Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) Humiliating things said or wish were said

[slavecaro]

I was trying to help someone do SPH scenes and I came up with a few examples of things she could say. I am sure there are a thousand more so I thought I would ask here. Please don't let this whole thread devolve into "My Bull boyfriend has a bigger cock" examples. I would like to see other more discrete ways to humiliate someone. Here are a few of my suggestions

• When being denied sex:
  • “No, you cannot bring me to orgasm. I am not letting you inside me”
  • “Apologize for having such a small penis that cannot please me. I want you to tell me you are sorry.”
  • I am with you for lots of reasons, but this penis isn’t one of them.
  • You’re going to have to grow a little bit down there if you want me to want sex with you.
  • I don’t want to fuck you but I want to see you jack that little thing off
• While having sex:
  • "Don’t talk to me when I'm masturbating you will ruin my orgasms"
  • “I know this feels good for you, but it will never give me an orgasm. Your cock is not enough. I wish you could make me cum. Get off and lick me."
• Making fun of small flaccid penis
  • “that’s definitely not capable of pleasing me
  • “You masturbate so much you cannot even get hard”
  • “With that dildo filling you up you cannot get hard. How are you going to please me?”
  • "That will never please me"
  • "Can it get bigger"
  • "That’s pathetic that you cannot get it any bigger than 2 inches"
  • "Pathetic limp dick sissy"

I look forward to learning

 

[whenagain]

One time while having sex shemoaned “deeper, fuck me deeper”. . . Of course I couldn’t.

 

[itsnotthatsmall]

Oh no that just won't do anything for me.......do you have friends that you would like me to fuck
or should I just find on my own? Don't fret you will clean up .

 

[stargame]

My X told me, from now on that little thing is never going in my pussy again. Forever you are pussy free.

 

[NancyPan]

Women who really “get” erotic humiliation don’t need a script. Their attitude, tone of voice, and word choices are on target: stinging, but arousing. I’ve seen SPH porn videos that were more silly than arousing as the woman or women involved did not seem to get it, and just made silly jerk-off imitations with their pinky fingers and talked vulgar.

My wife tends to express sympathy in a caring, but condescending manner, such as, “Poor baby, if only it was just an inch or so bigger … I know you can’t help it.” or “It’s just better for me if you use your tongue. You don’t mind, do you?” or “Your penis is just sooo cute! And I love how quick it gets hard for me. Wouldn’t it be fun if it got big, too?”

 

[likemeornot]

It's hard to get past saying "oh shit" when you are with a guy with a small cock. In your mind you kind of picture this porn cock snuggled up in there.

 

[NancyPan]

It's hard to get past saying "oh shit" when you are with a guy with a small cock. In your mind you kind of picture this porn cock snuggled up in there.

I can imagine it would be, and many small guys have not accepted their inadequacy. Probably fewer still are aroused by SPH. As a woman encountering an unexpected small penis, I would think it would be fair to expect great (and grateful) head.

 

[likemeornot]

my gf and I hooked up with these guys on vacation. she told me she went down on her guy and it was only like 3" - he came in 2 mins lol

 

[NancyPan]

Hope he reciprocated! It is my believe that guys with inadequate equipment are best off learning to serve.

 

[thefireman73]

I had a gf years ago say “can the little guy get hard again?” after we finished the first time we had sex. Then she immediately apologized and said she didn’t mean it that way. I told her no reason to apologize. It didn’t hurt my feelings. Just be honest.

