so hard to find a dom/dominant mommy

[MTlovesCF]

I know guys all the time are looking for this, but it's really hard for a submissive guy to find a dominant woman or dominant mommy to play or rp with I hate to be all "poor me" but I post on the personals all the time and just can't find anybody to chat with!!

does anybody else feel this way? or am i just not doing something right or what?

 

[seela]

The balance is very tilted. There seems to be lots more men than women everywhere online, especially on sex sites.

I took a look at some of the threads you've started. I think one of your problems is that you tell very little about yourself and write only about sex stuff. Maybe writing a bit more rounded ad would help. Even if you only want to talk about sex stuff, I think most women want to be somehow attracted to the person too, and not only to their body. So write about yourself as a person, not only as a list of sexual preferences

Write about what you have to offer as well, not only what you want to get from the exchange.

 

[MTlovesCF]

thanks for the thoughtful reply. I just dunno what to say other than what I want sexually, since the other stuff kinda doesn't matter if we are just going to have an ongoing sexual relationship my info is kinda sparse because i am trying to be discreet

 

[MeekMe]

thanks for the thoughtful reply. I just dunno what to say other than what I want sexually, since the other stuff kinda doesn't matter if we are just going to have an ongoing sexual relationship my info is kinda sparse because i am trying to be discreet

Most people don't want to be a fetish delivery system. When you write things like, "I'm bored, wanna chat?" You are shooting yourself in the foot. I can't think of many people that want to entertain a stranger because said stranger is bored (which says you have time on your hands and are not very creative).

I read some of your ads, and they don't really say anything but "I just need someone to give me my fantasies and I don't really care who does it as long as I get off." That's really unappealing, IMO. The person on the other side wants to get something out of this as well. If you don't have anything to offer, why would they contact you? Out of all the other men looking to have their asses pounded, what makes you special?

Also, the discreet bit turns a lot of people away.

 

[MTlovesCF]

thanks for the tips! this is actually kind of obvious but good advice!

 

[MTlovesCF]

thanks for the tips! this is actually kind of obvious but good advice!