slow introduction

[WI Master]

I walk into the room and sit off in the corner looking around... I am looking for someone with long hair...

I sit sipping a drink as I watch everyone interacting and looking to see if anyone even notices I am here... hoping someone looks me directly in the eyes and than casts them down feeling my dominance... so I can go up to her and ask her if she would like a drink and to sit down and get to know me a bit

I am male... 40... dark short hair brown eyes and I have a stocky build


as you can see I have been a member for quite some time... I bide my time reading and enjoying others experiences and pictures... I had a wonderful online sub but alas her "real life" took her away from me... *sigh*

 

[s_red830]

I walk into the room and sit off in the corner looking around... I am looking for someone with long hair...

I sit sipping a drink as I watch everyone interacting and looking to see if anyone even notices I am here... hoping someone looks me directly in the eyes and than casts them down feeling my dominance... so I can go up to her and ask her if she would like a drink and to sit down and get to know me a bit

I am male... 40... dark short hair brown eyes and I have a stocky build

Welcome... unfortunately, I believe we would get into a staring contest if you tried that on me! Either that, or I'd look away. But that's just me... there are plenty of female submissives on here.

If you're looking for someone specific and not just for a general introduction, you might want to try the BDSM personals.

 

[WI Master]

thank you... I am going for the general intro right now... life is in turmoil for me right now... I don't know if I can be a good Master to a deserving sub

staring contests give me a warm fuzzy btw. If you just turn away that is too bad..

 

[s_red830]

thank you... I am going for the general intro right now... life is in turmoil for me right now... I don't know if I can be a good Master to a deserving sub

staring contests give me a warm fuzzy btw. If you just turn away that is too bad..

Ah, I understand. In that case, very creative approach! Hell, I know the feeling (of turmoil) well, and how that affects my ability to concentrate on certain things that mean a lot to me.

Well, I suppose it would depend on what kind of vibe I got from you. If it was friendly, then of course I'd stare back. If it was haughty and annoying, I'd just ignore you. But from your second post, I'd say it's more of the former.

~Red.

 

[WI Master]

my look would hopefully be friendly, curious, not intimidating but a powerful aura so to speak... there is nothing hotter than the electricity of two people seeing each other across a room and deciding if they are what each other is looking for


just curious... do you have long hair?

 

[s_red830]

my look would hopefully be friendly, curious, not intimidating but a powerful aura so to speak... there is nothing hotter than the electricity of two people seeing each other across a room and deciding if they are what each other is looking for


just curious... do you have long hair?

Indeed.

Yes, actually, I do. Why do you ask?

 

[neonflux]

Hi WI-Master,

Switch here - more Dom & bottom/masochist without any really strong sub tendencies - sorry. Also, don't have long hair, although these days do present as much more femme than my avatar would suggest.

Welcome!
Neon

 

[WI Master]

Indeed.

Yes, actually, I do. Why do you ask?

my one true weekness is long hair... that and a total lack of inhibition...


so care to sit down and had a drink with me? we can chat a little and see how you like me

 

[WI Master]

Hi WI-Master,

Switch here - more Dom & bottom/masochist without any really strong sub tendencies - sorry. Also, don't have long hair, although these days do present as much more femme than my avatar would suggest.

Welcome!
Neon

hello neonflux its nice to have someone just say hi... nothing wrong with that... friendliness is never a waste of time... and I hope your having a great night

 

[lil_slave_rose]

hello WI Master, nice to see You posting, and that was quite an interesting 'intro' i am a female submissive with long hair, but am also happily owned anyway,nice to meet You.

 

[s_red830]

my one true weekness is long hair... that and a total lack of inhibition...


so care to sit down and had a drink with me? we can chat a little and see how you like me

*sigh* I would... but a few things.

1) I'm a Dominant
2) I'm attached
and
3) I don't really ID as a straight female.

Unfortunately, what seems to me to be being friendly often comes off as flirtation, and you're not the first person who this has happened to. I sincerely apologize for not being more straightforward with this.

However, do I think my friendliness was misplaced? No. You seem like an excellent person, and I hope to get to know you better.

 

[WI Master]

hello lsr, it is wonderful to own and be owned isn't it?

thanks for appreciating my intro... even tho I am DOM it doesn't do to come into a place and just be like... OK I AM LOOKING FOR A SLUT WITH LONG HAIR FOR AN ONLINE EXPIERENCE... blah! its a two way street and I am just testing the waters...its been quite a while since my sub and I stopped our relationship and I am missing someone to take care of and someone that feels the same about cherishing the time spent sitting at my feet...