 

[nutoseen]

I was trying to help someone do SPH scenes and I came up with a few examples of things she could say. I am sure there are a thousand more so I thought I would ask here. Please don't let this whole thread devolve into "My Bull boyfriend has a bigger cock" examples. I would like to see other more discrete ways to humiliate someone. Here are a few of my suggestions

• When being denied sex:
  • “No, you cannot bring me to orgasm. I am not letting you inside me”
  • “Apologize for having such a small penis that cannot please me. I want you to tell me you are sorry.”
  • I am with you for lots of reasons, but this penis isn’t one of them.
  • You’re going to have to grow a little bit down there if you want me to want sex with you.
  • I don’t want to fuck you but I want to see you jack that little thing off
• While having sex:
  • "Don’t talk to me when I'm masturbating you will ruin my orgasms"
  • “I know this feels good for you, but it will never give me an orgasm. Your cock is not enough. I wish you could make me cum. Get off and lick me."
• Making fun of small flaccid penis
  • “that’s definitely not capable of pleasing me
  • “You masturbate so much you cannot even get hard”
  • “With that dildo filling you up you cannot get hard. How are you going to please me?”
  • "That will never please me"
  • "Can it get bigger"
  • "That’s pathetic that you cannot get it any bigger than 2 inches"
  • "Pathetic limp dick sissy"

I look forward to learning

i was fucking this guys wife (she was a coworker) and she kind of grinned when i asked her if my dick was bigger than her husbands. she said no, his is bigger. i then went down on her cummy pussy and i ended up fucking her again. she said that is why and i like your little guy as she played with it with her fingers.

 

[TomSenior2021]

My wife has called mine "cute" a bunch of times, I think I would like more but she thinks it would hurt my feelings.

 

[NancyPan]

My wife has called mine "cute" a bunch of times, I think I would like more but she thinks it would hurt my feelings.

Be direct with her about it. Some time ago (years), I brought up the term “erotic humiliation” with my wife. I told her that I could not explain why, but certain things that she might say in a teasing manner excited me. She asked for examples. Since then, she has seen the power of her words and tone. Tell your wife what you want and need. Honesty is the best policy. We need to teach our partners how to push our buttons!

 

[policywank]

Women who really “get” erotic humiliation don’t need a script. Their attitude, tone of voice, and word choices are on target: stinging, but arousing. I’ve seen SPH porn videos that were more silly than arousing as the woman or women involved did not seem to get it, and just made silly jerk-off imitations with their pinky fingers and talked vulgar.

My wife tends to express sympathy in a caring, but condescending manner, such as, “Poor baby, if only it was just an inch or so bigger … I know you can’t help it.” or “It’s just better for me if you use your tongue. You don’t mind, do you?” or “Your penis is just sooo cute! And I love how quick it gets hard for me. Wouldn’t it be fun if it got big, too?”

I have found that once I make it known that I am very comfortable being dominant and playing around with things like humiliation, men are generally more interested than one might imagine. Most are used to women not being receptive and frequently judgmental so they would never bring it up. I don't need to push or even be all that overt. But when I let it be known that I like being Dom and can usually tell fairly quickly which guys are into that.

And as you say, the cheesy porn stuff isn't what works. That can be fun for role play. But I find that a more subtle nuanced approach works. As for SPH sometimes small gestures are most effective. A little giggle, being distracted while a guy is fucking me, "is it in yet" or "are you finished now" can be very effective. Likewise taking control in the bedroom and telling him what to do with emphasis on wrapping it up can be very humiliating for a man - he wants to impress me and I make it know that I am just indulging him.

Of course all that only applies to being with a man who enjoys this sort of thing.

 

[NancyPan]

But I find that a more subtle nuanced approach works. As for SPH sometimes small gestures are most effective. A little giggle, being distracted while a guy is fucking me, "is it in yet" or "are you finished now" can be very effective. Likewise taking control in the bedroom and telling him what to do with emphasis on wrapping it up can be very humiliating for a man - he wants to impress me and I make it know that I am just indulging him.

Of course all that only applies to being with a man who enjoys this sort of thing.

As I have noted previously, you obviously do “get it,” and I would be most humiliated simply to reveal myself to you. Attitude, tone of voice, and indifference or amusement about my arousal are all just as powerful as words. Yet, there are words, generally for me words that are emasculating or emphasize that I am not fucking her (said while I am worshipping her pussy) such as “would you like to cum in your panties?” or “Don’t you dare have an accident in your panties until I cum” drive me over the top.

