Simulating a Threesome....

[BiMommy77]

Hello everyone! So, I'm bicurious, wonder often what it would be like to be with a woman, more so now as I've gotten a bit older. So, my fiance and I fantasize about a MFF threesome, and have even simulated a MMF with my dildo, where he actually participates in the oral on my toy, which DRIVES ME WILD. So, we would like to simulate a MFF three some, as I'm pretty sure the emotional baggage that can/and probably will, (knowing me) come along with a real honest to goodness threesome. I have too many fears of what could go wrong afterward, or how I would feel about him afterward. He's my best friend, soon to be stepfather of my two boys that love him so much, and I would hate to ruin a wonderful relationship with something that could have remained a fantasy.

So my question is, any toys, (we wish we could afford a Real Doll), that could help us simulate a MFF threesome, so I can perform oral, he can use the mouth while I finger it, etc. Or he can do oral on the toy while I suck him!! Ooooh, so excited to even contemplate!!! Any suggestions for toys, or scenarious welcome!! PM me if you wish!

THANK YOU IN ADVANCE

 

[amofiga]

I have seen less expensive "artificial vaginas" that essentially model the entire female crotch but not much else. Check the sex toy catalogs or go to a sex toy shop in your area if there is one. However it may not be enough to truly satisfy your curiosity. You talk about emotional baggage and problems. I could perhaps see that if you are jealous of seeing your husband with another woman or him seeing you with another man. However, would your husband agree to a MFF threesome if say, he only watched you ladies and you were the only one that had physical contact with him? I tend to think (or maybe it's just me) that many men would enjoy this sort of thing. It doesn't hurt to discuss it with him if you haven't already. The next problem is finding another woman who would agree with this that you are comfortable with.

Good luck. Remember, you only live once and most prople tend to regret the things they didn't do rather than the ones then did.

 

[sweet_lusciousdesire]

Hello everyone! So, I'm bicurious, wonder often what it would be like to be with a woman, more so now as I've gotten a bit older. So, my fiance and I fantasize about a MFF threesome, and have even simulated a MMF with my dildo, where he actually participates in the oral on my toy, which DRIVES ME WILD. So, we would like to simulate a MFF three some, as I'm pretty sure the emotional baggage that can/and probably will, (knowing me) come along with a real honest to goodness threesome. I have too many fears of what could go wrong afterward, or how I would feel about him afterward. He's my best friend, soon to be stepfather of my two boys that love him so much, and I would hate to ruin a wonderful relationship with something that could have remained a fantasy.

So my question is, any toys, (we wish we could afford a Real Doll), that could help us simulate a MFF threesome, so I can perform oral, he can use the mouth while I finger it, etc. Or he can do oral on the toy while I suck him!! Ooooh, so excited to even contemplate!!! Any suggestions for toys, or scenarious welcome!! PM me if you wish!

THANK YOU IN ADVANCE

I'm a celebrator addict myself...It's like a toothbrush with a round end for your clit. It's so incredibly orgasmic. I'd love to watch a man sucking my vibe after I used it too...what a turn on...he'll be licking every drop as I watched....ooooo that is a turn on forsure.....

 

[TTitan79]

I definitely understand your fears. I have fantasized about a threesome for a long time. I have a gay friend who is always coming on to me when he is drinking. I told him I wouldn't do anything with him, unless my wife was involved. I planted the seed in my wife's mind one weekend, by asking if she was interested in sex with him. She said no, and I let it go. The next weekend my friend came over and we were all feeling really good from alcohol. I put in a porn, which we never watch. We all ended up in the living room watching the porn together. I told my wife she should take off her pants and rub herself. She said she couldn't, my friend pulled out his huge dick, and said it was easy. Next thing you know I was going down on her, and decided to join. After burying his face in her pussy for a while, I suggested we take it to the bedroom. It only got better from there.

