so...are subs a bit wimpy?

[INSIDEYOURMIND]

It could be you have no chocolate because you are wimpy.......

In all seriousness, I can only speak of my little girl, she is as far from a wimp as one could be.

In her day to day dealings with people, they quickly come to realize that she is confident, direct, and will not accept an answer unless she can be shown it is correct.

Her submission to me is based on love, honor, respect, and trust, she gives herself fully, and confidently, and I like to say proudly.

Being a wimp really has no place in this lifestyle, it could lead to someone getting hurt, physically as well as mentally.

I am sure I will never hear her say "I will gladly pay you Tuesday, for a hamburger today!"

 

[Joe Schmoe]

i have no chocolate!!!

i might have neglected to buy some...but what i think really happened is that he stole it, then used hypnosis to make me forget.

i think i hate him

You only think? Man, I must be losing my touch.

 

[Marquis]

Subs are fucking pussies.

Let's be honest, subs are just people who could never cut it as Doms. We make them feel better about it by saying that we could never do that, and how special they are. That's like telling a dude working at McDonald's that he's so brave because you could never manage the self-sacrifice it would take to earn $15K a year!

Way to go minimum wage earner! You play a vital role in the economy!

Suck my fucking dick like you mean it you sub bitches.

NOW!

 

[dolf]

Subs are fucking pussies.

Let's be honest, subs are just people who could never cut it as Doms. We make them feel better about it by saying that we could never do that, and how special they are. That's like telling a dude working at McDonald's that he's so brave because you could never manage the self-sacrifice it would take to earn $15K a year!

Way to go minimum wage earner! You play a vital role in the economy!

Suck my fucking dick like you mean it you sub bitches.

NOW!

you'd really trust me with your dick in my mouth?
think carefully before you answer

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Subs are fucking pussies.

Let's be honest, subs are just people who could never cut it as Doms. We make them feel better about it by saying that we could never do that, and how special they are. That's like telling a dude working at McDonald's that he's so brave because you could never manage the self-sacrifice it would take to earn $15K a year!

Way to go minimum wage earner! You play a vital role in the economy!

Suck my fucking dick like you mean it you sub bitches.

NOW!

Oh my.......laughs..................awwwwww just gotta love a sadist that can be a little ray of sunshine in such a harsh world just to bring others Joy.

Thank you Marquis your generosity is profound .....smiles

 

[His_pita]

Subs are fucking pussies.

Let's be honest, subs are just people who could never cut it as Doms. We make them feel better about it by saying that we could never do that, and how special they are. That's like telling a dude working at McDonald's that he's so brave because you could never manage the self-sacrifice it would take to earn $15K a year!

Way to go minimum wage earner! You play a vital role in the economy!

Suck my fucking dick like you mean it you sub bitches.

NOW!

Your post always turn me on so much. I just love Dom's that know how to put a sub in her place.

And I am not wimpy at all. Unless I see a bug of course.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I like the way you think woman!

Subs as pussies?

I think not. It takes one hell of a person to relinquish all power to another individual. You must be fearless to do so.

I work in forensic psychiatry as a professional. It is a dangerous job in which I put my very life on the line daily. I am the one in charge in that scenario and tell others how to act and what to think all day long but when I get home I like nothing better than being told what to do. I get a visceral thrill when told to " ... bend over ... " or to "suck my dick ... now!"

A pussy? Not I!

you'd really trust me with your dick in my mouth?
think carefully before you answer

 

[Red Sonja]

I like the way you think woman!

Subs as pussies?

I think not. It takes one hell of a person to relinquish all power to another individual. You must be fearless to do so.

I work in forensic psychiatry as a professional. It is a dangerous job in which I put my very life on the line daily. I am the one in charge in that scenario and tell others how to act and what to think all day long but when I get home I like nothing better than being told what to do. I get a visceral thrill when told to " ... bend over ... " or to "suck my dick ... now!"

A pussy? Not I!

I agree... to a point. For me that point is the notion that it is fearlessness that makes it possible for me to relinquish power to my Dh. It is, in fact, trust that makes it possible.

I couldn't, for example, relinquish power to someone I didn't know. That is, of course, just my opinion and my experience. Although the visceral thrill thing is dead on accurate.

 

[shy slave]

tattle tale

i heard a couple of people were complaining that i don't cause trouble here anymore...and shy_slave's whining voice really grinds!!!

gotta love her though.

My voice doesn't whine and whine and whine. Reeeaaalllyyyyy it dosn't.

Nagging, thats a different matter. I have qualifications in nagging

But its fucking great to see you here dolf, and what a buzz people actually reading your post and taking it seriously!!!

If that happens, you have been gone too long.

As for your q.

Yep I am a wimp , not a 'bit wimpy' but terribly pathetic and unable to function without his telling me what to say and how to act.

I can't think or act for myself in any way shape or form, without him explaining what he wants me to do or telling me how to do it.

