size queens

[thehiker]

here goes........my girl friend is a size queen ! really..... my 6" x 51/2" around isnt enough for her .... she says she needs 9 x 7........ is it me or her???? its kinda hit my ego/pride hard this is the 1st time i've run into a woman soooo into size she says im the smallest she's been with........ ouch ! any comments or insight would be nice.......

 

[Lane B]

here goes........my girl friend is a size queen ! really..... my 6" x 51/2" around isnt enough for her .... she says she needs 9 x 7........ is it me or her???? its kinda hit my ego/pride hard this is the 1st time i've run into a woman soooo into size she says im the smallest she's been with........ ouch ! any comments or insight would be nice.......

for some women, especially full figured women like me, size (e.g. width) is important

length is secondary, but always fun

 

[thehiker]

hmmmmmm makes sense i guess..... but she's petite and i thought my width was not bad 2 1/2" but now i dont know......

 

[Lane B]

hmmmmmm makes sense i guess..... but she's petite and i thought my width was not bad 2 1/2" but now i dont know......

one thing that can happen is a woman can get used to large.. even small girls... if she has a lot of large men for a long time

maybe thats the situation

 

[thehiker]

i think that must be the case..... her ex i guess was half horse.......LOL but even from my point of view she feels....... for lack of a better word "loose" guess we had better try some differnt positions and toys....... thanks for the input !

 

[Arden]

A woman's height or weight doesn't automatically predispose them with a need for something huge. Heredity is the most likely culprit.

Out of curiosity, though, has she given birth in the past few years? That can make a big difference in itself.

Good luck...

 

[Lane B]

i think that must be the case..... her ex i guess was half horse.......LOL but even from my point of view she feels....... for lack of a better word "loose" guess we had better try some differnt positions and toys....... thanks for the input !

there are exercises she can do to tighten up.. but they take time.. and effort

 

[Lane B]

A woman's height or weight doesn't automatically predispose them with a need for something huge. Heredity is the most likely culprit.

Out of curiosity, though, has she given birth in the past few years? That can make a big difference in itself.

Good luck...

both are valid points

 

[thehiker]

actuall.....its 4 kids.......... that does have an impact onit......i thought it came back to the same size it was ????? sorry im a guy who doesnt know this stuff

 

[RadicalFlower]

yes giving birth Does do that BIG TIME...i have had 2 and i Got so stretched It is hard for me to feel...and so the sex life for me is A trial...LOL...

And the excercies do work ....*S*...

 

[Lane B]

actuall.....its 4 kids.......... that does have an impact onit......i thought it came back to the same size it was ????? sorry im a guy who doesnt know this stuff

we will help as best we can

 

[thehiker]

thanks for the help ladies........ what exercises are ya talking about....kegels????

 

[thehiker]

so radical you've lost some feeling from being stretched....... but the exercises do help ya.... any other advice you can give???

 

[Lane B]

thanks for the help ladies........ what exercises are ya talking about....kegels????

yes.. there are also devices you can by to squeeze down on

 

[thehiker]

a device to help.......ya mean a type of dildo i guess..... would ben wa balls help any???

 

[Arden]

It does eventually return to a normal size for THAT particular person... it may take a few years or more, though. In the mean time, explore as many options as you can together. There are plenty of BIG toys out there... just remember, though, to not rely on them alone for giving her pleasure. There are other places where a tongue or a smaller vibe can be used to drive her wild.

 

[thehiker]

well thats what i've been doing......... I'm a g spot lover ....... and do try to keep it mixed up..... love oral too ! we both do...... but it does come back to a normal size huh......... i'll give it time if she will......... the key is to make sure each of us are satisfied