Should I kill him?

[the_pet]

I 'VE GOT IT!!!!!!!!!! YOUR PROBLEM IS SOLVED AND YOU'LL GET YOUR SATISFACTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

choke him WITH the red nightgown

 

[graceanne]

I 'VE GOT IT!!!!!!!!!! YOUR PROBLEM IS SOLVED AND YOU'LL GET YOUR SATISFACTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

choke him WITH the red nightgown

Oooooooooooh, that's good. Then he won't be able to say 'I don't know why you're so mad at me'.

 

[FurryFury]

Haha, awesome.


Seriously, I think straight men underestimate the power of chaps. I am fortunate enough to work in a place where men wear them on a semi-regular basis, and... whoo. It is very hard to avoid making on-the-spot propositions. Black leather is of course nice and kinky-like, but soft, tanned deerhide with fringe? Purr...

Cool!

Can I come work with YOU?



Fury

 

[FurryFury]

MILF is a bad thing, i presume?

If only he meant what he said in a MILF way.

I don't mind being the MILF of some folks dreams.

Just call me Ober-MILF from now on.

LMAO!

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

When me and K first got together he would always blame us being late for EVERYTHING on me. He'd tell everyone that I took so long to get ready and then roll his eyes.

FYI I take, MAX, 15 minutes to get ready, and that's only if I'm wearing makeup. I bathe at night, so I don't need to in the morning, and I don't spend forever choosing what I'm going to wear. K take, MINIMUM, 30 minutes to get ready - and that's only if he ISN'T showering. It's cause he's real slow in the morning, and he spends lots of time sitting and staring. I do not, I wake up and get my stuff done. Pronto.

I'm fast like that too. I can get ready faster than most men.

However, kids can make it harder to get out the door, particularly when he doesn't help at all or (sometimes worse) when he does help. LOL.

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

I 'VE GOT IT!!!!!!!!!! YOUR PROBLEM IS SOLVED AND YOU'LL GET YOUR SATISFACTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

choke him WITH the red nightgown

Great idea! You devil pet you!

Oh!

That reminds me, the last time he hated something I wore a blue boy short string bikini number, I later made him wear it.

Now I LIKE that idea!

I'm not sure he could get it on, mind you, but yeah, that would be fun!

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

Oooooooooooh, that's good. Then he won't be able to say 'I don't know why you're so mad at me'.

He knows. You don't have to guess when you are with me, you know.

But really, I'd much rather him choke me.

*sighs*

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

And btw, I'm a MUCH happier girl after getting some longer and rougher stuff during adult time.

THANK GOD and my crazy man!

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

I was super pissed. I was insulted too. Do you think I should have killed him?

what ever you do to him, don't toss that outfit away

- sent it to me

 

[JMohegan]

It means he hated the outfit and thought only a "mom" would wear one. I guess you had to be there. The look on his face and vocal intonation was extremely negative.

He later told our son that "we men" have to make it clear that outfits that go past the knee are not okay much less sexy.

His delivery may have been awkward, but....

One way to view this incident is as an attempt to assert his dominance. He has clearly expressed a personal preference, has he not?

One response might be to defer to his personal preference.

Send all of your long gowns to Shank, and only wear gowns above the knee in the future. That would make two guys very happy! And you....?

 

[trojan_man_co]

ok ok ok ok don’t kill me i think he did it entirely wrong and without any tact at all BUT when it comes to lingerie different people like different things, you should find out what he likes and compromise between what you like n what he wants... I personaly HATE gowns.. i too think they look old fashioned no matter how seductive lacey and see through i just don’t like them.. the same with body stockings.. if a girl wants to get me going though there are a lot of other options.. i just don’t think there hot.. possibly you should take this as a chance for him to take you to get a whole new wardrobe of sexy cloths... also if you want revenge.. if he thought that was a mom dress… maybe you should give him a mom dress… go get the most hideous mu mu put your hair in curls.. and tell him you can dress like this or like the other his choice..

 

[FurryFury]

what ever you do to him, don't toss that outfit away

- sent it to me

You'd look good in red!

*smiles*

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

His delivery may have been awkward, but....

One way to view this incident is as an attempt to assert his dominance. He has clearly expressed a personal preference, has he not?

One response might be to defer to his personal preference.

Send all of your long gowns to Shank, and only wear gowns above the knee in the future. That would make two guys very happy! And you....?

Interesing POV.

It was a slap in the face for sure.

Following your plan I would be cold.

But it's worth thinking about at least.

