Size Matters

[Escierto]

The fist time mrs gorden and I had sex she told me size dosen't matter. Latter on I came out to her as bi. Then I told her she could have sex with any man who would let me blow him. We have shared a few men, all picked by her but all had her all with dicks over 9 inches.

How did she find these guys?

 

[LMWM321]

@artgorden
The fist time mrs gorden and I had sex she told me size dosen't matter. Latter on I came out to her as bi. Then I told her she could have sex with any man who would let me blow him. We have shared a few men, all picked by her but all had her all with dicks over 9 inches.

How did she find these guys?

Yes, I'm curious too.

I mean, considering the prevalence of 9" dicks is something like 1/10,000, that alone makes the odds of finding just ONE guy pretty slim. Then add to that huge task, finding one who is bi-sexual, so maybe it's 1/10th of the 1/10,000. THEN, you need to find one who's unattached and is willing to have NSA threesome with a married couple - so maybe 1/30th of that vanishingly small cohort. ...Then finally, find one of those who is sufficiently attracted to you and your Mrs. Well... you get my point.

Oh... And your Mrs was able to find such a unicorn 3 times?

Yeah, put me in the "Un-believing" Columm.

 

[artgorden]

How did she find these guys?

Some were her coworkers. A few we met at gay bars. One was a coworker of mine. The guy who was my coworker was bi and I never saw it. She talked to him for five minutes at a company party and she knew. He had a huge dick and she flirted by telling him i have a little dick.

 

[artgorden]

Yes, I'm curious too.

I mean, considering the prevalence of 9" dicks is something like 1/10,000, that alone makes the odds of finding just ONE guy pretty slim. Then add to that huge task, finding one who is bi-sexual, so maybe it's 1/10th of the 1/10,000. THEN, you need to find one who's unattached and is willing to have NSA threesome with a married couple - so maybe 1/30th of that vanishingly small cohort. ...Then finally, find one of those who is sufficiently attracted to you and your Mrs. Well... you get my point.

Oh... And your Mrs was able to find such a unicorn 3 times?

Yeah, put me in the "Un-believing" Columm.

1 in 10,000?

 

[Escierto]

1 in 10,000?

That's a bit extreme. It's more like 1 in 500 so if that's what you are into, you can find them.

 

[LMWM321]

That's a bit extreme. It's more like 1 in 500 so if that's what you are into, you can find them.

Well… He said over 9 inches. So I took that to mean 10 inches. And according to the Calc SD website the number of penises that large is pretty much nonexistent. Most likely… they aren’t probably measuring.

And he is claiming not only to have found several such men but also found ones who are bisexual, not in a relationship (or, are non-monogamous) and who are sufficiently attracted to he and his wife to have sex with them.

So I’m sticking with my one in 10,000 .

 

[Escierto]

Well… He said over 9 inches. So I took that to 10 inches. And according to the Calc SD website the number of penises that large is pretty much nonexistent. Most likely… They aren’t probably measuring.

And he is claiming not only to have found several such men but also found ones belonging to bisexual men who are not in a relationship, or are non-monogamous. And are sufficiently attracted to he and his wife, so I’m sticking with my one in 10,000 .

Well, if he was talking OVER nine inches, the numbers just keep getting tinier and tinier so you may very well be right. When you add in those other variables, it does become completely absurd.

 

[LMWM321]

Well, if he was talking OVER nine inches, the numbers just keep getting tinier and tinier so you may very well be right. When you add in those other variables, it does become completely absurd.

From the CalcSD website.

Based on aggregated data from around the world, only 2 men in 99999 have a penis larger than 8”. The number goes to zero when you query 10 inches, even 9” yields a “0”. Again, we know that they do exist - we see them in porn. Just like we know men who are 6’ 10” exist, because we see them playing basketball on TV. But you could spend all day in a busy shopping mall and never see a guy that tall.

If he is encountering several men with 9+ inch penises, he would have to be hanging out in the parking lot of a porn studio.

The guys claim that they have encountered numerous guys that big is totally unbelievable, to me anyway

 

[Escierto]

Just like we know men who are 6’ 10” exist, because we see them playing basketball on TV. But you could spend all day in a busy shopping mall and never see a guy that tall.

You are absolutely right. I am 6'2" which is tall but not freakishly tall. I don't often see men taller than me and I always notice it when I do. Only 4% of men are my height or taller so that explains it. How often do I see a guy 6'10"? I can't remember the last time I did.

 

[Swuchrow]

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From the CalcSD website.

