sister-in-law

[Wolfman25]

my sister-in-law my wifes sister. Is hot I have seen her nude before. she knows that I have too and i also think she wants to have sex with me but not sure. My question is how do I go about to find out if it is true that she does want to have sex with me. anyone?

[This message has been edited by wolfman25 (edited 06-06-2000).]

 

[Nicole]

Quite simple.

YOU DON'T

 

[Hecate]

First of all to wolfman25:
I am sorry wolfman25 to use your post as a "diving board" but you just happend to be coming along with your post the "right" (or rather wrong) time. So please bear with my rambling and I will give you an honest and serious advise somewhere towards the end of my rambling.


What I have to say in more general terms:
I do have the feeling that many people here are very much concerned lately with how to approach family and family-related persons. This is an impression that I am getting from not only the General Board but as well from the How-To BB, and even worse from the Sexual Role Play BB (and I am NOT talking about and Incest RP's etc. there, but about threads that to me do sound lika a scarily serious advise).

I want to make a plain statement here that I do think that although I might like to read incest stories myself and even might participate in Role Plays involving this kind of relation, I do consider it wrong (as in : w-r-o-n-g) as a reality.

And for all of you who think about anything along the line: DON'T DO IT!


Then there are the many posts asking how to approach not direct family but family-related persons (and this is the category in which this post falls and the reason for me replying)

The answer to this one is easy: The same way you would approach any other person you would like to find out how they feel about you. Weather it be love or "just sex" is not consequential (is that a word??) in this case.

Let me give you an example "using" this post above to make my point clear (since I feel I am lacking considerably with it finding the right words atm.)

The question is: How to approach my sister-in-law? Now it is not direct family, so - fine and the prblem is not an incestuous one.(which immediately would apply answer one: Don't Do it!)

Now I really have to ask: what is the problem??

In my eyes the point is: the Lady is married to a person you are close to, and you know it can cause a whole lot of trouble if you two get caught at it or if you are wrong in thinking she might be interested.

So my advise to this one, wolfman25:
Ask yourself how you would feel about the situation if she were not your brother's but your best friend's wife. Would you risk loosing them both for it?

If the answer to this is a sincere and honest "Yes" then my advise is to think about it again - seriously!! And if the answer still is "Yes", then to behave just as if she was your best friend's wife!

As how to find out about how to approach her in this case I have no clue, because I just never would and so I am not encouraging this (as I am not encouraging ANY cheating and this to me very much sounds like going that way)... plus these situations are just so complex that NONE but you and maybe your brother(respective best friend) could give you any advise (which I assume is not really the person you should be and would be asking ... no I am not making fun of you but I am trying to take the all too serious undertone out of the post now).

I guess it is just the same approach you would head for with any married woman you were trying to find out if she was willing to cheat on her hubby with you... and since I am not even a married woman I can't tell you how to get that done either ... sorry.


I aplogize to you in advance wolfman25, for having vented about my more general concerns that were not directly related to your question, but my "suggestions" or rather lack thereof are the only ones I can offer with a good conscience.

Hecate

[This message has been edited by Hecate (edited 06-05-2000).]

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

Hecate, you've touched on somthing that always bugged me about these "What should I do?" questions.

Sure, many of them are quite real and ask legit questions and people find it very helpful to get answers here, but a percentage of them are like this: "Hi. I have a sister who's got big tits. How can I get her to sleep with me?"

"How the fuck should I know?" is my usual response. "What makes you think I know enough about you and your life to even start to answer a question like that?"

Like the guy is expecting me to peer inside his brain, divine his life, and respond with something like, "Okay, go into her room, you know, the one down the hall and to the left, and, you know how she always puts her laundry in the corner? Well, take a pair of her panties, you know, the blue ones you like so much, and take them down to the rec room where she likes to watch that show, what is it? -- Oh yeah, 'The Simpsons', and start teasing her with the panties, telling her you found them in the bathroom, the upstairs one, not the one next to the pantry where your mom keeps the apple jelly your aunt Sue made that time you all went to Knott's Berry Farm when Cousin Jerry graduated from Middle School during the solar eclipse and..."

