should i pursue further?

[CarKeys]

here's the situation

I took her out last saturday to dinner. We talked a lot and it seemed like she was giving me some good body language (playing with her hair, laughing at my stupid jokes, acting kinda nervous) I took those as good signs. I didn't set up another date that night.

I called her Monday night at home but she was on the phone with a friend (long distance) she said she would call me back. She did around 20 minutes later. We chatted for 45 minutes at which point I asked if she was doing anything on Wednesday. She said she had already made plans for Wednesday night. I already knew she was busy Thursday night (girls night out clubbing, she told me during our dinner on Saturday) so I asked if she's availaible this weekend. She told me she is going to California for the weekend. (I don't think she's lying) But then she said that she'll have lots of free time next week so that was encouraging.

I called her at work yesterday (thursday) just to say hi and she said she would call me at home that night. But I still (this is friday) haven't gotten a call. What should I do? Is she interested or not???

 

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[lobito]

to me, it sounds like you are bugging her. Let her make the next move, or not, then you'll have your answer. Until then, Live life.

 

[peachykeen]

Chill out, dude. You've got the smell of desperation coming off you so strong I can get a whiff of it here in London.

She went out last night with her friends, forgot or didn't have time to call you before she left, and it was late and/or she was drunk when she got in so she didn't call then either. Now it's, what, late afternoon there and she hasn't called yet... so what?

 

[KyleW]

Balls in her court. you made it clear, by asking her out/calling her, that you were interested in seeing her more. She's away now. Give her time to respond.

 

[phrodeau]

Send a Valentine. If you don't hear from her, call to see if she got it.

 

[Cheyenne]

Send a Valentine. If you don't hear from her, call to see if she got it.

Good answer!