Skinny/Short Dick Issues

[secretlybad69]

Is there anyone else having skinny/short dick issues? If yes what is your advice? My ex was big and my new guy is, let's put it this way, very different. We still have great sex orally and anally, however you know when you just need a big dick to fill your pussy!!!!! Ughhh!!!

Oh and by the way, he cums quick too.

 

[EJFan]

it ain't one for dr. phil

there are several ways to approach your problem...

firstly, when you have that yearning for a FULL feeling, why not use a toy or two. i think it'd be a wild time to use a toy at the same time as he's fucking you... and if it's a vibe, he'd benefit from it as well. or, if you don't use it at the same time as he's fucking you, you could include him in the experience by having him use a toy on you. it's more fun than card-night with the neighbors, i promise.

secondly, getting him off before you have sex is one way to keep him from cumming too quickly. another is to have him start working on strengthening his PC muscle (and i don't mean the one used to surf for porn to jerk off to). a well toned PC muscle will increase his endurance and enhance his orgasm.

finally, it's good to hear that the sex is great in spite of your concerns. that's the best foundation you could ask for. it means that you're just "tweaking" things rather than trying to build from scratch. good luck and have fun!!!!

 

[sebboh]

I had a friend who wasn't exactly king-sized, but all the ladies liked what he did. So I asked him what exactly made him so special since a lot of folks knew he was pretty small. It seems he'd slide in a couple fingers (his I guess, never thought to ask) along with his strudel, giving it some more girth and some movement inside. I never tried it, but it sounded like it could work.
For the turbo part, you could always use a penis ring, but that takes some getting used to for him. If you don't want to break out the little soldier collar just yet, try gripping the base of his penis with your thumb and forefinger (or just one finger if he's really small ). But that will shorten his length a bit.

 

[Bobmi357]

Just about the time the guys on this board really start believing that size doesn't matter, along comes some woman either drooling in anticipation of a monster cock or complaining about a microcock.

So ladies, give. Is the "Size Doesn't matter" thingie you keep spouting just something to shut up us guys or what?

 

[Betticus]

I don't know, I have the opposite problem. I'm a little above average length but for girth even I can't close my hand around the damn thing.

I've had women tell me no once they got me hard and felt the thing. I've always had to be very careful to give a lot of foreplay and get her very turned on and to relax her with my fingers before attempting to insert my penis. Even after that I've had a couple of unfortunate times where I've managed to cause small tears in the skin around the girls vagina. Usually only when we've been fucking for long enough that she starts to dry out a little.

Lube is your friend.

My last girlfriend used to like to be on top and look down just to watch it go in and out. I remember her saying once "I can't believe that thing fits". She was very petite and against her body it looked like it should be painful.

Anyway, to the original post. You can work with him directly and let him know you need more girth in you for your sexual fulfillment. If you can't be satisfied with toys and need cock then I'd say to keep looking for what you really want.

 

[SIC]

From my last two girlfriends i got that it was too big. So i dont know how to fix that problem but for the fast part. Tell him if you can without hurting his feeling to count from 1-100 slowly. For awhile you may know he is doing it but after awhile he will get use to the feel and me able to control it. When i first started i was fast but i started think about something else in the room to keep my mind kinda off it and now i can control it pretty good. One thing that gets me is when the girl says "Fuck me harder" in that hot sex voice i cant handle that!!!

 

[LosersWinItBig]

One thing that gets me is when the girl says "Fuck me harder" in that hot sex voice i cant handle that!!!

I know that feeling, and its our fault we can't last 45 minutesbut then again i guess its better than crickets

As for the length you can buy penis extensions, though i don't know how he'd feel about this but you can go all the way up to 10" on top of what he has now. Penis Extensions just mouse over "Toys for men" and its the last one.

 

[Ms_Lilith]

I once dated a guy who had a rather small penis.. and it, too, was after I'd dated someone rather large. However, I never EVER had a problem with my 'shorter, thinner' guy... He was FANTASTIC in bed... it didn't hurt that I'm rather tight, though...

so maybe, just maybe.. YOU should be doing some PC muscle-strengthening.. get to your Kegels! I mean, His dick is his dick, and that ain't gonna change. You have a partner that is willing to please you orally, and I'm sure he does the best he can.. so maybe just take matters into your own hands, as it were, and make yourself tighter.. so you can feel him more.

As for endurace, he should be doing the kegels, as well, to make him last longer, but as for the feel, his dick just ain't gonna change.


Maybe suggest having him in your ass while you have a toy in your pussy? I enjoyed that immensely with my 'smaller' lover... but then.. we only did that once.. he was so good without the toy.. *grin*

 

[Topher]

Just keep in mind that men are probably more sensitive about penis size than women are about breast size.

This is one situation where I think being frank is not called for; others might disagree.

If you do go for some of the suggestions given here (like introducing toys) try not to be obvious as to the real reason.

 

[cyberski]

I once dated a guy who had a rather small penis.. and it, too, was after I'd dated someone rather large. However, I never EVER had a problem with my 'shorter, thinner' guy... He was FANTASTIC in bed... it didn't hurt that I'm rather tight, though...

so maybe, just maybe.. YOU should be doing some PC muscle-strengthening.. get to your Kegels! I mean, His dick is his dick, and that ain't gonna change. You have a partner that is willing to please you orally, and I'm sure he does the best he can.. so maybe just take matters into your own hands, as it were, and make yourself tighter.. so you can feel him more.

As for endurace, he should be doing the kegels, as well, to make him last longer, but as for the feel, his dick just ain't gonna change.


