Sneaky masturbation

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I have a question for married ladies out there. Have you ever masturbated in bed next to your sleeping spouse? I recently found out that my spouse occasionally masturbates next to me in bed while I'm sleeping. I woke up one night and heard her breathing heavy and very lightly moaning, I just layed there and let her finish. The next day I asked about it and she tried to deny it until I explained that I wasn't upset and I heard her moaning. She said she was just really horny and didn't want to wake me. Then about two weeks later it was mid day and I didn't know she was in the bathroom and she forgot to lock the door, I ended up walking in and caught her fingering her pussy mid squirt. I asked her why she did that rather than have sex with me and she said every so often she just wants to cum quick and she gets off doing it next to me while I'm sleeping. I'm just wondering if other ladies masturbate in the bathroom or next to your sleeping spouse and how often do you sneaky masturbate in either place
 
Not sure about married women, but married men do it. My libido was much much higher than my wife at the time and as far as sex went, she could take it or leave it. It just wasn’t her thing and she didn’t really get off on it much at all. Had I not been told by other girlfriends that I was a great fuck and had a beautiful dick, I might have had a complex with my wife.
I digress, I found myself doing it at night slowly and gently. It took some time but I made a little game of not waking her. The ensuing orgasm was the hardest part because we tense up to milk it all out so oftentimes that’s when she felt it.
 
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Not sure about married women, but married men do it. My libido was much much higher than my wife at the time and as far as sex went, she could take it or leave it. It just wasn’t her thing and she didn’t really get off on it much at all. Had I not been told by other girlfriends that I was a great fuck and had a beautiful dick, I might have had a complex with my wife.
I digress, I found myself doing it at night slowly and gently. It took some time but I made a little game of not waking her. The ensuing orgasm was the hardest part because we tense up to milk it all out so oftentimes that’s when she felt it.
I'd like to see how beautiful it is 👀
 
This is one of my fantasies. I want to be in bed sleeping and wake up in the dark, quiet room to feel my wife shaking gently and softly moaning and breathing next to me. She’s trying to be quiet but I lay there just listening to her and I get hard knowing that she thinks I’m asleep and she’s pleasing herself right next to me. When she finishes, I’m hard and roll over to her and softly caress her boob and whisper and kiss her ear “that was so hot. Im so hard for you right now.”
I’ve told her this scenario before but she’s never done it for me. She feels weird pleasing herself without me participating. I told her “I’m right here next to you” but she hasn’t done it….yet
 
Yes, I have masturbated while hubby was sleeping beside me. I do enjoy masturbating at times when I have the urge and whether or not he wakes up or not I do enjoy and he has woken up while I have been masturbating and just lays there watching me please myself until I orgasm.
 
Yes, I have masturbated while hubby was sleeping beside me. I do enjoy masturbating at times when I have the urge and whether or not he wakes up or not I do enjoy and he has woken up while I have been masturbating and just lays there watching me please myself until I orgasm.
I often play with myself as my wife sleeps. Gentle strokes until im covered in cum.
 
Yup. She’s asleep so of necessity I take it nice and slow. It is actually pretty good as you can’t move or increase pace you have to just slowly keep pulling as you orgasm. Not moving as you are pumping out cum makes the orgasm more intense. My jizz can’t go far so-all over my hand and trickling between my thighs. Love it.
 
My wife's masturbation habits are the source of many of my fantasies. I find it so hot to think about how she pleases herself, what she's fantasizing about or looking at. To think of her doing in bed next to me while I sleep gets me hard! I've never her caught her doing that specifically, but I have walked in on her masturbating, usually when she wants to get caught as part of foreplay. But I know she masturbates when I'm not around too, she's just not that open with me about her masturbation fantasies.

I have masturbated in bed while she sleeps. Slow build and intense orgasms as I blow my load quietly off the side of the bed onto the floor so I don't wake her by getting up to clean up.
 
My wife's masturbation habits are the source of many of my fantasies. I find it so hot to think about how she pleases herself, what she's fantasizing about or looking at. To think of her doing in bed next to me while I sleep gets me hard! I've never her caught her doing that specifically, but I have walked in on her masturbating, usually when she wants to get caught as part of foreplay. But I know she masturbates when I'm not around too, she's just not that open with me about her masturbation fantasies.

I have masturbated in bed while she sleeps. Slow build and intense orgasms as I blow my load quietly off the side of the bed onto the floor so I don't wake her by getting up to clean up.
I love covering myself in cum as she sleeps. I like when she gets up a d sees evidence of my fun, she smiles at me then we have sex.
 
Yup. She’s asleep so of necessity I take it nice and slow. It is actually pretty good as you can’t move or increase pace you have to just slowly keep pulling as you orgasm. Not moving as you are pumping out cum makes the orgasm more intense. My jizz can’t go far so-all over my hand and trickling between my thighs. Love it.
This is what I used to do when my ex wife was sleeping next to me. Didn't want to wake her, so slow movements and trying to stay still as I orgasm and my cum pumps out all over my hand and balls. Very intense orgasm that way.
 
At the very beginning of our journey into swinging, after our first dinner w another couple - also thinking about swinging (neither of us had, but we agreed to meet to “see” if we might be interested), - my wife and I headed to the FL panhandle for a weeks vacation at the beach.

As you might expect, that dinner really got juices flowing, many questions arose, many secrets, long since locked away over 30 years together, started to unlock and reveal.