I think it goes without saying that guys who are aroused by erotic humiliation are into FemDom.

 

[SlutAddicted]

I have found that once I make it known that I am very comfortable being dominant and playing around with things like humiliation, men are generally more interested than one might imagine. Most are used to women not being receptive and frequently judgmental so they would never bring it up. I don't need to push or even be all that overt. But when I let it be known that I like being Dom and can usually tell fairly quickly which guys are into that.

And as you say, the cheesy porn stuff isn't what works. That can be fun for role play. But I find that a more subtle nuanced approach works. As for SPH sometimes small gestures are most effective. A little giggle, being distracted while a guy is fucking me, "is it in yet" or "are you finished now" can be very effective. Likewise taking control in the bedroom and telling him what to do with emphasis on wrapping it up can be very humiliating for a man - he wants to impress me and I make it know that I am just indulging him.

Of course all that only applies to being with a man who enjoys this sort of thing.

As I have noted previously, you obviously do “get it,” and I would be most humiliated simply to reveal myself to you. Attitude, tone of voice, and indifference or amusement about my arousal are all just as powerful as words. Yet, there are words, generally for me words that are emasculating or emphasize that I am not fucking her (said while I am worshipping her pussy) such as “would you like to cum in your panties?” or “Don’t you dare have an accident in your panties until I cum” drive me over the top.

I think it goes without saying that guys who are aroused by erotic humiliation are into FemDom.

Once you get a taste of Femdom and humiliation from a woman who really gets it, enjoys it and knows what she is doing it is completely addictive. For me it is very different from women who do it as a performance. If you know that they are feeling it to it can be all consuming.

 

[sydneyboy123]

I was trying to help someone do SPH scenes and I came up with a few examples of things she could say. I am sure there are a thousand more so I thought I would ask here. Please don't let this whole thread devolve into "My Bull boyfriend has a bigger cock" examples. I would like to see other more discrete ways to humiliate someone. Here are a few of my suggestions

• When being denied sex:
  • “No, you cannot bring me to orgasm. I am not letting you inside me”
  • “Apologize for having such a small penis that cannot please me. I want you to tell me you are sorry.”
  • I am with you for lots of reasons, but this penis isn’t one of them.
  • You’re going to have to grow a little bit down there if you want me to want sex with you.
  • I don’t want to fuck you but I want to see you jack that little thing off
• While having sex:
  • "Don’t talk to me when I'm masturbating you will ruin my orgasms"
  • “I know this feels good for you, but it will never give me an orgasm. Your cock is not enough. I wish you could make me cum. Get off and lick me."
• Making fun of small flaccid penis
  • “that’s definitely not capable of pleasing me
  • “You masturbate so much you cannot even get hard”
  • “With that dildo filling you up you cannot get hard. How are you going to please me?”
  • "That will never please me"
  • "Can it get bigger"
  • "That’s pathetic that you cannot get it any bigger than 2 inches"
  • "Pathetic limp dick sissy"

I look forward to learning

My wife likes to call my penis a "soft flabby dick." She'll say, "just jerk that soft flabby thing, cause that's all it's good for. " And I do it for her.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I was trying to help someone do SPH scenes and I came up with a few examples of things she could say. I am sure there are a thousand more so I thought I would ask here. Please don't let this whole thread devolve into "My Bull boyfriend has a bigger cock" examples. I would like to see other more discrete ways to humiliate someone. Here are a few of my suggestions