That includes washing, brushing my teeth and what to wear.

I have not spoken to him this morning so its 6.40pm here, I am not washed or dressed because he hasn't told me to.

Of course, everyone here knows how wimpy I am already.

 

[dolf]

i really wish he'd tell me to go to the loo...i'll never get the stains off this patch of floor.

i could get used to this being taken seriously lark

 

[graceanne]

Of course, everyone here knows how wimpy I am already.

A wimp, eh? Then gimme all your chocolate, wimp.

I like it when you're a wimp.

 

[Xelebes]

Weak? No.

Shy? Maybe.

 

[Marquis]

What strength is there in shyness?

 

[Blushing Bottom]

What strength is there in shyness?

There of course is no strenght in shyness. But is it difficult to understand that submssion is not always about weakness and can be about balance?

 

[Marquis]

There of course is no strenght in shyness. But is it difficult to understand that submssion is not always about weakness and can be about balance?

I couldn't agree more. The delicate sucker/suckee balance which must be diligently preserved.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Yes but doesn't trust create a sense of fearlessness?

I agree... to a point. For me that point is the notion that it is fearlessness that makes it possible for me to relinquish power to my Dh. It is, in fact, trust that makes it possible.

I couldn't, for example, relinquish power to someone I didn't know. That is, of course, just my opinion and my experience. Although the visceral thrill thing is dead on accurate.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

and now you're being sarcastic.

I couldn't agree more. The delicate sucker/suckee balance which must be diligently preserved.

 

[Kajira Callista]

and now you're being sarcastic.

lol i dont think he was.

 

[Marquis]

and now you're being sarcastic.

Sarcasm is the only way to respond to a topic like this seriously.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Sarcasm is the only way to respond to a topic like this seriously.

Or ...

http://www.american-buddha.com/ahelnew90.jpg

 

[Red Sonja]

lol i dont think he was.

Oh... I do. The blow job thing doesn't do much for the man, at least according to the oral worship thread...

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Ah ... I see now and stand corrected.

Being the novice I am I sometimes forget that for some D/s is not just about the bedroom or about a "life style." It is apart of life.

Sarcasm is the only way to respond to a topic like this seriously.

 

[Xelebes]

What strength is there in shyness?

Strength is subjective or contextual. Usually a combination of both. A term as vague as love.

 

[marieR19]

And I am not wimpy at all. Unless I see a bug of course.

lol Oh man, that is sooooo me. It's really pathetic, actually, how freaked out I am when it comes to bugs.
I'm not a "wimp" exactly, but I sure as hell am not take-charge or a leader or anything like that. Shy, follow-the-crowd, go along with what others what so as not to make a fuss, calm, etc. That's me. Now, when you get to know me really well, especially if I'm having problems with my meds.... That's when you get either the reallllly wimpy or the reallll control-freak and fucked-up part of me.


Heather

 

[Betticus]

Hell no.

Disregarding players, who just role play for a fun night makin' whoopie, and masochists, (yes, I know that submission and masochist aren't mutually inclusive or exclusive of each other) the majority of people who acknowledge their submission and act on it have brass balls.

A male sub is going against several hundred years of tradition and conditioning, as well as genetic memory. I've always felt that while submission is a choice, there is a genetic disposition toward dominance. Over time, the dominant male has evolved because the submissive males failed to compete effectively. In my mind, this is not a physical characteristic, but a mental/emotional one. So you can have a big brawny sub like Bronn, or a smaller, less physically intimidating Dominant like ciara's dad. But her dad's not a physical wimp, just not as big and tough looking as bronn is. His aura of quiet confidence though, has subs flocking to him like flies to honey whenever they're at a bdsm function. It takes balls to stand up to centuries of evolution as well as a very macho society.

Femsubs are just as brave. I don't think the genetic disposition toward submission plays as strongly into her makeup as the dominance gene does for men. This is because even in cultures where women are submissive, there is a definite hierarchy to the women. Each has a place in the community, and each is striving to maintain her place. Some of course, strive to climb in the social structure of the pack. But a lot of femsubs in my generation are the children (or even grandchildren, in some cases) of the feminist movement. These women face censure from society for choosing to follow their heart's lead into a life of submission, and then a lot of femsubs are demanding their due as human beings in society too. So even as the feminist archetype condemns her for being a submissive and dragging the movement back 50 years, the macho society is also condemning her for demanding the respect in society that she is due. You can be a submissive feminist CEO, but to face that sort of conflict and have the balls to follow through is breath-taking. It makes me love them even more. I love playing with the malesubs, and have considered having a relationship with one or two special boys. But the ones I truly love, the ones who take my breath away are the femsubs, who struggle so hard to be accepted.

I'm still miffed at you for not ever meeting me. Snowy too. She is as elusive as the fountain of youth. And now she doesn't even talk to me. Such a cold world I tell you.

You at least had no choice but to go home. I hear you have this totally cool organic farm going on. I wanna come up and milk a cow!