slave Training Day

[Shadowsdream]

Obviously I have been in a mood the last few days that has created a lust to discipline, torment and just generally be a Pain in the ass!

The obvious beginning would be a nice long day of ass whipping on whim. I have just completed a serious 50 minutes of pleasing Myself by tormenting the one I own. Now that he is trying to sit down I will begin to contemplate the next stage of his endurance for My pleasure.

How about a conversation on how to keep a Dominant from getting moody? Or is it better to just hope for the mood?

~~grin~~

 

[WillowPuss]

Obviously I have been in a mood the last few days that has created a lust to discipline, torment and just generally be a Pain in the ass!

The obvious beginning would be a nice long day of ass whipping on whim. I have just completed a serious 50 minutes of pleasing Myself by tormenting the one I own. Now that he is trying to sit down I will begin to contemplate the next stage of his endurance for My pleasure.

How about a conversation on how to keep a Dominant from getting moody? Or is it better to just hope for the mood?

~~grin~~

Ohhhh heck
what a 'simple' question.

From my point of view, there are days when I long for Master to be in the mood (not a mood) for discipline such as You have described.
And then there are others where I hope He is not!

How to keep a Dominant from getting moody?

Hmmmmm ... well, I think the 'trick' is to know your Dominant. Try and read what sort of mood they are in. Do they wish to be left in peace to complete a task, or just to take time for Their thoughts.
At those times ... try and let them be. (I confess that I occasionally have trouble with this)

Are They in a playful mood - just looking for a reason, as if they really need one, to discipline the one who serves them? Maybe you could ease their task by asking, very politely, if you might be spanked/cropped/whiped?

Are They in the sort of mood that no matter what ... you know there is to be some discipline - just for Their enjoyment ... then, at times like this - enter into the fun and the spirit and take what comes.



Mistress, I am not sure this is a very good answer - but I am going to quit whilst ahead. (well - for now)

 

[cellis]

Obviously I have been in a mood the last few days that has created a lust to discipline, torment and just generally be a Pain in the ass!

The obvious beginning would be a nice long day of ass whipping on whim. I have just completed a serious 50 minutes of pleasing Myself by tormenting the one I own. Now that he is trying to sit down I will begin to contemplate the next stage of his endurance for My pleasure.

How about a conversation on how to keep a Dominant from getting moody? Or is it better to just hope for the mood?

~~grin~~

Might I ask about a couple of your implements?

I am most curious about that white thing... what is it called and where does one find that sort of thing?

 

[WillowPuss]

That looks like a Victorian carpet beater to me.

I beieve they used to me made from eith bone or cane - and used to beat the dust out of large rugs and carpets ... you hung them on the line outdoors and had one of the servants beat them.


ohhhh - thinking on it ... much the same use today :haha:

hang a subbie somewhere and make sure the dust and cobwebs are removed?

 

[s'lara]

When a Dominant is in the mood described by Shadowsdream Ma'am, it's best to just to keep quiet and enjoy it. i honestly don't believe a good restless, "in the mood torture" state should be settled.

The moodiness can make for interesting ways to relieve the tension.

lara

 

[catalina_francisco]

They still use the cane carpet beaters in Holland...on the rugs that is, and more adventurous places for the imaginative.

As to what to do to keep a Dominant from getting moody....don't know if there is a good answer for that one. All I know is when he gets in one of his moods, as he has admitted to being today, the best and most adequate solution is to make sure the submnissive body is ready and willing for a good pain session. Seems to work wonders for both of us actually, no matter which one has the mood.

Catalina

 

[ghosst_K&H]

if my Domme's are in the punishment mood, i shall grin and bear it, if i sense they're not in the best of moods, i try to make them smile, or laugh, if they want space, they'll let me know.

i feel that a D/s relationship requires a bit of empathy between Dom/me and submissive, and if you can't read your Dom/me/submissive theres a chance of friction developing.

 

[Shadowsdream]

Re: Re: slave Training Day

Might I ask about a couple of your implements?