• When being denied sex:
  • “No, you cannot bring me to orgasm. I am not letting you inside me”
  • “Apologize for having such a small penis that cannot please me. I want you to tell me you are sorry.”
  • I am with you for lots of reasons, but this penis isn’t one of them.
  • You’re going to have to grow a little bit down there if you want me to want sex with you.
  • I don’t want to fuck you but I want to see you jack that little thing off
• While having sex:
  • "Don’t talk to me when I'm masturbating you will ruin my orgasms"
  • “I know this feels good for you, but it will never give me an orgasm. Your cock is not enough. I wish you could make me cum. Get off and lick me."
• Making fun of small flaccid penis
  • “that’s definitely not capable of pleasing me
  • “You masturbate so much you cannot even get hard”
  • “With that dildo filling you up you cannot get hard. How are you going to please me?”
  • "That will never please me"
  • "Can it get bigger"
  • "That’s pathetic that you cannot get it any bigger than 2 inches"
  • "Pathetic limp dick sissy"

I look forward to learning

When my wife started trying me to be a jerkboy she gave me award winning hand jobs. I would tell her we should D make instructional videos of her doing this to me so that more couples could enjoy what she did. After some time as she would be doing her magic on me she would tell me that soon I would not be able to get hard put my thing in her or any woman. I was so caught up in her hand that I began to admit that I didn't care, I just needed what she was doing to me. Even when she let me sit at her feet and let me watch as she had climaxes with her friends I could no longer get hard and take sloppy seconds when she told me to put my penis in her. Now I rub my soft clitty like a girl as she watches.

 

[bjlatx]

My wife has really gotten good at SPH, but I want her to take it to another level. I really want her to record her next session with one of her bulls and talk to me through the camera. I want her to tell me that his dick is reaching places I never could. I want her to tell me how much better his dick feels than my little dicklet.

 

[stargame]

Tiny and pussy free.

https://cdni.pornpics.com/460/7/598/40764902/40764902_071_69d2.jpg

 

[cuck72]

I'd be so rock-hard and cum my weak little load if my wife would call my dick "a little boy pee, pee," which it is. Then her saying, "she needs a real man with a huge cock to stretch her pussy, so she'd really feel she's being fucked good from a real man." Then her saying "I should only be her cleanup with my little 4" pee, pee. I'd explode right then and cum in my undies.

 

[betabrad]

Many years ago i was dating this woman. The 2nd time i wanted to have sex with her , we were kissing and she just said - if you really want to fuck me you'll have to lick me first and if you make me cum then i'll let you fuck me ... oh .. and while you're licking me ... you have to wear my panties. I was really horny .. so I agreed. I've known that i was small and i came pretty quickly so i had gotten pretty good with my tongue. I got her off twice and i said ... lets fuck. She said .. stay down on your knees and stroke your cock for me, if you last for more than a minute you can fuck me. I stayed on my knees and stroked myself ... but i was so horny i came in just a few seconds and caught my cum in my hand. She just said .. sorry babe .... now lick up your cum for me.

 

[Ramone45]

My wife is passive in the way she humiliates my small penis. She is European, and she prefers her lover's uncircumcised penis. He is impressively thick and long with a nice foreskin, of course. He has big, low hanging nuts that retract to the base of his cock when he's fully erect and fucking her. She REALLY loves his anatomy and he has the endurance to consistently bring her to a penis-in-vagina orgasm. She is never mean in the way she humiliates me about my cock. She simply implies and assumes that I should be humiliated because her lover is SO much bigger than me. She's actually compassionate. "It's OK, honey. Don't be upset", and so forth.

 

[Patsysub]

Hope he reciprocated! It is my believe that guys with inadequate equipment are best off learning to serve.

i would do anything to please you

 

[NancyPan]

My wife recently let this slip out during sex: I do not want a pussy teaser, but a pussy pleaser. Love knowing she is size curious as she is a rather conservative woman otherwise.

Of course this begs the question: “How may I best please you and your most deserving pussy?” In our bedroom She no longer wants to be bothered by a small penis that spurts prematurely. She prefers to be pleasured orally and with her vibrator (it is always hard and is 7 inches). Her orgasms have become my greatest joy!