Should I Control Myself?

[thatgirl2136]

I'm not sure if there is another thread about this and sorry for repeating if there was one...
So about a month or so ago (probably a bit longer) I came upon (no pun intended) the fact that I can squirt...I thought I only gushed...I've tried everything from going to the bathroom before I masturbate and such, but it still happens just as much and I leave quite a mess. I usually keep a couple towels under me, even though it doesn't truly help since I squirt everywhere....
but my question is...should I try to control this? I haven't been with any guys since discovering this and I'm not sure if many guys find it attractive, but I don't want it to be a turn off....And it doesn't help that I can do this very easily and within a couple minutes of doing anything...

 

[infinity706]

Honestly, it would depend on the guy. If it's one that doesn't know about or understand squirting, he may very well dump you. There are plenty of guys (and women) that would love to get their hands all over a woman that can squirt. It may not work for the first guy you can get into your bed, but if you don't give up, you'll get plenty of appreciation. I would think about investing in some plastic sheets, though.

Also, if you like the idea, you could do quite well in pro porn. Producers would kill for a woman that could squirt for real and as easily as a guy. Nearly all the squirting content out there is done with fake orgasms and dumping a bottle of water up the woman's pussy, which she pushes out when she fakes. Seriously, though, if it has its whole porn niche, it's something very desired by at least a segment of the population. There are even some men and women that would love to be down there eating you out when you squirt. Just try to give a little warning because juices in the eye aren't particularly fun.

 

[thatgirl2136]

Honestly, it would depend on the guy. If it's one that doesn't know about or understand squirting, he may very well dump you. There are plenty of guys (and women) that would love to get their hands all over a woman that can squirt. It may not work for the first guy you can get into your bed, but if you don't give up, you'll get plenty of appreciation. I would think about investing in some plastic sheets, though.

Also, if you like the idea, you could do quite well in pro porn. Producers would kill for a woman that could squirt for real and as easily as a guy. Nearly all the squirting content out there is done with fake orgasms and dumping a bottle of water up the woman's pussy, which she pushes out when she fakes. Seriously, though, if it has its whole porn niche, it's something very desired by at least a segment of the population. There are even some men and women that would love to be down there eating you out when you squirt. Just try to give a little warning because juices in the eye aren't particularly fun.

haha thanks for the info
guess you learn something new everyday, I never knew a lot of the squirting was faked...

Yes, warning will be a very good thing

 

[Ravenwind]

It's perfectly natural, and if you try to control it, you might wind up being unable to squirt later on in life when you can find someone who can appreciate it, and have to relearn what was once natural for you. Just give your partners a heads-up before-hand, so they don't mistake it for anything other than what it is.

 

[thatgirl2136]

It's perfectly natural, and if you try to control it, you might wind up being unable to squirt later on in life when you can find someone who can appreciate it, and have to relearn what was once natural for you. Just give your partners a heads-up before-hand, so they don't mistake it for anything other than what it is.

yes, thank you...i wouldn't want anyone running away because it was mistaken for something else.

 

[Vail_Indigo]

Lots of people still think that squirting and peeing are the same thing, and so the best thing I, personally, would suggest would be talking with a potential partner before hand.
It might be the kind of thing that makes you want to wait a little longer before having sex with a new person the first time. I say that because actually talking about sex can be, as we all know, difficult and so a little extra time spent growing intimate before sex might make things easier.

I, personally, squirt sometimes and find it amazingly sexy.
I also appreciate a little warning in advance though

 

[WriterDom]

I love women who squirts/gushes. Some like you do it very young. Others it doesn't start until they are in their 30s. I would tell a guy that this sometimes happens. That it's not pee and you can't control it. Hopefully you'll find a guy who loves it too.

 

[emap]

Don't listen to writerdom he's got shifty eyes.

There are probably more men into than not so don't worry that you happen to squirt, chances are very good you will find a man to sleep with who likes squirters.

 

[Vail_Indigo]

listen to emap
she's a smartypants!

 

[subwannabe]

Speaking of faking in porn movies, I have noticed several movies where the woman is giving a guy a blowjob and there is this cum coming out at what seems like incorrect times and it has me wondering if they are faking cum coming out of her mouth for the sake of the movie. Anyone know?

 

[cinereaheath]

lots of guys love a gusher/squirter
... just be sure to communicate clearly up front..
make sure everyone's on the dame page...

