Sick of waiting...

[Guest]

Listen all you peoples out there, i am 17 and i know that all youse think that i am young (I know that already) but i have been rejected 56 times and everytime i ask a girl out i get the phrase 'I just want to be friends' what the f**k does this actually mean?

Secondly, what is this bulls**t about waiting for the right person? I am not attractive enough to live in this world so how the fuck can i get a g/f b/f? I have seen really fat, ugly dickheads going out with drop dead gorgeous blondes and i can't get one girl....

Can someone help me please people? I really am in desperate need of answers...


Sachiel 2

 

[Doomed_Dreamer]

the truth

Sorry to hear of your problem, I used to be really overweight and guys made fun of me all the time, when i finally lost weight, i am not skinny by far, but I do finally have guys that like me that used to make fun of me (whom i will never date haha)

okay so about your problem - honestly, looks are what attract. but not keep. you have to have a personality to keep a girl. and if you are lacking in the looks department, show off other attributes (your humor, intelligence or personality) before asking on a date. I'd rather date a guy that is fun to be around than some cute boring jock.

you know, abraham lincoln was shut down many times before he finally got to do what he wanted. some things are just worth waiting for. when you find a girl, it will be worth it

 

[Guest]

Ha!!!

I forgot to mention that i have shown off every attribute, everything that is good about me. Unfortunately, where i live everyone believes rumors about me, i had a relationship but my Mother forced me out of it... Not many people like me, i am not liked at all... my eyebrows tell people that i am angry lots when i am not... you think i haven't tried that... sorry, this subject makes me upset. I feel that i have been rejected by life, i see fat, ugly guys with drop dead blondes and babes and i can't even get a chick to remotely hint yes or flirt with me....


Sachiel 2

 

[Guest]

A fact...

I've had:

50-70 rejections (Lost count)

1 girl say yes and i dated her for a month and a half before my Mum split us...

I have never had anyone flirt with me

 

[Guest]

you mentioned more than once that your mom forced you out of a relationship. could "she" be the reason girls are turning you down? just wondering.

also, if you're going to college, and if you can afford to leave home to do so, i recommend it. great way to start off with a clean slate so to speak. go somewhere where nobody knows you or anyone who knows you. that way they cant have any pre-concieved notions about who or what you are. i bet the girls will come running

 

[Cheyenne]

Here is another rejection for you. You aren't old enough to legally be at this site. Please come back when you are 18. In the meantime, I'd guess no one flirts with you due to your attitude - you project hatred. Learn to smile and others will smile back. Now go, and come back in a year.

 

[Guest]

If you knew me...

I am 17 when i joined but will be 18 in a week

I don't have a bad attitude, i smile, i do everything right.... You see, that there are a lot of people who don't bother getting to know someone. They just assume the persons personality via looks...

 

[Guest]

My plan,

In responce to 'just wondering'i have already planned that, i am going to move out of the state... It could be my Mother, the hatred i have for her (Not shown in life) after making me leave my original love...

I don't know, my life lately has been screwed, and i have hardly shown it to any of the chicks i have spoken with or taken out to get to know. I am bi, but i prefer women more then men and i would never have a b/f.... Women give me something so pure that a man can never, Love.

I have heaps of female friends and none will go out with me, i have girls saying that i am cute, understanding and very nice but none will go out with me... I am always willing to help people... Committment is no problem, love is no problem....

I just don't know what to do, i only want people who WANT to give me suggestions not people saying that i am not legally allowed on this site, by Australia/vic laws i am.. and i write erotic fiction.... i am a part time writer.

thanks
Sachiel 2 (Tim)

[Edited by S2K on 01-30-2001 at 01:50 PM]

 

[Cheyenne]

Come back in a week then. You're jail bait right now. And no one gives a fuck about laws in your country- the laws in the U.S. rule this site.

 

[*Lazer*]

I remember being seventeen and it sucked!!!!! It does get better. You need to take this time to make some plans on how to accomplish your leaving home. Set some goals and work towards them. Try not to let your mother bother you or distract you from your endeavor. As far as the girls go once you have struck out on your own it will sort itself out.
I think the others here were reacting to your anger and frustration at being controlled. Use your writing to funnel some of those emotions. It really helped me when I was your age to sort out what it was I needed.
If you go to your parents calmly and ask for what you need they are more likely to listen to you.

 

[Guest]

That chick...

