So… that happened… Megan’s thread

[BornNorCal]

You're at an important crossroads where you are weighing cost. But you both have also grown and changed so much that it's doubtful you can go backwards. I think you need to ask yourself what you really want? And then accept the reality that you can't have everything, all at once. Maybe most of the things... maybe even most of the important things!... but not everything.

 

[MeganFachs]

Fair. I don’t think I’ve hardly begun my sexual journey. I got pushed past a boundary recently playing here and it was intense. (My partner was very thoughtful and got permission to take me there so that helped make it so good).

 

[SissySalina]

Maybe it's time for both of you to sit down and have one of those "we are here and where are we going now" conversations.
It may help.

 

[Not Normal]

Hi friends, been a minute. Well I had COVID it turns out. Picked up in Canada on a work trip. Testing negative now and just getting through some lingering cough. Nothing that homeopathic cough syrup etc can’t handle.

So when I came home from Canada sick, hubby started sleeping in the sissy room each night. (He seems to have dodged the bug). We haven’t talked about it but he is still sleeping there. I mean I would put him to bed him to bed there sometimes as part of sex play, full sissy, diaper and some restraints to keep him in bed. Or just sissy but in chastity. Especially the few times I would have Waiter or Heidi over for the night.

I don’t know, just feels like that is “her” room now and sleeping apart is the new norm… I’m conflicted about it. It has allowed me to immersively play with a couple friends here, doing everything in real time without worrying about waking Hubby. Those experiences have been intense and boundary breaking. Extraordinary. Perhaps I’m selfish but I don’t want to give that up.

We are still intimate at times but mostly it is sex play. I mean I give him my strapon cock deep in his sissy pussy with love but we aren’t making love when I fuck him. And he doesn’t fuck me. Oral is nice but… not the same.

I’m relishing my sex life that he asked me to create for myself. But it is mostly my experiences, not ours. I don’t know, it doesn’t feel like a big thing but its… a thing.

My wife and I have separate bedrooms and we're quite happy about it. We never have the "you kept me up all night" type arguments, can hog the bed, and even have different temperatures.

 

[cubbies4vrs]

My wife and I have separate bedrooms and we're quite happy about it. We never have the "you kept me up all night" type arguments, can hog the bed, and even have different temperatures.

Same,but I do miss being able to stick my hard on into a warm pussy. Lol

 

[Not Normal]

Same,but I do miss being able to stick my hard on into a warm pussy. Lol

I still get to do that, just not if I wake up in the middle of the night with a hardon.

 

[cubbies4vrs]

I still get to do that, just not if I wake up in the middle of the night with a hardon.

I wonder, if she is or has been thinking of fucking someone else.

 

[MeganFachs]

Maybe it's time for both of you to sit down and have one of those "we are here and where are we going now" conversations.
It may help.

Talked about having a talk. Should happen tonight.

 

[MeganFachs]

I’ve got an appointment with my therapist this afternoon. Perfect timing because I’ve been spending a lot of time on sex and having some… extreme experiences with some people here. Very intensely pleasurable to be sure and kind of mind-bendy but I’m doing it at the sacrifice of sleep. I was doing some crazy stuff at 4am last night and I’m suffering today with my job. I need to get her feedback if this going too far, how do I keep this sexual exploration healthy. Messing with my sleep and work life isn’t sustainable clearly. Anyway, we’ll see what she advises.

 

[JusticeGrey]

I’ve got an appointment with my therapist this afternoon. Perfect timing because I’ve been spending a lot of time on sex and having some… extreme experiences with some people here. Very intensely pleasurable to be sure and kind of mind-bendy but I’m doing it at the sacrifice of sleep. I was doing some crazy stuff at 4am last night and I’m suffering today with my job. I need to get her feedback if this going too far, how do I keep this sexual exploration healthy. Messing with my sleep and work life isn’t sustainable clearly. Anyway, we’ll see what she advises.

It can be really difficult to maintain your "normal" life and take care of the rest of your needs when you spend prolonged periods of time taking care of your sexual (and other closely related) needs. I will often miss meals, get insufficient sleep, or not get enough work done due to being distracted by sex.

It will be good if you can get (and stay) on top of this now so the other aspects of your life don't suffer too much while you indulge, explore, and fulfill your sexual being.

 

[asxymann68]

Dopamine addiction is a bitch.

 

[MeganFachs]

So I’m on a prescription to get good sleep for two weeks. No lit forums after 10pm my time.

 

[Purple_Fronds]

I’ve got an appointment with my therapist this afternoon. Perfect timing because I’ve been spending a lot of time on sex and having some… extreme experiences with some people here. Very intensely pleasurable to be sure and kind of mind-bendy but I’m doing it at the sacrifice of sleep. I was doing some crazy stuff at 4am last night and I’m suffering today with my job. I need to get her feedback if this going too far, how do I keep this sexual exploration healthy. Messing with my sleep and work life isn’t sustainable clearly. Anyway, we’ll see what she advises.

Balance is always important, take care plenty of time for sexy fun.

 

[Fufumberuk]

I’ve got an appointment with my therapist this afternoon. Perfect timing because I’ve been spending a lot of time on sex and having some… extreme experiences with some people here. Very intensely pleasurable to be sure and kind of mind-bendy but I’m doing it at the sacrifice of sleep. I was doing some crazy stuff at 4am last night and I’m suffering today with my job. I need to get her feedback if this going too far, how do I keep this sexual exploration healthy. Messing with my sleep and work life isn’t sustainable clearly. Anyway, we’ll see what she advises.

Sex is addictive! Everything in moderation.

 

[MeganFachs]

Sex is addictive! Everything in moderation.

Yep, that’s what I’m trying to manage

 

[JonathanBair]

So I’m on a prescription to get good sleep for two weeks. No lit forums after 10pm my time.

Take care of your self, I do enjoy writing with you but do not want to see it harming you.... Real life comes first...

 

[MeganFachs]

Well, thank you. I am bending the rules being here after 10pm but no cybersex and getting good sleep. Focusing on the people in my offline life. Over at Heidi’s, heading to bed soon. Best sleep ever.

 

[stargame]

(((((((((Hugs))))))))))

 

[JonathanBair]

I am proud of you, keep taking the good healthy steps!

 

[MeganFachs]

Hubby is back in bed with me tonight and unless something forces the issue, he’ll be here regularly. Right call and result of our recent discussion.

Also easier for him to give me a good morning tongue job or me to grab my strapon and rail him as a “good morning my darling sissy slut”

 

[JonathanBair]

THAT SOUND HOT!!!!!!!

 

[MeganFachs]

THAT SOUND HOT!!!!!!!

I’ll remember that’s what you really want ha ha

 

[JonathanBair]

I do think it is hot how you would use your strap-on with your hubby treating him like the sissy he is..... I would rather wear a chin strap on and have your ass slide up and down the shaft of the toy sticking up from my chin so I can eat your pussy out....

 

[MeganFachs]

I’ve never used a chin dildo but it sounds interesting

 

[JonathanBair]

chin strap on dildo or chin strap on vibrator The dildo is very old, but as you can see they got some BOB's for a woman to enjoy...