Based on aggregated data from around the world, only 2 men in 99999 have a penis larger than 8”. The number goes to zero when you query 10 inches, even 9” yields a “0”. Again, we know that they do exist - we see them in porn. Just like we know men who are 6’ 10” exist, because we see them playing basketball on TV. But you could spend all day in a busy shopping mall and never see a guy that tall.

If he is encountering several men with 9+ inch penises, he would have to be hanging out in the parking lot of a porn studio.

The guys claim that they have encountered numerous guys that big is totally unbelievable, to me anywayView attachment 2506954

From my experience as a bi bottom almost all the cocks, and I have seen many, fall within the 5-7” range. I didn’t measure any of them but they were in size range of my 6” cock.

 

[GuaMan085]

I'm a 6'2" Latino male in his 30s. My penis is 5.5" long and around 5" in girth with a slight upward curve. I have been with quite a few women sexually more so in a casual manner than an actual relationship and I haven't had any women complain about it being small or not enjoy the dick I was giving them. But at the same time I don't get the "wow" factor when they see it either.

 

[Escierto]

I haven't had any women complain about it being small or not enjoy the dick I was giving them. But at the same time I don't get the "wow" factor when they see it either

Yeah, that is my experience too and I am about the same size. No complaints. No wows.

 

[LMWM321]

I'm a 6'2" Latino male in his 30s. My penis is 5.5" long and around 5" in girth…
…I haven't had any women complain about it being small or not enjoy the dick I was giving them. But at the same time I don't get the "wow" factor when they see it either.

I have received a few wows because of my size, but not in a positive way - more like “oh, wow! ..that’s gonna be kind of uncomfortable.”

Your size sounds just fine and I’m sure most women would agree.

As I have said countless times in several threads, if most women truly desired an 8 inch extra thick penis then they would have a dildo that size in their bed stand. But they don’t. The dildos women tend to buy are the same size as an average sized penis

 

[RoanMtn]

I'm 6'5", but Mother Nature has a sense of humor and endowed me with a very small penis, lol.

 

[artgorden]

Sometimes, when you have a 4 inch dick, and the dude fucking your wife has 7, it may as well be 9.

 

[artgorden]

When I was in my late teens I dated a guy who had a small dick and sometimes premature ejaculation issues. I taught him to get me off with his mouth and fingers and a did everything he wanted sexually. I also fucked other guys (it wasn’t cheating as we were not exclusive). I fully enjoyed my relationship with him and got to enjoy bigger dicks sometimes.

Stay with me here because this analogy is a bit stretched but to me a small dick is kind of like a tofu burger. Some people are indifferent between the tofu and the beef burger. Some people even prefer the tofu burger. And of course some people prefer the beef burger. A well prepared tofu burger is preferable to a poorly prepared beef burger. And if I am a guest at someone’s house and they serve up a tofu burger I will accept it and enjoy it graciously.

But it is not the same fucking thing at all. That is just a fact. How anybody feels about the difference doesn’t change the fact that there is a difference. And if I want a beef burger there is nothing you can do to a tofu burger that will make it equivalent. If I order a beef burger in a restaurant it isn’t good enough to deliver a tofu burger and tell me how good the chef is with his hands - if I want beef his skills with tofu won’t make up the gap.

See I have no problem enjoying a tofu burger. What I have a problem with is if someone tries to force me to pretend it isn’t different or deny myself the opportunity to ever eat a beef burger again.

And that is kind of how monogamy makes the size thing into an issue. With monogamy it isn’t enough to enjoy each partner for what they are, we are expected to pretend one is the absolute best to the exclusion of all others. It isn’t small dick or big dick, tofu or beef that presents the problem. It is the compulsion to pretend.

I would never limit you to my little dick. If once in a while you found bi guy with a big dick, that would be wonderful.

 

[liqueur]

When I was in my late teens I dated a guy who had a small dick and sometimes premature ejaculation issues. I taught him to get me off with his mouth and fingers and a did everything he wanted sexually. I also fucked other guys... that is kind of how monogamy makes the size thing into an issue. With monogamy it isn’t enough to enjoy each partner for what they are, we are expected to pretend one is the absolute best to the exclusion of all others. It isn’t small dick or big dick... that presents the problem. It is the compulsion to pretend.

I love all of this. What you say, how you're expressing it.

 

[Dangerousliaisons]

My sister and her first husband’s marriage was a disaster,they had been catholic virgins when they married ,he lacked girth,marriage was a sham,after her divorce,I took her to the Caribbean to make up for lost time

 

[midnight_doctor_2]

There are NO credible studies suggesting Black men have bigger penises. The few studies that do indicate it rely on self reported data which makes them wholly undependable. And even those studies show only a very small difference, which is to say NOTHING like what appears in porn or is described by knuckleheads in Forums.