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

ok ok ok ok don’t kill me i think he did it entirely wrong and without any tact at all BUT when it comes to lingerie different people like different things, you should find out what he likes and compromise between what you like n what he wants... I personaly HATE gowns.. i too think they look old fashioned no matter how seductive lacey and see through i just don’t like them.. the same with body stockings.. if a girl wants to get me going though there are a lot of other options.. i just don’t think there hot.. possibly you should take this as a chance for him to take you to get a whole new wardrobe of sexy cloths... also if you want revenge.. if he thought that was a mom dress… maybe you should give him a mom dress… go get the most hideous mu mu put your hair in curls.. and tell him you can dress like this or like the other his choice..

LOL!

Well, I wasn't dressing for him at that moment. I was trying to find something that wasn't too hot because it was a hot day and which wouldn't hurt my back.

Then I looked in the mirror and thought, this is pretty damn good looking.

But he thought not.

Fury

 

[Recidiva]

I'd have walked out on the entire thing.

I wouldn't have killed him, I'd just have left him. Not worth my time or passion, obviously.

 

[trojan_man_co]

LOL!

Well, I wasn't dressing for him at that moment. I was trying to find something that wasn't too hot because it was a hot day and which wouldn't hurt my back.

Then I looked in the mirror and thought, this is pretty damn good looking.

But he thought not.

Fury

Fashion is a really funny thing men and women have such different tastes at times.. keep this as a reminded next time he goes shopping with you and complains when your trying things on and he’s bored... remind him if he wants you to look good then he needs to shop with you

 

[Netzach]

If any of the men in my life ever said that they'd be stuck with cold cheap pocket pussy for a month so fast it would make their head spin.

 

[Recidiva]

If any of the men in my life ever said that they'd be stuck with cold cheap pocket pussy for a month so fast it would make their head spin.

For me it comes down to respect. If you are an ignorant (doesn't know she's in pain, didn't care, didn't ask) and whiny (totally passive-aggressive comment, not at all dominant) - not worth my time.

People who deserve respect, know how to show it. People who demand respect and just want everything their way, no matter what the changing circumstances or needs, are just children. Shouldn't be having sex.

 

[JMohegan]

Interesing POV.

It was a slap in the face for sure.

Following your plan I would be cold.

But it's worth thinking about at least.

Fury, if I remember correctly you are working to establish D/s in your marriage - with your husband as the D and you as the s. (Please correct me if I got that wrong.)

Inexperienced people sometimes stumble as they attempt to assert themselves in a relationship. Their delivery comes off as arrogant, aggressive, or insulting in a totally unnecessary and truly counterproductive way.

I don't know your husband, so I have no idea as to his motives. However, giving him the benefit of the doubt and assuming that he was attempting to assert himself by expressing firm preference, my suggestion is that you separate your response to the delivery from your response to his choice of short vs. long.

Giving him feedback on the delivery is extremely important. It really is going to be counterproductive for him to keep hurting your feelings, and he needs to know that.

However, given the circumstances of your particular relationship and the changes you are trying to encourage, it might also be helpful to celebrate his expression of preference by deferring to it in whatever way seems feasible to you.

It is difficult to provide advice to strangers. I will not be offended if you say I am off the mark here, since I acknowledge that I am really just taking a shot in the dark.

 

[Shankara20]

It is difficult to provide advice to strangers. I will not be offended if you say I am off the mark here, since I acknowledge that I am really just taking a shot in the dark.

but she should still send me all her long gowns, right?

 

[JMohegan]

but she should still send me all her long gowns, right?

LOL...

YES!

Most definitely.

 

[graceanne]

If any of the men in my life ever said that they'd be stuck with cold cheap pocket pussy for a month so fast it would make their head spin.

I just can't see you in a relationship with someone tactless enough to say that. Unless they're sammy in a bad way.

 

[FurryFury]

I'd have walked out on the entire thing.

I wouldn't have killed him, I'd just have left him. Not worth my time or passion, obviously.

Wow.

Well, there is no way I'm throwing away 18 years over this or anything for that matter.

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

Fashion is a really funny thing men and women have such different tastes at times.. keep this as a reminded next time he goes shopping with you and complains when your trying things on and he’s bored... remind him if he wants you to look good then he needs to shop with you

I never shop. I know that's hard to believe but it's true.

If I ever do go shopping and he goes with me, I'll keep that in mind. The last time I think that happened was about 18 years ago and he wasn't the least bit bored. I was trying on bustiers and leather mini skirts though. LOL.

Fury

 

[FurryFury]

If any of the men in my life ever said that they'd be stuck with cold cheap pocket pussy for a month so fast it would make their head spin.

LOL~

I like that.

I wonder in his case if he would even notice though.

Fury