Shyness

[Ezzie]

Well, I made a little progress tonight. Before work I let him come in while I was changing clothes and he kissed the back of my neck. I know it's not that big of a deal to most people, but, it was progress for me.

Damn work, anyway!

Thanks for the advice, millie and lil and thanks for sharing your stories with me.

 

[Champagne]

Ideas and Comments anf Stuff

Ezzie, Just another idea that wasn't mentioned, We all know hes with you cos he wants you but when its yourself you can't see it I am in the same boat. Except mines married to someone else. If you shower in the morning and he shves you could shower while he shaves, with the curtain closed, or whatever then open it but tell him hes not allowed to pay attention. Its an ideas.


Congrat VixenShe on being able to be that controlled. I feel that I am not attractive without a man too. The man I want is married to someone else which prolly isnt a self-esteem booster bhut....lol

Champagne

 

[Lust Engine]

I too also support you in your endeavors to be sexier for your new husband. Lucky guy!!! I hope that all the posters here have given you some support in one way or another.

While (as Chele puts it) gravity does suck as we age, sexiness is eternal! Confidence is sexy to me & I'm sure your husband thinks the same thing. I could honestly say seeing a confident CLOTHED woman is much more evocative than a shy naked woman. Your confidence with your own body will keep him completely enraptured. Obviously you've got enough of it to snag him into matrimony!

Keep working on yourself (Weight Watchers, working out, etc.) and don't give up but please congratulate yourself on the progress you have made. You might never be 125 lbs. & fit into a size 4, but I'm sure you've made SOME progress. Give yourself the permission to celebrate the prgress you've made. Take that praise and use its momentum to doing so much more.

Your husband loved you enough to want you around forever. You've got something special already within you that he sees. Try to look through his eyes or use him as your emotional mirror.

He sees something really great in you. No need to dispel that vision of his now!

 

[Ezzie]

Thank you Lust and Champagne. I'm making a little progress in both diet and revealing myself to him. So far he's been very happy with the pace at which things are going. I've married the most wonderful man.

 

[Lust Engine]

Thank you Lust and Champagne. I'm making a little progress in both diet and revealing myself to him. So far he's been very happy with the pace at which things are going. I've married the most wonderful man.

Kudos to you on making that progress! I'm glad you're making note of it here and actually allowing yourself to somewhat brag about it. You've worked hard to achieve what you've got. Be proud of the accomplishment no matter how big or small.

Double kudos to your new husband. I hope he continues to support you with your issues. Have faith in this guy; he seems like a keeper!

 

[Ezzie]

Thank you very much, Lust. I'm not usually one to accept compliments or other forms of praise, but, the way you all have treated me is unbelievable.

 

[Guest]

Still lying to get attention, I see. So sad. I pity you.

 

[Ezzie]

Oh, you think hiding behing a "Guest" name is going to intimidate me? I know who you are, I'm not as stupid as you are. And, if I'm lying, why don't you come down and meet him or take a look at my marriage license or my wedding ring? Until then, shut the fuck up and go troll someone else.

 

[Lust Engine]

Still lying to get attention, I see. So sad. I pity you.

Ezzie,

Don't even let this spineless windsock of an ass pucker ruffle you, Ezzie.

I don't exactly see you having half the courage to do what Ezzie's doing here. At least she has the fortitude to sign her name & debate the merits of her attempts at happiness. You hide behind the shield of anonymity and yet add nothing constructive to helping a fellow human being's welfare. I only hope that you don't meet a version of yourself when you're in dire need of medical attention.

If you've really got a beef with Ezzie, then please air it out in a thought out & intelligent way. Let her have the chance to respond to your cruel and cheap ass attack on her character. Prove to the rest of us here that she's lying if that is your claim. Have the kahonies to back up what your saying or are you the lying weak slug here??

Again Ezzie, don't even pay any attention to this polyp that's sprung up on the ass of society. And while I've probably wasted too much time wiping this piece of dung off of my shoe, I still applaud you in your efforts.

 

[Ezzie]

Thank you, Lust.

It's like water off my back, though. I know the truth and whether or not my troll wishes to believe it or not, that's up to them. I've offered the chance to meet my new huband and other forms of proof and if my little troll doesn't want to take me up of the offer, well, there's nothing I can do about that. I just really hope "it" comes down to my house.

 

[spankableBelle]

Ezzie, i understand your shyness, more than you know. But if he loves you, then don't underestimate him or how he'll view you. He found you beautiful and married you for his own, just the way you are. He's felt your body any number of times. i have been rejected enough in my own marriage because of weight and i wouldn't wish that feeling on anyone, but i have to say, trust him and let him see you. i have faith that all will be well for you and you'll find that you worried over nothing. ~smile~

belle

 

[Ezzie]

Thank you, Belle. My husband has assured me over 100 times that I have nothing to worry about because he loves me no matter what. I believe him, but, I just don't believe in myself right now. I'm working on it, though.

 

[spankableBelle]

Thank you, Belle. My husband has assured me over 100 times that I have nothing to worry about because he loves me no matter what. I believe him, but, I just don't believe in myself right now. I'm working on it, though.

i understand that feeling. It is one i live with everyday, but you'll get there. The love you share with your husband will get you there. ~smile~

belle

 

[Ezzie]

It's a horrible feeling to live with, isn't it?

 

[spankableBelle]

It's a horrible feeling to live with, isn't it?

It is, yes...it breaks my heart that others live with it and it's why i put belief into my friends and loved ones...because i can't stand for them to live with the pain that i do...when someone is steadfast in their belief in you, in their love, even though it's hard with someone that doesn't see what they do, never wavering, it will eventually start to sink in...but it's not easy to keep that faith, and some aren't patient enough to wait and see the blossoming...but there are a few that are...and i hope and hope and hope with all my heart that yours is one of the few...~smile~...he sure sounds like he is...

belle

 

[Lust Engine]

It is, yes...it breaks my heart that others live with it and it's why i put belief into my friends and loved ones...because i can't stand for them to live with the pain that i do...when someone is steadfast in their belief in you, in their love, even though it's hard with someone that doesn't see what they do, never wavering, it will eventually start to sink in...but it's not easy to keep that faith, and some aren't patient enough to wait and see the blossoming...but there are a few that are...and i hope and hope and hope with all my heart that yours is one of the few...~smile~...he sure sounds like he is...

belle

HERE HERE!!!! I too second Belle's sentiments to you Ezzie! Have faith in yourself. You'll be pleasantly rewarded in everything that'll come your way.