Snuggling Can Be Erotic

[espressolover]

I think so too...
Holding tightly...breathing coming in gasps, kissing deliriously.
Oh boy, I better stop right here!

 

[sufisaint]

so true

to breathe their breath
where touch and touched are one
to look into anothers eyes
and feel nothing but love

Thats what its all about!!!!!!!

 

[whspr]

Awwwwwww...that was great....sufisaint

soft kisses.
whspr

 

[espressolover]

Beautiful post, sufisaint. Thank you for sharing with us.

 

[on_the_verge]

You know I meant what I stated and experienced. I would love to not have to appease to anyone's liking and desire, but I had an experience to share:

I met a girl online through Yahoo, one of my better online meetings, thank you all. Anyway, she came to NYC to finally meet me. It was nice to finally see her as she arrived, after waiting for that "first meeting." Bear in mind we were meeting as friends. She got settled and we finally out. It was a nice night dancing at Webster Hall in NYC and we finally took a break. We started talking about how we met and why we are finally face-to-face. We suddenly realized we had an attraction towards each other. We held hands and kissed softly…tenderly over our new friendship and took a cab home hand-in-hand. We arrived at my flat and I let her undress me. She slipped my pants off to discover I did not have underwear, which I do not wear. We were so gentle and caressing, a juxtaposition to where I am a lover that is dominating and very aggressive. I kissed and held every part of her body against the backdrop of my room and the soft light radiating before us. I gave her whole body such attention and kissed every inch of her youthful skin and we radiated and held a glow of two friends discovering an intimacy unexpected. I licked and sucked her folds, entered her with my manicured hands and looked in her eyes as her mouth gaped open with my touches. She was not aggressive and dominant as other lovers, but I relished her before me and took my time as we were unfolding our inner desires for each other. It was 4 am and we feel asleep, but I held her and wrapped my legs around hers—my flaccid sex draped over her leg, but our hearts beating and resting together.

I awoke the next day as she slept in my bed. I was taken back and admired her beauty, her nakedness in my home. I gazed at her for 30 minutes and watched the snippets of sunlight caress her body, the body and friend that I we connected with. I crawled towards her and snuck under the covers. I inhaled the scent of her sex, brought her closer to me and licked her folds. She stirred and I brought my tongue closer to her velvety lips. Her hips moved and raked undulating with a morning pleasure and I licked and sucked her creamy nectar. I stopped to look at her between her legs. She looked at me with sleep in her eyes and told me that is a wonderful way to be waken up. I reached over to her and held her, my sex grazing over her flesh. I looked in her eyes, held her and told her, "being with you right now is better than sex because we are embracing a friendship that holds no bounds over love, but the appreciation that we are together in each other's arms."

Usually, I am dominant and can take a lover like an animal, but at times I desire what I share and have shared with a cuddle with others…

 

[sandiego_gordo]

many moods....

so much of the sexual experience is the mood. And there are so many moods that can go with the sexual experience. It's really great to read about how much other people are appreciating the snuggling side of their sexuality cause it's not the side that usually gets the attention.

Hey, like verge said, we might be more on the aggressive side most of the time, or at least we might remember those moments more vividly, but sometimes that quiet mood is appropriate and what is more beautiful than that, than as verge talked about, watching the light change across the smooth skin of your sleeping lover or just feeling her warm body melting into yours as a mean old thunderstorm booms across the sky over your head.

gordo

 

[sufisaint]

glad you like it

was heartfelt...

 

[whspr]

Left for a few Minutes....

I came back to see some great posts. I love seeing this side
of everyone because this is the side I desire the most.
I love "playing"...being wild and passionate...but when
all is said and done....I will take snuggling and cuddling over
everything. That's when I get to share my heart......

soft kisses,
Whspr

 

[Dracoa]

Yeah,
I love all the mushy stuff....
cuddling, touching holding hands at the movies.
Resting my head on a guy's shoulders.

Now all I need is the guy!
*Sigh!*

I agree with most of that, only part I disagree with I will say change to fit me.

Now all I need is the woman!

 

[sufisaint]

it all a matter

it all a matter of being loved...everything else follows

 

[espressolover]

Dracoa you're right...
it's so hard to find someone!

