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Just popping in to say hello been busy with life but can't wait to see more sexy pictures have a great day beautiful.
 
I've been busy (really busy), but I am debating on posting again. I haven't told my partner that I've been doing this. I'm not sure he would mind, but I'm reluctant to tell him because I don't want to make it about him (or you for that matter!). I've taken these photos because I enjoy the process and part of me enjoys the attention.

Hence the debate.
 
That truly is a tough call. I guess the real question boils down to- would he be upset knowing that you are keeping this from him, for the reasons you are?

Honesty and communication always come first, and even if he would be fine with you posting, the act of doing it without telling him may bother him more than anything.

Not that I don't want even more pictures of you... :D
 
If posting and bantering puts you in a playful mood, it's going to be a good thing for him too.
 
That truly is a tough call. I guess the real question boils down to- would he be upset knowing that you are keeping this from him, for the reasons you are?

Honesty and communication always come first, and even if he would be fine with you posting, the act of doing it without telling him may bother him more than anything.

Not that I don't want even more pictures of you... :D

I expect you're right on this one.

He wouldn't care at all that I've been posting photos. It's something we've done together, and it's something he's done on his own (and he has kept it from me at times). But it's never something that I've done on my own without him.

I think the only thing that would upset him would be if I continued doing it and purposefully kept it from him. But I could be wrong on that too. I've been away for three months, and I think we've both changed a lot in that time.

He might enjoy being a "lurker" on my thread.
 
You could always just tell him exactly what you told us- You are doing this, but you're doing it for you, and don't want to make it about him or about us. He should understand and respect that, especially since he has posted himself previously, so he knows where you are coming from.

You may have your cake and eat it too!
 
You could always just tell him exactly what you told us- You are doing this, but you're doing it for you, and don't want to make it about him or about us. He should understand and respect that, especially since he has posted himself previously, so he knows where you are coming from.

You may have your cake and eat it too!

I expect I'll do that.

I just want to relish in the secrecy of it all for awhile
 
I expect I'll do that.

I just want to relish in the secrecy of it all for awhile

There's something to be said for keeping a few secrets, as long as they don't define the whole relationship . . . and as you say, it's for you.
 
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