So here's the thing

[hotoldrguy]

Most of us come to LIT because we may feel something is missing in our life or to express our fantasies without being judged or to make some kind of sexual connection. OK not by any means the whole list of reasons.

As far as our sexual fantasies are concerned, I am curious. Do you just want to play and fantasize here? Do you want to meet someone to share your fantasies on-line? Would you want to make your fantasies real and actually go through with it? Or do you just come to tease and meet some fun people?

 

[GoldenBooty]

I have met someone from here before, which turned out to be extremely hurtful.

Now I'm just here to let off steam, I guess you can say. I'm actually extremely disinterested in having any kind of sexual conversation with anyone here anymore, my experience was so bad. But I like the light-hearted banter and I love the dirty gifs

 

[hotoldrguy]

I have met someone from here before, which turned out to be extremely hurtful.

Now I'm just here to let off steam, I guess you can say. I'm actually extremely disinterested in having any kind of sexual conversation with anyone here anymore, my experience was so bad. But I like the light-hearted banter and I love the dirty gifs

Thanks for sharing your experience. There is some great banter and dirty GIFs here too

 

[LadyJS]

Most of us come to LIT because we may feel something is missing in our life or to express our fantasies without being judged or to make some kind of sexual connection. OK not by any means the whole list of reasons.

As far as our sexual fantasies are concerned, I am curious. Do you just want to play and fantasize here? Do you want to meet someone to share your fantasies on-line? Would you want to make your fantasies real and actually go through with it? Or do you just come to tease and meet some fun people?

For me, I currently just come here to hang out and chat with a few people. When I first came to Lit about a year and a half ago, I was looking and hoping to make not just a sexual connection, but more. I was quick to realize, that though people have hooked up from meeting here, the odds of that happening (for something more than a meetup to fuck), is in the territory of Powerball odds of happening.

Trading sexual fantasies to someone on the other side of a screen, or at the other end of a phone, yeah I get that people enjoy that and get a certain satisfaction from it, but I don't. It just leaves me cold. I'm sorry, but that's just the way that I am about it.

And I'll confess that one of the reasons that I still come to Lit, is on that remote chance that lightening will strike, and meet that one person who'll spark something between us. I'm not planning my future around it, but it would be nice if it did happen.

I don't know if that answers your initial question, but it's the best that I can do for me.

And with that I'm out of here...

 

[may_I_please]

I just like to flirt and have some playful banter

No deep meaning

 

[ashik09]

I just want to exchange fantasies with like-minded people, as well as have a bit of banter. Lit's a way of blowing off steam from the harsh realities of life, hence why I avoid the GB.

 

[done_got_old]

I'm not looking to meet anyone or live out a fantasy. I first came after reading a few stories. I stayed because of the people and the games. Almost all of those people have left, so it's me and the games.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

For me, I currently just come here to hang out and chat with a few people. When I first came to Lit about a year and a half ago, I was looking and hoping to make not just a sexual connection, but more. I was quick to realize, that though people have hooked up from meeting here, the odds of that happening (for something more than a meetup to fuck), is in the territory of Powerball odds of happening.

Trading sexual fantasies to someone on the other side of a screen, or at the other end of a phone, yeah I get that people enjoy that and get a certain satisfaction from it, but I don't. It just leaves me cold. I'm sorry, but that's just the way that I am about it.

And I'll confess that one of the reasons that I still come to Lit, is on that remote chance that lightening will strike, and meet that one person who'll spark something between us. I'm not planning my future around it, but it would be nice if it did happen.

I don't know if that answers your initial question, but it's the best that I can do for me.

And with that I'm out of here...

*Wondertwin powers... ACTIVATE*

 

[Farawyn]

Came here for kicks, and made real, deep friendships, one in particular.

Still like the kicks online. Offline, I love the love.

JS and RA, don't give up.

 

[Leigh81]

I come on here to chat, post in mostly PG threads, flirt some, the banter & to learn from other people's experiences.
I'm opposite of most people here as I don't want to hookup, cyber, find a special connection or anything like that. I'm not really a social media person as the Lit is it for me.
For me, I need actually physical contact & am lucky to be married to a wonderful man who let's me explore my bi side & also play with others together.
I had a bad experience on here over 2 years ago so I'm turned off exploring my bi sexuality here.

L

 

[bigcpl4fun]

Was on here many years ago and really enjoyed the banter. Made a few friends but never got to meet any of them, unfortunately. There's still one around and she's an extraordinary person. Was glad to still find her around.

Right now, there's plenty of guys we could get together with, sight unseen. One wonders. While we'd love to pick up again on our adventures, we're very choosy, so we shall see.

Until then, there's the games and the banter with some nice people around...

 

[SithLordSexyPants1]

I'm married and my sex drive is higher than my wife's.
I would never cheat on her physically / in-person.

I come here for playful flirting, the joking around, some fantasy escape if I wind up cybering with someone, online friendships that may (or may not) become off-line friendships.

But in no way shape or form am I looking for an on-line hookup to be an off-line hookup. It's just all online escapist fun be it cyber, flirting, dirty talk, or other fun.

 

[ydahecnot]

I come here mainly to try to make Roo guffaw.

 

[done_got_old]

Was on here many years ago and really enjoyed the banter. Made a few friends but never got to meet any of them, unfortunately. There's still one around and she's an extraordinary person. Was glad to still find her around.

