Showing my stuff.........

[LindaL]

I'll admit it. I'm a middle-aged woman who gets a thrill out of showing off, stripping, and masturbating for my husband.

And not just for him, either. I've done the same in front of a number of friends, and once even at a gathering of lesbian and bi women. OK, that last one was part education, part exploration of our sexualities, and part just a desire (on my part) to be an exhibitionist. It was quite memorable.

Now, one of the women I met at the gathering sent me a link to a place called Club Relate in Florida, which seems to be devoted to the concept of women showing off and masturbating for an audience of other attendees, where the woman can be as explicit as she chooses, and set her own limits, and be safe. She's been there, and says it is just a lot of real sexy fun. She apparently had quite the time showing for an enthusiastic crowd.

And ever since I read about Club Relate and of her experience there, I just cannot get the fantasy out of my mind! Imagine, me performing for a dozen or more guys I didn't know, and probably some women too, and seeing the lust in their eyes, and knowing it'll be because of me!!!

My husband is actually supportive of this fantasy, and we've even talked about trying this place someday, but it is not nearby, and it's unlikely that we'll be trying this stuff soon. That's okay.

But I am still amazed at how powerful this fantasy is, and how if the club was nearby, I bet I'd have been there already! It's almost a little scary.

Any other gals of a like mind? Even in fantasy, if not in actual deed? Anybody ever seen someone else do something like this? Tell your experiences, if you'd please!

 

[alain88]

I love watching a woman masturbate....got a webcam? You could have a huge audience.

 

[LindaL]

I love watching a woman masturbate....got a webcam? You could have a huge audience.

Yes, I've thought about webcam, and we've decided against it. On the one hand, it'd be a good way to keep in touch with intimate friends who are not nearby. On the other, I'd be nervous about putting out such footage to strangers on the net.

Yes, I'd be showing to strangers at the Club Relate too, but in my mind it seems different. And real life seems more appealing to show this way. I guess I haven't fully adapted to the internet, LOL!

 

[SweetErika]

I think you're smart to not do it on webcam. Unless you want people recording it and/or to be all over the internet, it's not a good way to go. Webcams are great for staying in touch with friends and playing with people you've established a great deal of trust with, though.

Linda, I'm guessing you'd get more responses to a survey-type question like this (i.e. "Do you like...?/Are you interested in?") in The Playground. You may want to ask LadyG to move it over there.

 

[MagicFingers]

Linda,

Had to post before this gets moved...
I've always loved your masturbating fantasies, and real-life playing.
This thread even gave me a rise in my Levis, if you know what I mean?
Go for it. You and the others will enjoy it greatly. I sure would.

 

[ifitfeelsgood]

fantasy masturbating

Oh God, yes, I have a strong fantasy of masturbating for strangers. Mine is a little different though, I love the idea of being watched by a guy who doesnt realise that I know hes watching me. Get it?? I want to do it for him and I want to know hes getting off on it, but I dont want him to know that I know. Damn, even Im getting confused here. Sorry guys this is my first post, Im very new at this stuff, but I love this site. It makes me horny as hell!!

 

[Francisromantic]

oh yeah

I dearly love watching a woman masturbate, both with her knowledge, and as a voyeur as well (done the first, not the second)... it is amazing, wonderful, and tremendously exciting, and I would love to be in the audience for an erotically charged woman who is pleasuring herself, either with her fingers or toys, simply for the sake of orgasmic delight and excitement

 

[alain88]

The coolest part of the Club Relate thing is that I would thing it would evolve into one big circle jerk. I know I couldn't watch a woman masturbate for very long without having to wack off myself. Talk about audience participation! LOL

 

[BigM]

...I want to do it for him and I want to know hes getting off on it, but I dont want him to know that I know. Damn, even Im getting confused here.

It's not confusing at all, and welcome to Lit.

I've always thought about scripting a risque screenplay -- and your fantasy is exactly one of the scenes: Woman is masturbating in shower. A male friend enters, but he's in the shadows and, he thinks, unnoticed. However, she sees him through a variety of reflections in the bathroom mirrors. Instead of stopping, she smiles and continues the show -- fully aware he's getting excited, but knowing he doesn't know that she's actually watching him.

Oh great. I just gave away my favorite scene. Now Spielberg will be all over it.

 

[waterkemist]

I want to do it too!

I would enjoy beating off while you fingered yourself. Hell, you could just watch if you wanted.

 

[gemaussieslut]

hell yes
the idea of doing that for a group of strangers turns me on immensly(sic?)
if i knew of such a place around where i live i'd be there in a flash... LOL
LindaL im glad your husband is so supportive of it, he sounds great and your decision not to do it via the web, as has already been pointed out was a wise one, for recording and such.
i hope you get the chance to fufill your dream soon

 

[eudaemonia]

Oh God, yes, I have a strong fantasy of masturbating for strangers.

Ditto. And welcome to Lit!