Geez. So, wolfman, just what are you looking for here beyond the easy answer -- don't eat where you shit. Sorry to dump -- it's not on you, really, my comments are just a general *sigh* to all these questions. Don't quit the board or anything, or I'll make Lasher dance in your lap.

 

[Sammyjo]

I agree with DCL...it is very difficult to analyze a situation which you know nothing (or next to) about.

I think that given the information, the best answer is just drop it. I don't condone cheating on one's spouse, however, I am not stupid..I do know that this occurs. If you are willing to sacrifice your marriage then I guess, go for it. Still, I do think it is the wrong thing to do.

 

[Skitten]

I agree with Nicole you don't unless you really want to do two things that is screw up your relationship with your wife. And also mess up the sister relationship that they have built for many years and the bond that is between them. Seriously you don't want to go there if you are not happy with your wife then tell her, but don't hurt her this way this in one of the most evil ways to betray your wife. And by all means if you are going to cheat don't do it with her sister you have no idea what kind of bond sisters have with one another. So please just forget about and try working on the relationship with your wife if you marriage means anything to you try working whatever problems you have with your wife out.

 

[Wizard]

I'm with everone else here, 1# What the Fuck?
and 2# what do you think we would say? Yea go fuck her hell fuck them all go nuts enjoy it man ! Go for it......Is that what you needed to hear? Someone to say do it?

 

[Wolfman25]

I never said I was going to have sex with her I just wanted to find out if she did. I love my wife and I am very happy with her. I would never cheat on here either I am not like that I was just asking how could I go about askiing to find out if it was true then I would tell her that it could never happen.

 

[Sammyjo]

So, basically you just want to rub it in her face that you know, but also that it isn't going to happen.

Why don't you just "pretend" that she does want to. You will save her the humiliation of the whole ordeal, and your embarrassment when she laughs (or spits) in your face.

WHO CARES????

 

[Hecate]

Well, seeing I misinterpreted your request (forgive me but I just can't help it seemingly, having my mind in the gutter at most times) my advice - in rough draft would just be the same: How would you handle it with any other female?

If you have a close relation to her (which I assume to some extend since how would you otherwise have been able to get the idea she might be interested in you sexually), why not just address the subject in a opportune moment, like:
"You know .... (insers sis-in-law's name here), I love your sister that much , I would never ever cheat on her no matter how attractive the offer."

You may not know if she ever considered anything that way, but I would assume it is of no consequence since all you want to do is make it clear to her that you are NOT interested and want to save her from making a fool of herself by approaching you ...
As far as I am concerned that would be the gentlemanly thing to do in that case.

hope I got your intentions right this time *sighs* if not blame it on the "I am a natural blonde with her tiny little mind in the gutter"-excuse.

Hecate

 

[Guest]

Geezzzz people chill a little. If Wolfman really want to do it hell do it in spight of what you say. Your talking morals. Bottom line Wolfman is ask your wife if she has ever had sex with her sister. If she has ask if you can koin in. If you have enough guts to do that then go for it. I've been married for 35 yrs. and also have seen my sister-in-law in the buff. All I did with it is use it to fantazie ? about her. My wife enjoyed all the end results. It doesn't change the fact that I would like to scew her but the odd are not in my favor so I don't worry about it. For what it's worth...
Jack

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

LOL!

Yeah. Do that.

 

[Sammyjo]

LMFAO @ KOK...you are too funny!!!

 

[Wolfman25]

I see what some of you are saying. I wouldn't throw it in her face I would just let her know that it could never happen between use no matter how much I wanted it to happen. on the other hand unless she never says anything to her sister. then if I did I would half to live with the fact that I fucked the hell out of my sister-in-law and she would have loved it.