Shy Sexy Texan

[RDRUMMER]

Good looking Texas woman!

 

[gubernacht]

Greetings from the frozen north! Love your thread, definitely subscribing Hope you are having a great friday!

 

[BloodMoonRising]

Greetings from the frozen north!

Dallas?

 

[StacyLeigh]

...He's from Canada silly... has it been a looonnnggg week for you?

Dallas?

 

[gubernacht]

Dallas?

Dallas would be a tad warmer then we have here

 

[bangulongnhard]

It’s easy to take off your clothes and have sex. People do it all the time. But opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, dreams… that is being naked.

http://i1279.photobucket.com/albums/y531/stacyleigh824/AE16442A-2D1D-418F-A420-156D318BAFAA_zpsrgrg0dbe.jpg

I completely agree, Stacy. Being vulnerable is being naked. So, beautiful yet some times difficult.

 

[StacyLeigh]

Thanks! Vulnerability is something a lot of people struggle with. The hardest thing for me to see on this site are "Doms" wanting to give orders and demand loyalty, but provide no sense of genuine connection back to their sub. You have to allow yourself to be open to your partner if you ever hope to gain their complete trust. Otherwise you just come across as a misogynistic pig - in my opinion .

I completely agree, Stacy. Being vulnerable is being naked. So, beautiful yet some times difficult.

 

[garborn]

I completely agree, Stacy. Being vulnerable is being naked. So, beautiful yet some times difficult.

Thanks! Vulnerability is something a lot of people struggle with. The hardest thing for me to see on this site are "Doms" wanting to give orders and demand loyalty, but provide no sense of genuine connection back to their sub. You have to allow yourself to be open to your partner if you ever hope to gain their complete trust. Otherwise you just come across as a misogynistic pig - in my opinion .

Truer words have never been spoken on here...at least not that I have seen posted. Great pics btw Stacey I am going to love being subscribed to such a sexy and smart persons thread.

 

[tnman03]

Thanks! Vulnerability is something a lot of people struggle with. The hardest thing for me to see on this site are "Doms" wanting to give orders and demand loyalty, but provide no sense of genuine connection back to their sub. You have to allow yourself to be open to your partner if you ever hope to gain their complete trust. Otherwise you just come across as a misogynistic pig - in my opinion .

The entire Dom Sub aspect is and always has been a bit suspect to me but others are quite taken by it. I like your pictures and comments for the good looking and intelligent woman I see within. Vulnerability can be an actual act of contrition, surrender, fear or openness to another. I don't know maybe that is part and partial of what you are saying. But in all of your writing there's inner strength so I suspect you have resilience beyond your own experience.

 

[Lone_Wanderer]

Thanks! Vulnerability is something a lot of people struggle with. The hardest thing for me to see on this site are "Doms" wanting to give orders and demand loyalty, but provide no sense of genuine connection back to their sub. You have to allow yourself to be open to your partner if you ever hope to gain their complete trust. Otherwise you just come across as a misogynistic pig - in my opinion .

Couldn't agree more. I think that's why I struggle understanding the whole D/s lifestyle. It feels one-sided.

 

[bigmackattack]

Thanks! Vulnerability is something a lot of people struggle with. The hardest thing for me to see on this site are "Doms" wanting to give orders and demand loyalty, but provide no sense of genuine connection back to their sub. You have to allow yourself to be open to your partner if you ever hope to gain their complete trust. Otherwise you just come across as a misogynistic pig - in my opinion .

You're amazing stacy.

 

[DiJiT]

I hope your day has gone well Kettle!

*BIG HUG AND A PECK*

 

[bangulongnhard]

I concur again, Stacy. Being vulnerable is a process that involves trust. Giving orders, demanding, and show power is not being dominant or being in control. A so called "Dom" can give all the orders he wants but he ha not gained the trust of a "Sub" he is not getting anything. The same goes in the real world. A so called 'boss' can order all he want but if he has not gained the trust of his people he is not a leader and his workers will not perform.

Now, a real 'Dom' may have to become vulnerable too. He has to show that he cares for his/her 'Sub'. Only by showing that he cares a true connection of trust can be bridged.

Of course, vulnerability is hard challenging because of one simple word 'fear'. Fear of getting hurt or fear of letting go of the control.

It is a fine balance of open up and become vulnerable but when you reach the level of trust, oh boy, it is a beautiful experience!

Thanks! Vulnerability is something a lot of people struggle with. The hardest thing for me to see on this site are "Doms" wanting to give orders and demand loyalty, but provide no sense of genuine connection back to their sub. You have to allow yourself to be open to your partner if you ever hope to gain their complete trust. Otherwise you just come across as a misogynistic pig - in my opinion .

 

[gubernacht]

as with all the other comments here, and your comments Stacy. Vulnerability is something that I too struggle with, due to my own past, and my own experiences, I do not trust easily, and even then it is a rare occasion that I trust completely. As I have been burned by people that i trust when i have been most vulnerable. It is not the same thing, but I can sympathize with your comments.

 

[jonsdeal]

Thanks! Vulnerability is something a lot of people struggle with. The hardest thing for me to see on this site are "Doms" wanting to give orders and demand loyalty, but provide no sense of genuine connection back to their sub. You have to allow yourself to be open to your partner if you ever hope to gain their complete trust. Otherwise you just come across as a misogynistic pig - in my opinion .

This is too true. If you don't build trust with your partner then you really are missing the point. The freeness a sub has with their dom is solely based on the trust that the sub has in that dom. If you own that subs trust then there's no limits, break or fail to build that trust and you really are just roleplaying.

 

[qgg967]

It’s easy to take off your clothes and have sex. People do it all the time. But opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, dreams… that is being naked.

http://i1279.photobucket.com/albums/y531/stacyleigh824/AE16442A-2D1D-418F-A420-156D318BAFAA_zpsrgrg0dbe.jpg

Hey, im new here but i have to say you are very pretty and great pics.

 

[DiJiT]

I hope you're staying safe out there with all the flooding!

*BIG HUG* Luv Ya Kettle!!

 

[StacyLeigh]

Thank you buddy! I've had several very kind Lit members reach out since our little flood made the national news I'm safe and sound - just ready for the sun shine and Texas summer to get here already!!

I hope you're staying safe out there with all the flooding!

*BIG HUG* Luv Ya Kettle!!

 

[DiJiT]

Thank you buddy! I've had several very kind Lit members reach out since our little flood made the national news I'm safe and sound - just ready for the sun shine and Texas summer to get here already!!

Well that's good to hear.

Amazing how big a family Lit can be.(I guess I was slow to see the news)

LOL Well if you want sun then you need to be out here.

Hey, I saw a notice for a new Faire that is going to happen next year out in Texas. I may have to come get that BIG HUG I've been wanting from you.

....and I must say I LOVE the new AV

 

[BloodMoonRising]

Thank you buddy! I've had several very kind Lit members reach out since our little flood made the national news I'm safe and sound - just ready for the sun shine and Texas summer to get here already!!

Good to know

 

[Crusader3113]

Thank you buddy! I've had several very kind Lit members reach out since our little flood made the national news I'm safe and sound - just ready for the sun shine and Texas summer to get here already!!

be safe.