 

[theunknown2008]

I definitely understand your fears. I have fantasized about a threesome for a long time. I have a gay friend who is always coming on to me when he is drinking. I told him I wouldn't do anything with him, unless my wife was involved. I planted the seed in my wife's mind one weekend, by asking if she was interested in sex with him. She said no, and I let it go. The next weekend my friend came over and we were all feeling really good from alcohol. I put in a porn, which we never watch. We all ended up in the living room watching the porn together. I told my wife she should take off her pants and rub herself. She said she couldn't, my friend pulled out his huge dick, and said it was easy. Next thing you know I was going down on her, and decided to join. After burying his face in her pussy for a while, I suggested we take it to the bedroom. It only got better from there.

Do tell brother

 

[UnfetteredMale]

One word - fleshlight

 

[roomfor1more]

You ask an interesting question and I will try to give you an honest answer. I am glad to read, at some level, understand the risk and understand your limitations. From reading your question, I feel, you are at a cross-road. I believe you are either taking incremental steps, thereby allowing you to become comfortable with the idea with each new step you take or you are trying to find a way to keep the idea fantasy while trying to add as much realism as possible. If the latter is the case then I suspect you may be more of a visual person that needs to see something rather than having it described or visualizing it.

My first question for you is how well you know your partner? As you are already aware having a threesome comes with risks, especially MFF. In a MFF a risk, mor than a MMF, is the female may become emotionally attached to the two of you and this can pose relationship issues for the two. Do you feel the two of you can deal effectively prevent a woman from becoming enmeshed into your relationship? Another potential risk is your partner and the impact of the threesome on him. Many people wrongly assume every guy's fantasy is a MFF and from experience I can tell it is not. Some guys prefer MMF, because they enjoy being able to make their partner happy and some guys are not at all into threesomes. In my opinion, your next step should be considering the impact on your partner and the type of woman you may want to invite.

Next question, how secure do you feel in your relationship with him? Threesomes force couples to deal with issues that many couples who do not have threesome do not need to face. It takes a committed couple with solid communication skills and trust to have a successful threesome. Usually this takes time to develop.

Moving on to your question, some poster have already suggested the artificial vagina that you can either buy at your local sex shop or online. Another option you might want to consider, would be going to a lap dancing club and paying for a private dance. Since it is not a threesome it will not be a fully accurate measure of your reaction to a threesome and it will not necessarily indicate your partner's reaction; nonetheless it can provide a possible way to simulate one along with give you a generalized idea of your emotional reaction to another female joining the two of you.

Another option is finding a way to roleplay having a MFF and I believe this is the core of your question. Roleplaying can be as realistic as you want it to be and it is up to you how to make it come to life. The one thing you will need is a safeword to stop the roleplay if it becomes to emotionally intense for either of you. How do you set-up a MFF threesome roleplay? Unfortunately I do not know enough about your relationship and you to suggest something. My advice would be to take information provided to your questions and then build on it.

Finally having a threesome can be quite an enjoyable experience. However it is important to know your limits, your partner's limits, and then determine an agreed comfort level. Once you have that worked out then decide your next course of action. It may be buying an artificial vagina, going to a lap dancing club, or finding a way to role play it. Whatever you decide have fun with it and enjoy.

 

[Flybigirlsea]

Sign me up.

 

[BiMommy77]

Sign me up.

siiiigh..oh how i wish.

 

[Image13]

Sounds like fun....

 

[CNYCarol]

... Remember, you only live once and most prople tend to regret the things they didn't do rather than the ones then did.

Heed amofiga's words: There is only 1 fantasy you will ever regret, thats the one you never tried.

 

[VsashaV]

Threesomes..

So, I'm not sure I would say I regret it just yet. My hubby and I have been going at it with my friend. I don't know what I am. I guess I would say I was Bicurious, now I guess I've crossed the threshold into bi. I can't get enough of him and her. I love when he fucks the shit out of her and I love watching her moan as I eat her out ( something I never thought I'd like to do as much as I do...) Its confusing though. I have been worrying about how she feels. She worries how I feel, my hubs is more laid back. about it all. The main thing I can say is just communicate. I feel I am lucky because she is a friend of mine I know her inside (literally) and out. It has been a riveting experience. Im just confused...Im confused as to how i am supposed to feel about her. We both say its just sex - but recently I think its been more than that between us. But i may be over analyzing. regardless, try to take it at face value. I used to be a jealous one. But with her I feel totally comfortable. I even encourage them to explore together one on one!