These days, the perception that Black men have perceptibly bigger penises comes from Porn. In Porn, ONLY black men with huge penises get hired AND mostly for BBC roles where dick size is a feature of the story. Then they are generally paired with smaller women so their penises look even bigger. This is not merely my opinion. This has been dissected and discussed in countless articles and podcasts about porn including those with actual porn performers weighing in on the discussion. BBC porn is racist and anyone who embraces it is contributing to the problem.

As for what you're seeing in your own life... Well, if the dicks you're seeing on Black men in public bathrooms, changing rooms, nude beeches, and one-night stands are bigger than white guys, then it's probably because only Black Men with bigger dicks are putting themselves in those situations. The Black men w/ average or smaller dicks are not.

And Is there really a lot of peeking at other guys dicks in public bathrooms? WTF people!??

NO credible study. Ask any white woman. They all just think it's bigger. Once they feel it going in the mind takes over. Then it does not have to be bigger, just black.

 

[LMWM321]

NO credible study. Ask any white woman. They all just think it's bigger. Once they feel it going in the mind takes over. Then it does not have to be bigger, just black.

If your dick size is what your partner loves most about you.... Well.. you're not much of a partner.

 

[lowcollar]

Better be damn good with your tongue! I used to date a woman whose ex was so small that she didn't know that it was in and he was saying how great it was. Felt bad for the guy.

 

[midnight_doctor_2]

If your dick size is what your partner loves most about you.... Well.. you're not much of a partner.

Not in it for the romance. Just the sex.

 

[LMWM321]

NO credible study. Ask any white woman. They all just think it's bigger. Once they feel it going in the mind takes over. Then it does not have to be bigger, just black.

I know I'm repeating myself, but here goes.....

Many surveys of Women's Top Sexual Fantasies have appeared over the years in magazine such as Oprah, Cosmopolitan, Vogue, etc.. And "Sex with a Black Man" and "Huge Dick" appears in NONE OF THEM. And some of the fantasies that did make the list were pretty darn kinky, so it's not because women were too shy to admit to it.

Face it... You've been gaslighted by the Porn industry into believing this horrible and racist trope. It emanates from men projecting their fantasies of their wives ONTO their wives. And I strongly suspect that the few women who do say "Yes, I fantasize of fucking black men" are likely just telling their idiot husbands what he wants to hear.

I'm sorry, Doctor, but apparently "Harmful Sexual Myths and Stereotypes" wasn't taught at the Medical school you attended. ..Or, maybe you just weren't paying attention.

 

[BillyWalrus]

I know I'm repeating myself, but here goes.....

Many surveys of Women's Top Sexual Fantasies have appeared over the years in magazine such as Oprah, Cosmopolitan, Vogue, etc.. And "Sex with a Black Man" and "Huge Dick" appears in NONE OF THEM. And some of the fantasies that did make the list were pretty far-out so, it's not because women were too shy to admit to it.

Face it... You've been gaslighted by Porn into believing this horrible and racist trope. It emanates from men projecting their fantasies of their wives ONTO their wives. And I strongly suspect that the few women who do say "Yes, I fantasize of fucking black men" are likely just appeasing their idiot husbands who have made it quite clear it's THEIR fantasy that she craves "black dick."

Sorry, Doctor. ..Apparently, "Harmful sexual myths and stereotypes" was't taught at the Medical school you attended. ..Or maybe you just weren't paying attention.

Yet another dose of the truth for the porn addled fools of Lit.

 

[write_or_wrong]

I know I'm repeating myself, but here goes.....

Many surveys of Women's Top Sexual Fantasies have appeared over the years in magazine such as Oprah, Cosmopolitan, Vogue, etc.. And "Sex with a Black Man" and "Huge Dick" appears in NONE OF THEM. And some of the fantasies that did make the list were pretty darn kinky, so it's not because women were too shy to admit to it.

Face it... You've been gaslighted by Porn into believing this horrible and racist trope. It emanates from men projecting their fantasies of their wives ONTO their wives. And I strongly suspect that the few women who do say "Yes, I fantasize of fucking black men" are likely just telling their idiot husbands what he wants to hear.

I'm sorry, Doctor, but apparently "Harmful Sexual Myths and Stereotypes" wasn't taught at the Medical school you attended. ..Or, maybe you just weren't paying attention.

Well said! Reminded me of a phrase sometimes used while discussing political polling. People wonder why election "surprises" happen, given all the science put in to polling. The supposed answer is that during the polling that predicted the outcome that didn't happen, respondents were "venting, not voting."