I am most curious about that white thing... what is it called and where does one find that sort of thing?

It is a carpet beater. It is common to beat carpets as well as slaves in Sweden. I bought it at Clas Åhlson ( O/our Domme depot) for about 6.00 American.
you may be able to find such an item at a dollar store.

 

[Shadowsdream]

WOW so many good answers to the moody Dom/me question..once again it is one of those *there is not universal answer that can be right or wrong.*
It is about knowing your own Dominant and taking those cues seriously. One major mistake a submissive can make with thís Impossible Mistress is to invade My Domme space when I am not in the mood to be distracted or entertained.

 

[A Desert Rose]

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It is a carpet beater. It is common to beat carpets as well as slaves in Sweden. I bought it at Clas Åhlson ( O/our Domme depot) for about 6.00 American.
you may be able to find such an item at a dollar store.

I think a .99 flyswatter would be a handy stand in for this, too...

;-)

 

[Shadowsdream]

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I think a .99 flyswatter would be a handy stand in for this, too...

;-)

It certainly is and in some ways is a better toy...I have found that the smaller the area smacked the bigger the pain! OOOOps did I say that?

 

[A Desert Rose]

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It certainly is and in some ways is a better toy...I have found that the smaller the area smacked the bigger the pain! OOOOps did I say that?

You tickle my fancy, Ma'am.

Next time I'm playing with Someone, I think I will buy a new flyswatter and set it out where it can be inspiring to Him, all on it's own.

 

[Shadowsdream]

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You tickle my fancy, Ma'am.

Next time I'm playing with Someone, I think I will buy a new flyswatter and set it out where it can be inspiring to Him, all on it's own.

~~grin~~
How thoughtful of you!
One can never have too many inspiratíons lying around.
Leaving the Kitchen Catch All drawer never hurts either..or maybe it does if all goes well!

 

[WillowPuss]

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You tickle my fancy, Ma'am.

Next time I'm playing with Someone, I think I will buy a new flyswatter and set it out where it can be inspiring to Him, all on it's own.

Are you absolutely sure about that Rose??

Coz ... a flyswatter stings like crazy ... really, really stings.

I suppose it is not too bad if you have been wrmed up by a hand, and then possible a crop and a flogger ... but straight off - its an ouchie and no mistake!


(pssssssttttt ... if you are really serious tho ... leave two laying about - one for each hand ... some Dom/mes can get up quite a rhythm)

 

[cellis]

You have wonderful toys.... I am eye the crop and cane...

 

[cellis]

Obviously I have been in a mood the last few days that has created a lust to discipline, torment and just generally be a Pain in the ass!

The obvious beginning would be a nice long day of ass whipping on whim. I have just completed a serious 50 minutes of pleasing Myself by tormenting the one I own. Now that he is trying to sit down I will begin to contemplate the next stage of his endurance for My pleasure.

How about a conversation on how to keep a Dominant from getting moody? Or is it better to just hope for the mood?

~~grin~~

Back to the original question... I always try to have some kind of diversion for Himself... some topic that I know He can sink His teeth into and really let go a rant on...

By the time He has gotten that out of His system, I know He has worked off most of His frustrations...

Or sometimes I just tell Him "Don't get fluffy!" and He immediately starts to laugh... It is a little joke between us... I have a cat that gets all fluffy and brisley when he gets upset and so I tease Himself about that... that seems to ease the tension...

And then there are times when He just needs to use me as a release... I prefer those to all the above!

 

[SweetDommes]

How about a conversation on how to keep a Dominant from getting moody? Or is it better to just hope for the mood?

~~grin~~

Finally deciding to post, cuz I'm in one of those moods ... not really any reason for it, but I have a great desire to bring tears of pain/pleasure to a subby-boy's eyes. I have a growing collection of floggers that's just begging to be used more than just 'test-swats' on Holly ... We have an untested paddle, some nipple clamps, etc ... not too many implements of torture just yet, but getting there, and the flyswatter will probably be the next addition to our toybox.