Right now, there's plenty of guys we could get together with, sight unseen. One wonders. While we'd love to pick up again on our adventures, we're very choosy, so we shall see.

Until then, there's the games and the banter with some nice people around...

You're one of the few people who's been here longer than me! That makes you ooolld!

 

[bigcpl4fun]

You're one of the few people who's been here longer than me! That makes you ooolld!

Thanks, I needed that. I was getting a swelled head...

 

[socalgrl]

Nice thread! I am here just to play. I am not looking for any "personal" connections and I would warn those who are looking for that here. I feel free to say any of the naughty things that cross my mind without feeling judged. I don't have that anywhere else in my life, so Lit is great for me

 

[Spins]

It is a good time waste, there are boobs, and, on rare occasions, someone special pops out and there is a connection worth pursing.

I've been here a long time, maybe too long, but I have met several people from here, fucked a couple, was in a relationship with a couple of others, and still I meet people who intrigue me. Are they the alpha and omega? Probably not, but it is nice to pick someone's brain, feel a connection, see some boobs.

There are powerball chances of finding the one (if the one exists) and God knows there is more drama and nonsense here that there has any right to be.

Maybe we are all damaged goods and we search in vain...

Maybe we just need to escape...

Maybe we have no idea what we are doing and so find solace in the fact so many other people don't seem to know what they are doing either.

 

[THROBBS]

Most of us come to LIT because we may feel something is missing in our life or to express our fantasies without being judged or to make some kind of sexual connection. OK not by any means the whole list of reasons.

As far as our sexual fantasies are concerned, I am curious. Do you just want to play and fantasize here? Do you want to meet someone to share your fantasies on-line? Would you want to make your fantasies real and actually go through with it? Or do you just come to tease and meet some fun people?

yup.

 

[done_got_old]

Thanks, I needed that. I was getting a swelled head...

That's better than ED!

 

[makemewet69]

Most of us come to LIT because we may feel something is missing in our life or to express our fantasies without being judged or to make some kind of sexual connection. OK not by any means the whole list of reasons.

As far as our sexual fantasies are concerned, I am curious. Do you just want to play and fantasize here? Do you want to meet someone to share your fantasies on-line? Would you want to make your fantasies real and actually go through with it? Or do you just come to tease and meet some fun people?

When I first joined Lit, I just wanted to read and write stories. Then I found the boards and decided I wanted to flirt some. Then I saw a post by a super sexy fella by the name of cjontherocks and I decided to go out of my comfort zone and message. We began exchanging PMs, then emails, then skype messages, and skype calls. What began as a joke in one of our first conversations "hey ______ is in the middle of where we live if you want to meet sometime" became reality when I sent him the address of the hotel I'd be staying at in _______ and told him I wouldn't be upset if he showed up. He showed up and what started as sharing fantasies in writing has turned into making our fantasies come true for each other in real life every time we're together.
I never in a million years thought I would meet someone online. I don't know that I would ever do something like that again. It was a matter of right time, right place, and most importantly right person. We just clicked.
He made one of my fantasies come true last night...I have always fantasizes about having my pantyhose torn at the crotch and then be fucked. I wore fishnets last night and he ripped them to shreds while I smiled and giggled. I know that if there's ever anything I want to do or try, he will make it happen. And the same goes for him. If he wants it, I'll see to it that he gets it. And this adventure all started right here in the Playground.

 

[makemewet69]

I'll add that I have stuck around because I enjoy posting photos and posting in threads from time to time. My dirty talking days are behind me, but I think most everyone here knows that I am a genuine good person and if you need a friend to talk to I'm here.

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

I'll add that I have stuck around because I enjoy posting photos and posting in threads from time to time. My dirty talking days are behind me, but I think most everyone here knows that I am a genuine good person and if you need a friend to talk to I'm here.

*smiles* Plus, she's totally hawt to ogle.

I came here for the stories, like a lot of people. Probably originally back in 2001 or so. I was just a horny teenager looking for fapping material. Then sometime around 2003, I joined under the name Needfull Thing. I found the forums and started posting, not sure why. I guess part of me WAS looking for a love connection. I had a lot of conflict with people here, wasn't that great at managing boundaries. I shared way too much of my personal crap, without any realistic expectation of what that would mean.

But out of that came the loss of my virginity, and while the relationship was doomed to failure (she was married) I had a lot of fun and some great sex. I met her here on the Playground. I was 25.

After that ended, I left for a long time. In the great exodus, I found myself joining Dryerlint. Honestly, that was a mistake, I never fit in there, wasn't pretty enough.

Years passed. I grew up some and I met a woman from here again, in 2009. I moved to Alabama in 2010 and came back to rejoin Lit as Nevyn Black in 2011.

Our relationship lasted until 2016.

I think that I stay here because, I grew up here. Honestly, so much of my life has been tangled up with Literotica. 15 years is a long damned time. I'm 34 now and single again. While I wouldn't be adverse to meeting someone, I'm aware that no one in her right mind would ever consider me Prince Charming. Or Brad Pitt.

All in all, though this journey as been a fulfilling one. This place has been good to me in many ways. The trick is to have no expectations.

 

[Lunation]

This is a porn site?

That explains SO much...

 

[Farawyn]

This is a porn site?

That explains SO much...

Best answer.

 

[bigcpl4fun]

This is a porn site?

That explains SO much...

Best answer.

Used to be a lot better porn site before the 2005 posting changes...