I didn't know I had such a strong exhibitionist streak until a few months after finding this place. I mean, just when you think you know yourself inside and out ... BANG! A whole 'nuther fantasy factory in hyperproduction mode to keep the reigns on. Oy!

I must say I've come up with quite-a-many variations on the Masturbating For Strangers (hereafter, MFS) theme since this lovely self-discovery. I'm not just getting older or better, I'm getting deliciously creative!

As for the Webcam thing, I've given this one a lot of thought as well. It seems to work much better as a fantasy than actually going to all the lengths to pull it off. (And no, that's not a gratuitous double entendre, midwestyankee.)

 

[alain88]

I think one the most erotic things I ever saw was a girl playing with herself at a stoplight. I was in a tall work truck in a double turn lane next to a girl in a Miata. I just happened to look over and there she was just rubbing away at her crotch. At first I thought she must have dropped something, but it was a long light and there was no mistaking what she was doing. My dick got so hard I thought it would explode!

 

[midwestyankee]

This reminds me of a scene from the movie Sex, Lies, and Videotape which was by far the hottest scene in the movie. If your husband is in favor of acting out this fantasy in a public setting that's safe, why not try to plan a vacation trip to Florida?


And as for you, eudaemonia, you know that you're an inveterate punster underneath that shy and retiring facade.

 

[StonetheCrow077]

My roommate and I have a little game going on. It's never verbalized, nor acknowledged... but, we both have fun with it. We both tease each other endlessly. She walks around with no panties and skimpy, loose boxers at night. I usually wear a pair of pajama bottoms with the slit in the front and no underwear. We both get plenty of "peak" shots. It certainly excites both of us. There is just a no touch policy between us. Then she goes to her bed at night and fricks her self silly with her vibe talking to her distant girl friend. And being in the room right next to her, I can hear everything. She has mentioned before that she gets aroused knowing guys get off to her. So, she knows I'm definetly enjoying her shows.

 

[LindaL]

Well! I'm glad my passion for masturbating for an audience struck a chord with a few other women here! That makes me feel a little less freaky!

My usual audience is just my husband. And despite doing this in front of him about twice a week, we both still enjoy it a lot.

But I've also done it in front of hubby and one particular other couple over two dozen times, hub and two of his friends a couple times, hub and one or the other of his friends a handful of occasions, in front of two different gal pals a dozen times at least, and that one time I mentioned in front of over a dozen women! Plus a few times in front of single select friends, just them and me.

Wow, now that I read the above paragraph, I sure have done it a lot!!

But it makes me feel so sexy, so desireable, and frankly, rather empowered by it all too. Not to mention it makes me feel rather lusty and wanton.

If you read the two stories I've linked below, you can see my most memorable experiences (at least the ones I have written about) involve me masturbating for someone besides hub.

Maybe we will plan a Florida trip.

I'd love to hear more about the experience of other gals in this regard!

 

[Pixxie]

Who says you have to go to Florida? Start a group at home; or at least your hometown. Your starting group would include yourself and the aforementioned friends who have seen you. Members would be encouraged to bring guests and nobody would be forced to perform. Sounds like Utopia! Venues could include private areas of clubs, bars rented out for the night, or warehouse spaces out of town. Zoning laws and money might force you to do it in private residences, however.

 

[LindaL]

I'm not sure I'm comfortable enough to do that in my hometown with folks I didn't know quite well ahead of time, Pixxie.

There's something liberating about going away to play. Trips to Palm Springs and Las Vegas have given me the mental separation along with ready-made opportunities to indulge myself, in the past.

 

[subwannabe]

Probably my most favorite fantasy is being a sex slave at a bachelorette party, having to give oral sex to everyone as many times as they want, let them do to me whatever they wish, and finally after they have all been satisfied completely, having to beat myself off and eat my own cum while they watch. I think you should make plans to go to Florida when you can but in the meantime, how about wearing no panties out in public and flashing some men or women you choose?

 

[djced]

subwannabe...
nice idea...
i wanna be ur master and do thngs to u

mmmm....
;-p
j

 

[KravMaga]

I'm not sure I'm comfortable enough to do that in my hometown with folks I didn't know quite well ahead of time, Pixxie.

There's something liberating about going away to play. Trips to Palm Springs and Las Vegas have given me the mental separation along with ready-made opportunities to indulge myself, in the past.

I really enjoyed your stories. Maybe you could write one about the four of you.

 

[LindaL]

I really enjoyed your stories. Maybe you could write one about the four of you.

I've started a few about the 4 of us a number of times, but somehow could just not hit my stride like I felt I did in the other two recountings I put up at Literotica.

One story I did submit about the 4 of us stayed in "consideration" here for about 8 weeks before it just vanished. No feedback, no notice, nothing. I admit it wasn't my best, but an actual rejection would have been nice!


Subwannabee, I don't enjoy showing in public. I wouldn't want to be seen by anybody who might not want to see someone like that. Which is the charm of a place like Club Relate: Folks there expect to get an eyeful!