Sleepy Middle-of-the-Night Wake-up Sex

I've had that happen, a number of times. It has a dreamy, fluid quality to it; very romantic. Very little talking usually. Afterwards, we both go back to sleep. Then, in the morning, I'm never sure if it was real or just a dream, until I look around and find some evidence (torn condom wrapper, lube bottle, etc.).......Carney
 
I absolutely adore middle-of-the-night sex. LOVE it. I don't care if I'm wakened from a sound sleep. I invariably wake up HUNGRY for it. (I suspect it's all the erotic dreams.)
 
Husband and I for a lot of our time together have had opposite schedules. Four days a week he's on swing shift, I will rarely see him. His circadian rhythm is also so screwed up from that, that he rarely sleeps more than 4 hours at a time, usually in the middle of the night, and then again in the middle of the day.

Sex is much more often a case of "wake the other person up in very fun ways" than not.

I love it either way.
 
Oh, we have that quite often, although it's likely to be more towards daylight.
 
sweetsubsarahh said:
Who's done it?
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No. That spooning thing is dangerous with guys, isn't it, ladies? Damn.
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How quickly can the lust for sex take over the lust for sleep?

Super quickly. *nodding vigorously*
There's a reason I sleep as far over on my side of the bed as possible. I might drop off right in the middle of post-coital cuddling, but if I stay right up against her it won't be long before I'm up (pun totally intended) again. And that goes on throughout the night.

Luckily (I guess), working 11-6 at night five days a week means I don't actually share Rowan's bed all that often. Or, at least, not long enough to make a difference in her sleep schedule.


:cool:
 
It really is the best, unplanned and inevitable... in a squishy 'are the tissues on your side?' kind of way.
 
It's kind of difficult to have middle of the night wake up sex when your husband doesn't sleep in the bed with you.
 
CrimsonMaiden said:
It's kind of difficult to have middle of the night wake up sex when your husband doesn't sleep in the bed with you.


Only if you want to have it with your husband.
 
I must be rare in that i absolutely hate it.

Nothing worse to me than to be woke up in the middle of the night, especially when I'm finally getting enough sleep for once.

I value my sleep like gold, so when I feel the motion, I usually wind up saying "just, get it over with", with I have found, is an apparent mood killer, and lets me go back to sleep.

I guess i'm just abnormal like that.
 
I haven't done that since the first week of my honeymoon. I remember asking my mother when I got home if that 3 am sex ever quit. She said yes, it would and then I'd miss it. *shrugs* I don't miss it with the spouse :rolleyes: . . . now with someone else. . . I am sure I could miss it. ;)
 
Love it.

Was surprised to learn women do to.

It was one of those chemestry things. We met in the afternoon, ran an errand together, stopped for a drink, got take out food and a video and went back to my apartment.

When the movie was over, it just seemed natural to go to bed together.

In the middle of the night, I slipped out of bed to go to the bathroom, and tried to be considerate and slip back in without waking her. I failed.

When she awoke, I was looking at her. "What?" she asked sleepily.

"I was considering waking you and making love to you."

Sleepy voice, "Why didn't you?"
 
I swear its the best thing next to chocolate! The moment all sleepy when you realise you body is on fire and want nothing more than to make love. *mmmmmm* And yes spooning usually produces this moment and we usually stay spooned.
 
Spooning is very very dangerous. :)
And for that reason, we usually don't cuddle like that right before bedtime. Because if we do, I'll be almost asleep, and one of my honey's hands will start wandering. I figure it's just a sleepy caress. But nope, that's not it at all. :nana:
I almost always wake up spooned, regardless if we start that way the night before or not. And it always leads to playtime. :D It's almost better than coffee. :p
However, I don't think we've ever had wake up in the middle of the night sex.
But I've been informed that I wriggle back against him and wiggle myself comfortable, and if he's awake, I almost get woke up to find myself in a compromising position. But he never has. I shall tell him this morning that he must take advantage of me the next time. I'll make a scientific experiment out of it! :p :D
 
I love sleepy middle of the night sex.....

On the other hand, my pillow finds it rather messy and well, messy..... :eek:
 
Its always been fantastic for me. Both my ex wifes loved it, at least until the marriages were on their last legs. I wake up horny 4 or 5 times a week but without any outlet, at the moment at least ;)
 
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