 

[WI Master]

*sigh* I would... but a few things.

1) I'm a Dominant
2) I'm attached
and
3) I don't really ID as a straight female.

Unfortunately, what seems to me to be being friendly often comes off as flirtation, and you're not the first person who this has happened to. I sincerely apologize for not being more straightforward with this.

However, do I think my friendliness was misplaced? No. You seem like an excellent person, and I hope to get to know you better.

by all means lets get to know each other better... I didn't see any flirtation going on actually... I saw friendliness... and there isn't anything wrong with that... while if I meet a sub I will be happy I am just as happy to make new friends... I don't expect to find a match within an hour

I am actually a very damanding DOM and its going to take a very special sub to make me happy but their rewards will be great also... like I said its all about a two way street!

 

[lil_slave_rose]

hello lsr, it is wonderful to own and be owned isn't it?

thanks for appreciating my intro... even tho I am DOM it doesn't do to come into a place and just be like... OK I AM LOOKING FOR A SLUT WITH LONG HAIR FOR AN ONLINE EXPIERENCE... blah! its a two way street and I am just testing the waters...its been quite a while since my sub and I stopped our relationship and I am missing someone to take care of and someone that feels the same about cherishing the time spent sitting at my feet...

it is, indeed. and i'm sorry for Your loss, and i hope You do find what You're looking for. i agree it would not have been 'wise' for You to come onto the Forum with the 'I am looking for a slut with Long hair for an online experience' bit, just don't think it would have worked, well it might have worked in getting You ignored *giggles* but not for much else i do hope You have a seat, and join in the chats that are going on.

 

[s_red830]

by all means lets get to know each other better... I didn't see any flirtation going on actually... I saw friendliness... and there isn't anything wrong with that... while if I meet a sub I will be happy I am just as happy to make new friends... I don't expect to find a match within an hour

I am actually a very damanding DOM and its going to take a very special sub to make me happy but their rewards will be great also... like I said its all about a two way street!

Of course. *phew* I'm glad that wasn't taken as flirtation...

Well, interesting start to becoming friends, yes?

 

[WI Master]

yes I mourn the loss of my sub... but she is happy with the direction she is taking in her life... and that is what makes me happy.... while the online stuff was VERY intense I didn't want it to jeopardize her real life...

 

[WI Master]

Of course. *phew* I'm glad that wasn't taken as flirtation...

Well, interesting start to becoming friends, yes?

yes, very interesting, I honestly didn't plan on any responses like this and I am VERY pleased... even though I haven't had anyone come and bow their head asking if I would like a fresh drink ...its still very refreshing to talk to someone with like interests...

 

[lil_slave_rose]

yes I mourn the loss of my sub... but she is happy with the direction she is taking in her life... and that is what makes me happy.... while the online stuff was VERY intense I didn't want it to jeopardize her real life...

*smiles* that is great, and i'm glad she is happy in turn making You happy. and i do know how 'intense' online 'stuff' can be. Master and i have been online/phone only for 3 years, though we just recently met for the first time a couple months ago. and have plans for Him to come back in January, and then hopefully making it permanent in April, but i'm off topic again....i have a habit of doing that

 

[WI Master]

I am glad things are evolving and working out for you... I wish nothing but the best for you...

I just hope I can find a connection like that sometime... only difference is I am not looking for a real life situation right now, as stated earlier my life is in turmoil right now and I can't be sure I will even be in the country in 6 months...

 

[s_red830]

yes, very interesting, I honestly didn't plan on any responses like this and I am VERY pleased... even though I haven't had anyone come and bow their head asking if I would like a fresh drink ...its still very refreshing to talk to someone with like interests...

lol, seriously.

 

[CutieMouse]

Welcome to Lit. The BDSM Personals section is usually afloat with online relationship requests; I think there is also an online/distance domination thread going on somewhere in the BDSM Talk section.

 

[WI Master]

Thank you Cutie... I am debating on posting this thread in there...


nice legs btw

 

[CutieMouse]

nice legs btw

I blame it on the socks.

 

[WI Master]

blame it on what you want... still very nice...

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Welcome to the site, bro.

Here's a drink to good friends.