OttawaMaleSlut
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- Feb 21, 2005
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Hi everyone.
I've been having a 'lover' for the last while which is strictly a friends with benefits type of relationship. We don't go out together, we don't see each other friends, and we are pretty much strictly having sex, and hanging out at someones house for 'friendship'.
Though, I've come to realize now that she has low self confidence, shes overly shy, and shes too afraid to be strong and not take shit from anyone. I realize, that even if we did go out she would dress WAY too homly for a 23 year old woman who has a nice figure. I do notice she does have a submissive side.
I'm asking this out of curiosity of 'intelligent' and more experienced members; Does slave training provide any support in learning to be more confident, or 'coming out of the shell'? I thinking along the lines of breaking her down to just a thing, taking away all her inhibitions by not allowing her to decide what she does and doesn't want (to certain limits), and then building upon that foundation. In much, this is the same way soldiers are trained and taught self confidence.
Eventually, after some time, I want her to rise from being a thing to a pet and then a woman with her own confidence. I want her to be able to feel confident and comfortable about dressing more sexy when she goes out with her friends, and I want her to not be ashamed for her lovely body. In the end I want to be a friend who she can walk away grateful for, for the experience, for the training, and for the self confidence she has that I want to bring out in her.
Your ideas and thoughts please.....unless your calling me an idiot without reasons....
I've been having a 'lover' for the last while which is strictly a friends with benefits type of relationship. We don't go out together, we don't see each other friends, and we are pretty much strictly having sex, and hanging out at someones house for 'friendship'.
Though, I've come to realize now that she has low self confidence, shes overly shy, and shes too afraid to be strong and not take shit from anyone. I realize, that even if we did go out she would dress WAY too homly for a 23 year old woman who has a nice figure. I do notice she does have a submissive side.
I'm asking this out of curiosity of 'intelligent' and more experienced members; Does slave training provide any support in learning to be more confident, or 'coming out of the shell'? I thinking along the lines of breaking her down to just a thing, taking away all her inhibitions by not allowing her to decide what she does and doesn't want (to certain limits), and then building upon that foundation. In much, this is the same way soldiers are trained and taught self confidence.
Eventually, after some time, I want her to rise from being a thing to a pet and then a woman with her own confidence. I want her to be able to feel confident and comfortable about dressing more sexy when she goes out with her friends, and I want her to not be ashamed for her lovely body. In the end I want to be a friend who she can walk away grateful for, for the experience, for the training, and for the self confidence she has that I want to bring out in her.
Your ideas and thoughts please.....unless your calling me an idiot without reasons....