Slut or Shy

[the_bar]

I am looking for people to talk to on msn about my gf sexual behaviours

Some of them are very slutty but other times when I think she will be for something, I seem to get in trouble

Add me to your msn contacts the_bar@hotmail.com if you would like to hear some good sotries and offer advice as to my problem. It drives me crazy

Cheers

 

[SweetErika]

Did you forget you've already started multiple threads on this topic?

And that there's a Personals section if you're looking for a chat buddy, and posting personal info, such as email addresses, isn't allowed, per the forum rules?

Also, if there actually is a girlfriend, you might want to consider how she would feel if she found these threads about her. You're likely to get farther by communicating with her than talking to other people about your problems. And if your problems with her lack of "slutiness" persist, your best bet is likely finding a girlfriend who is slutty, instead of continuing to wish this gf will become (more) slutty.

 

[the_bar]

Chill Pill

My previous threads do not cover the same idea. I need to know what message she is rally sending cause I get some interesting mixed messages. I am sorry if this offends you so much that you have to respond with such venom.

 

[SweetErika]

My previous threads do not cover the same idea. I need to know what message she is rally sending cause I get some interesting mixed messages. I am sorry if this offends you so much that you have to respond with such venom.

There is no way for us to know what she's thinking or message she's really sending. If you want to know that, tell her you feel like you're getting mixed messages, and ask her to clarify what she's thinking for you. She may or may not tell you the truth or everything, but she sure as hell has a better idea of who she is and what she's thinking than we, or even you, do.

If you've tried to improve your communication to no avail, it's probably time to take a serious look at your relationship since good communication is a necessary ingredient for healthy, happy, lasting relationships.

This doesn't offend me at all. You seemed confused and I tried to point you in the right direction.

Posting here is likely to get you the best advice people have to offer on the situation you present, even if it's advice you don't like/want to hear. If you want lousy advice and/or validation and/or private chat, you're better off going elsewhere.

 

[Eilan]

Did you forget you've already started multiple threads on this topic?

That's not entirely true. He didn't say anything about his GF being drunk this time!

If you have a "problem" with your GF and you're not, as your initial post suggests, just looking for private masturbation fodder, then post about it in this thread. I mean, if you're going to go to the trouble to start a thread about your supposed relationship issues and the mixed messages your GF is sending, you should at least provide enough detail for people to give you advice. That's what the How-To Board is for, right?

Otherwise, as Erika said, you need to be posting on the Personals Board.

 

[Zoots_owner]

Almost everybody is part shy, part slut.

If you're clever, you'll get the hang of it.

Like Erika said, communication's the key.

 

[matureprofiles]

I love sluts