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[bisexualsmoker]

Hi

Just down the street from where I live theres an older well dressed guy
who is about 55 years old. I've known him for several years.


Around where I live, I like to be more discreet about my gay side,
though there have been rumours about me.

Anyway, recently, for the last few months he's answered the door in just his
underwear.
Just last week he asked me if I went to the "Pride" parade.
He must be gay don't you think?
He's obviously hinting at something.

I told him lazily "er....no...It's not really my thing...it's too commercial."

I'm secretely hoping that that didn't turn him off. After all, all I said was "Too commercial".


I'd love to go to bed with him but I'm concerned about going to bed with somebody
who lives just a few doors away. I think he would be hot but I want discretion
and don't want a relationship. I'm wondering what I should do.

 

[Etoile]

Anyway, recently, for the last few months he's answered the door in just his
underwear.
Just last week he asked me if I went to the "Pride" parade.
He must be gay don't you think?
He's obviously hinting at something.

Dude, he's not hinting. He's announcing it as loudly as possible.

 

[Chrissi]

Hi

Just down the street from where I live theres an older well dressed guy
who is about 55 years old. I've known him for several years.
Every few weeks or so I go and buy , excuse
the coincidence with my username, cheap discount cigarettes from him.

Around where I live, I like to be more discreet about my gay side,
though there have been rumours about me.

Anyway, recently, for the last few months he's answered the door in just his
underwear.
Just last week he asked me if I went to the "Pride" parade.
He must be gay don't you think?
He's obviously hinting at something.

I told him lazily "er....no...It's not really my thing...it's too commercial."

I'm secretely hoping that that didn't turn him off. After all, all I said was "Too commercial".


I'd love to go to bed with him but I'm concerned about going to bed with somebody
who lives just a few doors away. I think he would be hot but I want discretion
and don't want a relationship. I'm wondering what I should do.

What Etoile said x100

Obviously you are not too concerned about the rumors, but even so, discuss with him what you put in your last paragraph. You may just find a nice gay gentleman who is looking for some leisurely sex on the side with the hot guy from up the street. No relationship, discretion assured, and wonderful sex.

And you may just end up making a great friend and confidant too.

 

[bisexualsmoker]

Thanks

I am already friends with him. I'm serious though, usually my male sex partners I prefer to live
a ways away. It helps avoid complications.
If I were gay it would be easier, but I'm bi and am emotionally attached to
women. The last thing I need is to have sex with a guy who lives a stones throw away
who ends up falling in love with me, or something stupid like that.

At the same time. I fear I might just end up cock teasing him.
I have a wicked mind sometimes.

Maybe I should tell him I'm discreetly bi, but don't need the complications.
It's confusing really. The idea does get me hot though.

It just doesn't seem as easy for bi people to be totally 'out'.
One side of me fears that gay people will consider me weak for this.
Maybe they are right.

 

[reachedme]

it may be hard to be who you really are, but mate don't live with regret the rest of your life I do and its shit
go for it

 

[Chrissi]

Thanks

I am already friends with him. I'm serious though, usually my male sex partners I prefer to live
a ways away. It helps avoid complications.
If I were gay it would be easier, but I'm bi and am emotionally attached to
women. The last thing I need is to have sex with a guy who lives a stones throw away
who ends up falling in love with me, or something stupid like that.

At the same time. I fear I might just end up cock teasing him.
I have a wicked mind sometimes.

Maybe I should tell him I'm discreetly bi, but don't need the complications.
It's confusing really. The idea does get me hot though.

It just doesn't seem as easy for bi people to be totally 'out'.
One side of me fears that gay people will consider me weak for this.
Maybe they are right.

While teasing and flirting can be fun, if that is all it is ever going to be from your end, then it is mean (to him).

You obviously have to be comfortable with the situation. But I would have a serious discussion with him. You may be pleasantly surprised.

Not every gay man wants sex....(although I would have to say that your neighbor is really advertising himself for it)...

Also he may be perfectly fine with having an understanding neighbor, who likes to flirt and tease now and then, and who knows, maybe a little more on occasion.

But I would definitely talk to him. Tell him what you are telling us. I don't know you or the man, but I really think your fear of falling in love are somewhat unfounded at this time.

 

[bisexualsmoker]

Thanks again. I've known him about five years.

What I think is inevitable is that one of the next times I see him to take care
of my habit(Which I really should quit, and almost recently did) is carry a few beers with me,
and when he answers the door I will ask him if he would like to have a drink.

I would then explain my situation, but still the actual idea of having sex with him, is both daunting in a way,and such a thrill at the same time.

I just wish he lived on the other side of town.

While teasing and flirting can be fun, if that is all it is ever going to be from your end, then it is mean (to him).

You obviously have to be comfortable with the situation. But I would have a serious discussion with him. You may be pleasantly surprised.

Not every gay man wants sex....(although I would have to say that your neighbor is really advertising himself for it)...

Also he may be perfectly fine with having an understanding neighbor, who likes to flirt and tease now and then, and who knows, maybe a little more on occasion.

But I would definitely talk to him. Tell him what you are telling us. I don't know you or the man, but I really think your fear of falling in love are somewhat unfounded at this time.

 

[bisexualsmoker]

it may be hard to be who you really are, but mate don't live with regret the rest of your life I do and its shit
go for it

Well, I really have explored most of my fantasies and fetishes, so I
really don't feel unfullfilled, but sometimes one must think first
before acting.