Maybe suggest having him in your ass while you have a toy in your pussy? I enjoyed that immensely with my 'smaller' lover... but then.. we only did that once.. he was so good without the toy.. *grin*

YOU should be doing some PC muscle-strengthening.. get to your Kegels! I mean, His dick is his dick, and that ain't gonna change.

As for endurace, he should be doing the kegels, as well, to make him last longer, but as for the feel, his dick just ain't gonna change.

Right on the money, as usual Vixen

 

[kinky shy girl]

So ladies, give. Is the "Size Doesn't matter" thingie you keep spouting just something to shut up us guys or what?

It's just something women say to be polite.

I kid, I kid.

 

[race_1962]

In response to climaxing quickly it does have a correlation to his size. All penises, like breast, have the same amount of nerve endings, regardless of their size.

So, for a smaller man, sex really does feel better. However, with a little self control, regular sexual activity, and some desensitizing lotion he should be OK.

Studies have shown that smaller breasted women have a great chance of achieving orgasm from nipple stimulation then their larger breasted peers.

It is a curse. Sex feels so good to the small cocked man that he thinks about it all the time. The larger cocked man still likes it, but it does not rule his mind like his smaller peer.

No one said life was fair. ;-)

 

[secretlybad69]

Sorry Bobmi357, size really does matter. Like beauty being skin deep, it helps if the person is also attractive on the outside.

Betticus you are a tease. I hope you don't mind, but I am going to dream about your fat cock tonight.

Yes I exercise a lot and also do my kegels for that very important part of my body. His size wouldn't be such a huge deal if he didn't cum so quick. He cums between 30 seconds and 2 minutes. Race_1962 is this normal?

I told him I wanted a dildo and he bought me this small one. I was so disappointed. He lives with me and I know he will get offended if I bought a bigger one. Should I hide it?

 

[secretlybad69]

Oh by the way, I loved the idea about having a toy inside while he fucks my ass.

 

[race_1962]

Regarding the 30 second climax rate, is your lover a rodeo cowboy where anything over 8 seconds is a good ride? ;-)

Take it as a complement that your beauty and charms make him lose it so fast. I remember my first time with my wife, it is a wonder she gave me a 2nd shot.

Seriously, there is desensitizing cream. He needs to really try to control himself, so he is not a selfish lover. Some guys are better at self control than others.

Play a game with him next time. Challenge him to not get real hard at first, and you get on top, so that you can manipulate his cock teasing your clit. A lot of guys can last longer when there woman is on top. Then, when you are close to climax let him know you need it "big". This way you have half a chance to climax together.

If he refuses to listen, give me a call. ;-)

No expert, just been around the block a bit.

 

[ReadyOne]

If you're relly into girth (and he doesn't have monstor hands) have you considered seeing how much of his hand he can work in?

Some swear there is nothing like it. The slightest movement after it's inside touches everything at once -- the max!

 

[4x4in]

Is there anyone else having skinny/short dick issues? If yes what is your advice? My ex was big and my new guy is, let's put it this way, very different. We still have great sex orally and anally, however you know when you just need a big dick to fill your pussy!!!!! Ughhh!!!

Oh and by the way, he cums quick too.

secretlybad69,

I, for one, would really like to know what you do/try to improve this situation even if you trade him in for a well endowed guy who lasts longer

Very interesting thread. Thanks.

 

[michie]

I know what you mean. My boyfriend is average........I tell him it's ok, but i really want a man to fill me. And there really is no subsitute for the dick. I hope you can have fun without the size, because he will not suddenly grow. But big dicks look soooo good.

 

[assister49]

I much prefer having a guy of shorter length. He can really get going, and it is not painful to have his head slamming against my cervix. The tip is perfect for hitting my g-spot too. Also, I can much more pleasurably take anal with the smaller man. Double pleasure for both of us.

 

[Topher]

Thanks for the the frankness, Michie.

BTW - don't ever tell your bf what you told us here if you care about his mental health.



PS just to plot another point of data, can you estimate your bf's length and girth so we know what you are calling average?

PPS - I just realized for the first time that, technically, a PS is absurd on a software text editor, don't you think?

 

[michie]

he is around 5.5" in length and i think 2" around. I is mostly good enough, but sometimes i can sympathize with this thread and want something bigger i would never ever tell him that. It would be like him telling me to get bigger breasts. In the end it's not that important, it is just that i am not always filled up. This does not ruin sex for me, it just means that some positions are better than others. I don't mean to put any guys down, I am sure that a lot of women really like it to be small, but others like it too be a bit bigger.

 

[Topher]

It's gotta be bigger than 2" around. Are you sure you didn't mean 2" wide? That would actually be respectable. A 2" circumference would translate to about a 0.6" or so width, which is what? 2 pencils?

My Expo2 dry-erase marker is 2 and 1/4" around.

Now, 2" wide translates to 6.28" around, and that is quite impressive (it has me beat for sure).

 

[SlvrTongueDevil]

We still have great sex orally and anally, however you know when you just need a big dick to fill your pussy!!!!! Ughhh!!!

If he's good at oral, get him to use the big dildo on you while he eats you out. But only do that after he's been in you or you'll be so stretched, he'll feel that much smaller.

 

[Topher]

A note on my math: penes aren't usually perfect cylinders, so d X pi doesn't usually come out quite right. I am 1.75" across - if only I were 1.75 X pi inches around ...

 

[michie]

I am not really sure, I mean I have never really measured. I was just guessing, maybe the width of two fingers would be better. It for sure is not too thick, but it is also not the size of a pencil. I don't think that he is going to let me measure it So that is the best description i can give.