In Love With You". It's so much more than your boy parts, it's an emotional bond that she'll never share with you.

You two need to get a divorce, it's not the end of the world. If your kind. If you can separate and remain friends she'll most likely cherish you as a friend which she'll never be able to do as a husband.

I haven't felt that visceral, physical desire that a girl has for a guy for several long years. I need a girl to remind me what it is to feel like a real man again. Someone who loves cock and loves to make her man feel wanted.

Obviously just from what you wrote you need more than just a physical relationship. For you just to seek a physical relationship outside of your marriage isn't the answer. You need the "I Love You with all my heart" relationship.

I know the Miami area well, although it's more homophobic than I liked, it has a good lesbian community your wife should have no problems finding lesbian friends and hopefully find that someone she can Love with all her heart.