 

[wild-thing]

I've been fortunate to have had one girlfriend who was a real squirter and oh boy did she emit alot of fluid for a petite thing. Personally, I thought it was beyond hot. I loved watching her get herself off and squirt, I loved her squirting in my mouth and face while going down on her, I just loved it all!
I think there must be alot of guys like me who will truly appreciate this special and wonderful talent. If someone doesn't then they're not worth being with anyhow.

 

[emap]

Speaking of faking in porn movies, I have noticed several movies where the woman is giving a guy a blowjob and there is this cum coming out at what seems like incorrect times and it has me wondering if they are faking cum coming out of her mouth for the sake of the movie. Anyone know?

Sub I think what you are talking about isn't faked cum, it's the guy shooting off before he is supposed to. Course they also tend to use lots and lots of lube and some lube is known to 'foam' when it is shaken vigorously as it were.

This is the reason there is alot of turn around in porn, some people just want to do it once to try it out and be able to say I did it. Some people want to do it because it's sex for money alot, which isn't really I suppose and find they don't like doing porn. Some guys only do porn once because they have hair triggers so to speak and don't cum on request they do it fast and create problems for the filming crew, namely they have to keep shooting the one scene for an extended period, days even.

 

[thatgirl2136]

Sub I think what you are talking about isn't faked cum, it's the guy shooting off before he is supposed to. Course they also tend to use lots and lots of lube and some lube is known to 'foam' when it is shaken vigorously as it were.

This is the reason there is alot of turn around in porn, some people just want to do it once to try it out and be able to say I did it. Some people want to do it because it's sex for money alot, which isn't really I suppose and find they don't like doing porn. Some guys only do porn once because they have hair triggers so to speak and don't cum on request they do it fast and create problems for the filming crew, namely they have to keep shooting the one scene for an extended period, days even.

wow shooting a scene for days would be incredibly annoying.
but I notice what Sub is talking about too and have wondered that sometimes...though honestly i usually bypass the bj scenes.

 

[thatgirl2136]

listen to emap
she's a smartypants!

will do

 

[thatgirl2136]

well i'm glad to see all the positive replies
i'm not so nervous anymore
thanks

 

[smallgirl]

I'm not sure if there is another thread about this and sorry for repeating if there was one...
So about a month or so ago (probably a bit longer) I came upon (no pun intended) the fact that I can squirt...I thought I only gushed...I've tried everything from going to the bathroom before I masturbate and such, but it still happens just as much and I leave quite a mess. I usually keep a couple towels under me, even though it doesn't truly help since I squirt everywhere....
but my question is...should I try to control this? I haven't been with any guys since discovering this and I'm not sure if many guys find it attractive, but I don't want it to be a turn off....And it doesn't help that I can do this very easily and within a couple minutes of doing anything...

honey...men LOVE THIS...let me repeat myself...THEY LOVE THIS. alot of women cant do this, those of us lucky enough to be able to? count your lucky stars. im not satisified unless i do it.

let it fly...sheets and towels wash...

 

[thatgirl2136]

honey...men LOVE THIS...let me repeat myself...THEY LOVE THIS. alot of women cant do this, those of us lucky enough to be able to? count your lucky stars. im not satisified unless i do it.

let it fly...sheets and towels wash...

same here...usually i can in a couple minutes but i do have off days where it takes awhile but i can't stop until it happens.

too true...they do wash haha

 

[BFM830]

you should be proud of it, most guys are going to love the fact that you are a squirter. If there grossed out then move on, there most likely into themselves and will not be there to please you in the long run anyway.

 

[thatgirl2136]

you should be proud of it, most guys are going to love the fact that you are a squirter. If there grossed out then move on, there most likely into themselves and will not be there to please you in the long run anyway.

yeah...i don't want to be confined to not being able to squirt...i enjoy it.

 

[Primalex]

there most likely into themselves

Uhm, if I don't like everything, then I'm into myself? Do you like getting ass raped? No? Bleh, you are just arrogant and into yourself.

 

[thatgirl2136]

Uhm, if I don't like everything, then I'm into myself? Do you like getting ass raped? No? Bleh, you are just arrogant and into yourself.

...you missed the point of the statement.

 

[Primalex]

...you missed the point of the statement.

No, I did see the brown-nosing.

 

[nighthawk722]

I think it is natural and u don't have to worry about it. There are lot of guys who like this i am being one of them. so what u have to do is find a guy who appreciate and love it. it won't be difficult.

 

[luvinblack]

wish my former lovers could squirt...i've tried to make it happen with those willing to try...haven't been able to make it happen yet...would luv to