We came clean on each other’s past, something she was never willing to do before that time, and one secret/detail she shared, that, even as a young girl right up through that time, she had never really masturbated!

Well, that week was full of hot sex, fucking 2-3 times a day, her squirting and more talking and sharing.

It was in the midst of this “fuck week” that one night, I woke up to a “disturbance” - activity that I didn’t recognize as regular slumber.

Not wanting to disturb or scare her, I lay silently trying to confirm she was, in fact, rubbing one out. Sure enough, she was!! She woke up so horny she had to twiddle that little thing!

As I tried to slowly move my have over to help, she jumped/stopped. I whispered that it was OK, and it turns me on, and then ended up finishing her off with my fingers.

Since then she has been much more open about doing it, and tells me in the morning when she has during the night, - as it usually takes me longer to get her off with my mouth as I normally do in the morning, if she is rub one out during the night.

I still love “catching her” but now she doesn’t jump - she invites me to join!
 
I do this all the time. Almost every night while my husband is sleeping. I’m horny as fuck being pregnant and I’m definitely not holding back. Often I am grinding against my body pillow, leaving wet stains. Sometimes I leave a big dildo in me and just enjoy the full feeling for a while, pumping every so often to keep things flowing. I definitely make myself cum many times before sleep, while he’s sleeping. I’m prepping for that now. I’m horny as ever. My tits are out, playing with my nipples and slowly grinding up against my pillow.

I’m confident husband knows I do this, but he just lets me enjoy my pussy touching time while he sleeps.

He has a lower libido than me and values his sleep. Sometimes I crave his cock so much that I start touching myself and then have to wake him up by sucking him off.

I don’t care if he catches me doing it. I get turned on by the idea of him catching me, and I also like the idea of him not knowing.
This. Is. So. HOT.
Thank you for sharing.

And I awoke last night and felt the bed kind of shaking. I really thought my wife was rubbing herself next to me thinking I was asleep. I’ve told her this would turn me on so much and that I want her to, but she hasn’t done it yet. Anyways, my heart is pounding up in my throat I’m so excited that it’s actually happening. I try and calm down to listen better…and I hear her snoring. Haha!! She asleep and I’m just imagining things. Damnit!! 🤣🤣
Some day she’ll do it for me. 🙏🏼
 
All the time😆 sometimes he's asleep so quick after sex that I just wait for him to fall asleep and carry on myself. Sometimes i just dont want him involved.Many times on Chat or Lit. He's a heavy sleeper😁
If he wakes up,he might join in or watch but I do try to keep quiet.
I wouldn't be upset at all I just wish she would let me watch..... I would love to watch a woman orgasm ( I have when i have provided oral, but to see her totally in another place with her eyes closed, that would be wonderful ) .

When i was married i did have a few orgasms to completions while lying beside my ex-wife. I do wake up at times finding myself stroking, but if it is a real need to complete the deed, I go to the bathroom downstairs so as not to wake her.
 
Yes, I have masturbated to orgasm while my husband is sleeping next to me. If he woke up or knew, he's never said anything or let it be known. Our sex life is non existent at this point so yes, I do enjoy edging and masturbating when I have the urge.
If it’s non-existent- do you really care if he “catches” you? Do you desire him/it at all?
 
I'm sure there is the fear that he might ask what you were thinking about as your fingers strummed the right chords to make you sing that sweet song.....

we should all have the right to go to a place where we find pleasure.... and disclosing what it is that brings us to that place of wonder would be private
 
Lostsoul34 said:

Yes, I have masturbated to orgasm while my husband is sleeping next to me. If he woke up or knew, he's never said anything or let it be known. Our sex life is non existent at this point so yes, I do enjoy edging and masturbating when I have the urge.

So have I - listening to her gentle breathing as I bought myself to a climax. Sometimes she would stir as if vaguely aware of my secret pleasure and purr.
 
Lostsoul34 said:

Yes, I have masturbated to orgasm while my husband is sleeping next to me. If he woke up or knew, he's never said anything or let it be known. Our sex life is non existent at this point so yes, I do enjoy edging and masturbating when I have the urge.

So have I - listening to her gentle breathing as I bought myself to a climax. Sometimes she would stir as if vaguely aware of my secret pleasure and purr.
Ive done that in the past laying next to my ex wife when we were married. She lost interest in sex and I would often stroke myself next to her. Trying to go slowly as to not rock the bed and wake her. It is a great feeling cumming and trying not to move. Makes the orgasm more intense. On occasion, I have cum over her back or ass while she was sleeping
 
Lostsoul34 said:

Yes, I have masturbated to orgasm while my husband is sleeping next to me. If he woke up or knew, he's never said anything or let it be known. Our sex life is non existent at this point so yes, I do enjoy edging and masturbating when I have the urge.

So have I - listening to her gentle breathing as I bought myself to a climax. Sometimes she would stir as if vaguely aware of my secret pleasure and purr.
Sorry for your lack of but least you can enjoy me time 😉😉
 
My wife and I actually have a bet on this to see if either of us can get off while the other is sleeping in the same bed. We have a great sex life so neither of us have tried it yet. We also watch each other masterbate or masterbate together sometimes, so it wouldn’t be a shocker if I woke up and she was doing it but I’m a deep sleeper so I’d probably miss it. I asked her what she would do if she woke up and I was doing it and she said “probably watch”. She’s a keeper.
 
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