*Everyone please ignore Cheyenne, if she doesn't want to help or suggest then i don't want to hear it*

I know things are a bitch at 17, and 16, 15, 14, 13, 12, 10, well, they were for me. I can't really talk to my parents for that person who suggested it, if i told them what i wanted they'd want to know why and they'll send their 'spies' after me... and i know that they exist.

*I can't get jailed, i am not breaking any 'real' crime, there shouldn't even be a law or erotlit, because the more you ban people from wanting something the more they will get it... so just bug off cheyenne, please, i don't care if i go to prison which i won't*

 

[Weird Harold]

Re: That chick...

[B*I can't get jailed, i am not breaking any 'real' crime, there shouldn't even be a law or erotlit, because the more you ban people from wanting something the more they will get it... so just bug off cheyenne, please, i don't care if i go to prison which i won't* [/B]

I could care less whether you go to prison. Your continued presence here at age seventeen can get this site shut down and all of Laurel and Manu's computers confiscated.

Please, go away until your birthday.

 

[Aaron26]

.....

 

[Cheyenne]

LOL. My, it is getting deep in here, isn't it?

But thanks, Aaron.

 

[Guest]

its time to shut u guys up

You want my real age? you want the truth? I am eighteen so leave me alone

 

[Doomed_Dreamer]

question ? ? ?

why do i keep getting emails every time someone posts on this thread? I made the first reply, but I didn't start all this nonsense. Just wondering..

I don't want anyone to get the administrators in trouble, I think this site kicks ass. I don't care how old you are, frankly I'm only 19 but you are acting childish. Your responses are entertaining, but you wonder why girls don't like you - look at all the temper tantrums and lies you've told.

 

[Guest]

hmmmm....

I am not like this in real life, understand that... this is my nickname personality...

I never act my real personality on the net, this is Sachiel, not me... This personality is angered easily and always argues...LOL

[Edited by S2K on 02-01-2001 at 11:17 PM]

 

[Doomed_Dreamer]

oh boy we have a multiple personality disorder on our hands

can i experiment on you for my senior seminar project in 2 or 3 years?

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: question ? ? ?

why do i keep getting emails every time someone posts on this thread? I made the first reply, but I didn't start all this nonsense. Just wondering..

You keep getting notified because you have "Email notification" turned on for your response to this thread. If you go in to edit your response and "unclick" that box at the bottom, I think the notifications stop.

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: question ? ? ?

I don't care how old you are, frankly I'm only 19 but you are acting childish. Your responses are entertaining, but you wonder why girls don't like you - look at all the temper tantrums and lies you've told.

Exactly right. I doubt the online personality is that much different than the RL personality.

 

[Guest]

This thread can now be closed...

Inbetween all your cries of outrage and continuous annoyances... I have successfully courted a lovely lass who loves me for who i am and not what i am... i'd like to thank everyone except cheyenne...

 

[Cheyenne]

You found someone to love in the last three days since you posted your rant? okee dokee

We'll be seeing you soon, I expect. And the answer to that question will be that only time heals a broken heart.

You're welcome, in advance.

 

[Guest]

Found the problem, i an not CONSISTANT with my attitudes, feelings and stuff... i was told that i am that and that i will not get anywhere in life with women, sex and love...

this is fucked up

I am going to ask something important from all of you, i need truthful, honest and at least helpful counselling on how i can change... as i don't know how to help myself

Please, i am asking for help... i was told people care about each other... lets hope this is you

[Edited by S2K on 02-10-2001 at 06:12 PM]

 

[teresafannin]

Hello, I am not young, but I remember my late teens & early 20's as being very difficult. There are a lot of pressures-school, jobs, what do I want to do when I get out of school, things like that. I think the best thing to remember is that you have a lot of time to find the perfect woman, don't be in a hurry to settle down. The old saying that 2 can live as cheaply as one is only true if one of you doesn't eat. If you are happy with yourself & your life, that will show in how others see you. It sounds like you have some issues with your mom, lots of young people go through things like that. Sometimes having a nuetral person to talk to can help. I know when my son & I had issues, he would talk to his favorite aunt & then we would work out the problem. Now that you have met someone, take your time, get to know her & don't force the relationship. Good luck to you, I hope things work out for you.

 

[Guest]

Ponders..

Unfortunately my girlfriend decided to go after a more attractive guy a week into our relationship... alrite, i am not the greatest looking guy. But i am human.

Ummm, i can't speak to anyone about getting a girlfriend, especially in family