 

[whspr]

I was feeling kinda lonely and in need of snuggling...
but you all have made me feel good...such great
thoughts of the special feelings we all enjoy....

soft kisses,
Whspr

 

[on_the_verge]

Just lovely…

 

[zantac666]

SNUGGLING

I love to snuggle or cuddle the softness of the skin the warmth of her breath on my neck i love to fall asleep with her in my harms. I whisper words in her ear kiss her neck nibble on her ears kiss her down her spine and all over her body i do not have to have sex to me just pleasing her with warm oil massages and giving her a bath is fun.

 

[espressolover]

zantac, you sound wonderful...I like that so many people have had romantic responses like this.
Thank you for sharing that with us.

 

[whspr]

Yea Zantac

Those are the kind of responses we love....
Lots of men won't give in to the soft snuggling
side that lies within them....

soft kisses,
Whspr

 

[on_the_verge]

Re: Yea Zantac

Those are the kind of responses we love....
Lots of men won't give in to the soft snuggling
side that lies within them....

soft kisses,
Whspr

YAWN! Good morning Lit! Rubbing eyes and my hands are still half asleep—better make coffee.

Whisper Whspr, it's that *some* men may feel if they reveal their sensitive snuggly side *some* women may think they are "soft." Great sex and a bonding intimacy does not mean the act of copulating, but the beginning of the sensual draw and seduction towards it, the act and cuddling and caressing each other afterwards. It's the whispers and soft tones of what happened and how each other felt. The ability to communicate about each other and hold onto what feels good or could be better with sex and with each other.

 

[whspr]

Morning on_the_verge

You my Dear are quite the exception....Snuggling to
you is an art...I love looking at your pictures...
you can paint for me any day <big smile>

Soft Kisses,
Whspr

 

[on_the_verge]

Re: Morning on_the_verge

You my Dear are quite the exception....Snuggling to
you is an art...I love looking at your pictures...
you can paint for me any day <big smile>

Soft Kisses,
Whspr

Coffee brewing…

Discovering a body is like a canvas and you can paint over it many times. Each new layers are like passages of time and visions. You can use many mediums, brushes and strokes or apply the medium liberally with one's hands or fingers. "You can paint fo rme any day," aww, you say that to all the boys and men.

Thank you for the compliment of the pictures. I enjoy being the subject and the capturing of a moment.

 

[Jaenelle]

I know what you mean, all I need is the guy. I love to snuggle, kiss, and the playfull touches, it is all so very arotic.

*sighs*

 

[whspr]

Say that to all the boys....

Ahhhhhhhh but you are wrong.....not ALL the boys....
I'm not that easy....LoL....I'm picky in a sense...
Your pictures are delightful no matter what medium
you use....<smiles>


Soft kisses.
Whspr

 

[on_the_verge]

Re: Say that to all the boys....

Ahhhhhhhh but you are wrong.....not ALL the boys....
I'm not that easy....LoL....I'm picky in a sense...
Your pictures are delightful no matter what medium
you use....<smiles>


Soft kisses.
Whspr

Such compliments in the morning! Sensually touching, kissing and holding is best for me in the mornings. There is nothing like waking from a deep slumber to be enriched with a lover over the snippets of sunlight piercing through the windows. The birds are chirping over breathes that rise and fall over caressing and melding of two bodies. Each other's skin is raw and refreshed from the night and then the walls begin to ingnite that warm glow, embracing with the sunlight as two lovers tango over each other in bed.

 

[espressolover]

What a wonderful thing to wake up to this morning, on_the_verge...
Thank you so much. You just made my world a more beautiful place.

I wish like Jaenelle, that there were more men in tune with their gentle, nurturing sides.

 

[Jaenelle]

I wish like Jaenelle, that there were more men in tune with their gentle, nurturing sides.
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I agree with you, there are so many out there that think the rough side is what the ladies want to see.

*sighs*

 

[flashyfish]

Hope

Don't worry there are some...maybe more than you know...Never give up hope...The only problem is the distance between people...I read all these great post from women that give me hope of finding an equal...But there never from michigan...

I do see that whspr is from Ohio...Everytime I read the words soft kisses on your posts I get many tiggles in my body....sign...kepp posting please...And thanks for the PM...I plan on send you more of them...I hope you enjoy...

Fish