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I have this weird thing about a crying woman. Sometimes it gets me extremely hard. Yes, of course, during sex, them expressing pain is a turn on/draws more intensity from me ... but even just like, sitting across from me, crying, triggers something in me. My wife told me some of the best sex we've ever had is when she'd be crying after finding out I cheated on her.

Well... My wife and my step daughter get into it all the time. You could set your watch by it. This particular time, they had gotten into a yelling match in the car and my wife stormed into the building, slamming the door of the parking garage behind her, thus locking her daughter out of the building. Of course I notice that my step daughter isn't with her, and she's obviously enraged, and when I ask what's going on, she explains why I need to go retrieve her daughter from the garage.

I do. She's leaning against the wall, crying. Make up running down her face. She's already a beautiful girl, she just booked her first modeling gig. But the distressed look of the running make up instantly turned me on. When I open the door she looks at me for a brief second and basically boo hood into my chest.

I couldn't help it, I started getting hard on her. I'm 6'4", she's probably 5'3" or 5'4", all of 110 lbs, and I'm wearing kinda thin jogging pants. We just stand in the garage, hugging, she's crying, I'm growing and poking into her body.

After a few minutes of that, she says she's ready to go in and we do.

The next day, my wife leaves a little earlier than usual and it's just my step daughter and I. She's in the kitchen when I grabbed her by the hand and pulled her into another hug to tell her I love her, any I'll always make sure she's good. It really was just me wanting to make her feel better but again, I started getting hard on her. This time though, I could've sworn she pushed into me when she felt it. I kissed her on the forehead (I wanted to kiss her on the mouth so bad) and let her head on off to school.

Then I went in her room and rubbed her worn panties on my dick until I came on her dried juices.
 
I have this weird thing about a crying woman. Sometimes it gets me extremely hard. Yes, of course, during sex, them expressing pain is a turn on/draws more intensity from me ... but even just like, sitting across from me, crying, triggers something in me. My wife told me some of the best sex we've ever had is when she'd be crying after finding out I cheated on her.

Well... My wife and my step daughter get into it all the time. You could set your watch by it. This particular time, they had gotten into a yelling match in the car and my wife stormed into the building, slamming the door of the parking garage behind her, thus locking her daughter out of the building. Of course I notice that my step daughter isn't with her, and she's obviously enraged, and when I ask what's going on, she explains why I need to go retrieve her daughter from the garage.

I do. She's leaning against the wall, crying. Make up running down her face. She's already a beautiful girl, she just booked her first modeling gig. But the distressed look of the running make up instantly turned me on. When I open the door she looks at me for a brief second and basically boo hood into my chest.

I couldn't help it, I started getting hard on her. I'm 6'4", she's probably 5'3" or 5'4", all of 110 lbs, and I'm wearing kinda thin jogging pants. We just stand in the garage, hugging, she's crying, I'm growing and poking into her body.

After a few minutes of that, she says she's ready to go in and we do.

The next day, my wife leaves a little earlier than usual and it's just my step daughter and I. She's in the kitchen when I grabbed her by the hand and pulled her into another hug to tell her I love her, any I'll always make sure she's good. It really was just me wanting to make her feel better but again, I started getting hard on her. This time though, I could've sworn she pushed into me when she felt it. I kissed her on the forehead (I wanted to kiss her on the mouth so bad) and let her head on off to school.

Then I went in her room and rubbed her worn panties on my dick until I came on her dried juices.
Wow! So hot!!!
 
My guy gets turned off by tears. The natural ones just scare him away.

He came to me broken. Broken before he turned 13. 3 ex wives. 1 round of rehab for 30 days.

I know there has to be a trigger there somewhere.

I have my own triggers. We have learned to respect each other's triggers. So tears - I save for talking to my girlfriends.
 
My guy gets turned off by tears. The natural ones just scare him away.

He came to me broken. Broken before he turned 13. 3 ex wives. 1 round of rehab for 30 days.

I know there has to be a trigger there somewhere.

I have my own triggers. We have learned to respect each other's triggers. So tears - I save for talking to my girlfriends.
I understand. But we cant control our fetishes.
 
My ex-husband loved it when I would cry. It was one of the only things guaranteed to turn him on. This would never be about crying in the midst of sex, out of physical pain or anything. But if I was ever experiencing a moment of emotional weakness in his vicinity that brought me to tears, he was immediately hard. I have so many theories about the psychology surrounding this specifically where he was concerned, and none of them are great. lol
 
My ex-husband loved it when I would cry. It was one of the only things guaranteed to turn him on. This would never be about crying in the midst of sex, out of physical pain or anything. But if I was ever experiencing a moment of emotional weakness in his vicinity that brought me to tears, he was immediately hard. I have so many theories about the psychology surrounding this specifically where he was concerned, and none of them are great. lol
I would say he goes into protective mode as his reptilian brain responds to your tears as fear. Although getting an erection does nothing to protect you, it can change your thought process. I worked with a guy who got hard for a woman in a cast. A woman with an arm cast made him stumble over his words and act like a jerk. A woman came in in a leg cast on crutches. He had to leave the room.
 
I do relate to this.

When my wife told me soon after we met about how she lost her virginity (painful and she was v reluctant), she had tears in her eyes. I was sympathetic, but secretly very hard.

I also do enjoy when I climax during sex (which she insists is always gentle), that for those last few moments I can sense a real struggle and it’s too hard for her for that brief moment. Those pained sounds are a bit of a turn on too
 
My ex-husband loved it when I would cry. It was one of the only things guaranteed to turn him on. This would never be about crying in the midst of sex, out of physical pain or anything. But if I was ever experiencing a moment of emotional weakness in his vicinity that brought me to tears, he was immediately hard. I have so many theories about the psychology surrounding this specifically where he was concerned, and none of them are great. lol
I'm curious to hear! I can take it, lol
 
I'm curious to hear! I can take it, lol
Oh, I would never attribute his issues to anyone else, to be clear.
I would say he goes into protective mode as his reptilian brain responds to your tears as fear. Although getting an erection does nothing to protect you, it can change your thought process.
I wouldn’t attribute this to a ‘protective' response, as none of his actions ever reflected this in any way. Sexually or otherwise. Our relationship had become one where I had to shoulder responsibility for the lion’s share of our lives. As a result, the dynamic of our relationship had become one where I had to be in control of most of the aspects of our lives because he simply…wouldn’t. And yet he also resented this. I think he was aroused by seeing me vulnerable because it was one of the few moments during which he could feel powerful in relation to me. The sad thing is, I would have far preferred him to take responsibility for many, many more aspects of our lives. But he was an irresponsible person.
 
I've had partners cry from orgasms being overwhelming, or not allowing them to cum until I say so. It's always a huge complement when someone feels safe and comfortable enough with me to be vulnerable and let out whatever she's feeling.
 
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