As for how to get me out of the mood ... let me have what I want ... there really isn't any other way other than to hide & hope that it passes before I realize that you're hiding from me (so don't try it ghosstie )

-Miss Karen

 

[Ms_Black]

oooh, good question.

As Much as I like to take a beating for my man (pun intended) I don't like him to actually me angry or in a mood when we play. I like to think that it's always about us, that he likes to dish it out and I like to take it. Does that make sense?

I don't want to think that while I'm being spanked and swatted he's imagining beating the crap out of his boss or his ex-wife.

Whenever I realize he's just in one of those moods when he wants to do some real damage and get some energy spent...I usually drop the play entirely and just fuck his brains out. No props, no stunts... on the stairs, in the shower, on the floor, in the bed...break for snacks...and back at it.

when we play, even when we're really rough, he's always completely conscious of how I'm doing. With just pure old fashioned fucking, He can be as hard or as rough as he wants without his mind worrying about me - and it really wears him down much faster (moving his whole body versus just a hand).

I'm sure it sounds crazy but just being an uncaring male (i.e. having sex without worrying about whether I'm getting off) really calms him down. Plus, of course, his body his zapped afterwards. He usually gives one of those exhausted grins and pats me on the head and suggests we take a nap- and I am happy because I've been a good little subby and taken care of my man

That's just MHO of course

Ms. B

 

[SweetDommes]

As Much as I like to take a beating for my man (pun intended) I don't like him to actually me angry or in a mood when we play. I like to think that it's always about us, that he likes to dish it out and I like to take it. Does that make sense?

I'm not angry, I'm not upset ... it would totally be about Me and My boy .... I'm just in one of those moods that I want to beat someone ... Just because someone is in "a mood" doesn't mean that it's relating to anything that has happened or anything that someone else has done.

-Miss Karen

 

[ghosst_K&H]

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Finally deciding to post, cuz I'm in one of those moods ... not really any reason for it, but I have a great desire to bring tears of pain/pleasure to a subby-boy's eyes. I have a growing collection of floggers that's just begging to be used more than just 'test-swats' on Holly ... We have an untested paddle, some nipple clamps, etc ... not too many implements of torture just yet, but getting there, and the flyswatter will probably be the next addition to our toybox.

As for how to get me out of the mood ... let me have what I want ... there really isn't any other way other than to hide & hope that it passes before I realize that you're hiding from me (so don't try it ghosstie )

-Miss Karen

can i ask if there's any subbie male out here who wouldn't love to be in my shoes right now?
6 days Mistress Karen

 

[SweetDommes]

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can i ask if there's any subbie male out here who wouldn't love to be in my shoes right now?
6 days Mistress Karen

I'm well aware of when you will be back boy ... We've been keeping our own count-down (the row of floggers is growing nicely )

 

[yessmiss]

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It is a carpet beater. It is common to beat carpets as well as slaves in Sweden. I bought it at Clas Åhlson ( O/our Domme depot) for about 6.00 American.
you may be able to find such an item at a dollar store.

i will be going to Stockholm this weekend, if i would wear a carpet, would You beat it?

~yesspleasemiss

 

[Ms_Black]

I see, I guess I was confused on what kind of "mood" you were talking about.

Well if you're just talking about good old-fashioned "wanting to put the hurt on"..well, I don't do anything to stop it.

I like it when he get's that way

 

[Shadowsdream]

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i will be going to Stockholm this weekend, if i would wear a carpet, would You beat it?

~yesspleasemiss

Perhaps if it were a carpet more magnificant than any I had ever seen before I would take it under consideration.....BUT this weekend I will be entertaining a very dynamic Domme and Her new slave to converse about chastity. There may be more torment than beatings going on in this residence ~~grin~~

 

[Shadowsdream]

I see, I guess I was confused on what kind of "mood" you were talking about.

Well if you're just talking about good old-fashioned "wanting to put the hurt on"..well, I don't do anything to stop it.

I like it when he get's that way

Hello Ms_Black

Anger has no place in play..but Dom/me moodiness can be a hell of a hot play emotion....