Should I come out?

Honey123 said:
Imp, I have a confession to make....


I ate your muffin... :eek:

I'm sorry, but that post is just going to feed my fantasies for weeks....
 
Hmmm . . . maybe its CP? she is awfully interested in the Gay boys on the board.
Just a guess though.
 
Dar~ said:
Hmmm . . . maybe its CP? she is awfully interested in the Gay boys on the board.
Just a guess though.
I assure you it's not CP. If it is, we're getting married. :heart:

Oh, and the only dick I have right now has a suction cup on the bottom of it. :cool:
 
OhMissScarlett said:
Oh, and the only dick I have right now has a suction cup on the bottom of it. :cool:

:eek: Now there's eye candy for the brain...... :p
 
OhMissScarlett said:
I assure you it's not CP. If it is, we're getting married. :heart:

Oh, and the only dick I have right now has a suction cup on the bottom of it. :cool:
I know its not I was teasing.
I have some dick for you sexy;)
 
Dranoel said:
On a good night she can suck a Blow-Pop through a guys asshole and he won't have the presence of mind to notice. :D

Last time I tell you a secret....

:mad:

Q_C
 
impressive said:
First and foremost, have a care for those who might be hurt by the revelation. Tell them privately and allow time for healing before blurting to the rest of the world.

One could only be hurt, angry or offended if there was IM simple talk or sex involved, I think. I am not sure anyone could be hurt or offended simply by posting as a woman in a public forum, as Colly points out. Yet, Imp brings up a very good point to consider. :)
 
SFwriter said:
...not as gay, but as a man?

The thing is I have a number of stories on here that I wrote while trying to think like a woman (I was, and still am writing a novel from a female perspective), and I hung around the boards for a while as a woman too. Whilst I am sure that's not unique I do feel about guilty about it, on this forum especially.

This, therefore, is testing the waters. Would you be horrified to find out? Or should i come clean that the person a few of you spoke to doesn't exist (except in my fevered imagination)?

And just in case you're wondering I haven't posted anything for a while.

Well, how long have you been posting as a woman? Are we talking a few weeks, months, years, what?
 
Okay, now I'm curious. Apparently, I know you, and presumably I've come to the conclusion that you're a woman, but I can't work out which woman it would be. That's just bugging me now.

I think you should come out, but, as people have mentioned, you should tell anyone who's likely to be annoyed/upset first up via PM and then make the general announcement. Personally I don't think it would bother me that much unless we were very good friends and I'd trusted you and/or we'd had naughty conversations under false pretences.

You have to tell me now. I'm curious as hell.

The Earl
 
OK, so you're a man. Who posts as a woman. Who is a really a man. Who wants to come out so that we all know your "real" identity as both a man and a woman?

Shang? Is that you?
 
logophile said:
OK, so you're a man. Who posts as a woman. Who is a really a man. Who wants to come out so that we all know your "real" identity as both a man and a woman?

Shang? Is that you?

It must be late in the day. That post really confused me..... :eek:
 
The_Fool said:
It must be late in the day. That post really confused me..... :eek:

Were you confused about gender? Or, in other words, "gender confused."
Never mind. It was a joke. But clearly not a very good one.
So it was more like a statement in that it lacked the funny part that most people seem to require from jokes.
 
I need a drink....But do I drink a "man's" drink or a "woman's" drink?
 
logophile said:
Were you confused about gender? Or, in other words, "gender confused."
Never mind. It was a joke. But clearly not a very good one.
So it was more like a statement in that it lacked the funny part that most people seem to require from jokes.

so it was a republican joke then.... :D
 
L has a point. Shanglan manages to get away with being completely gender-ambiguous, mainly because he/she/it has always maintained mystique and not given that many clues. Personally, I think Shang's a girl, but I know lots of people who think he/she/it's a bloke, so you pays your money and you takes your chances.

The point that I'm attempting to ramble to is that Shang gets away with it because there is no subterfuge. Lies are where the bad are and I think the sooner you stop, the better.

But that is the opinion of someone desperately curious to find out who you are and thus must be taken with a pinch of salt.

The Earl
 
The_Fool said:
I need a drink....But do I drink a "man's" drink or a "woman's" drink?

A woman's drink is martini, forget the fluff, just lots of olives. A man's is a double malt scotch clean. Who drinks Singapore Slings? Well :D I can't say on Lit. :D :rose:

(I was a bartender at one point. ;) )
 
TheEarl said:
L has a point. Shanglan manages to get away with being completely gender-ambiguous, mainly because he/she/it has always maintained mystique and not given that many clues. Personally, I think Shang's a girl, but I know lots of people who think he/she/it's a bloke, so you pays your money and you takes your chances.

The point that I'm attempting to ramble to is that Shang gets away with it because there is no subterfuge. Lies are where the bad are and I think the sooner you stop, the better.

But that is the opinion of someone desperately curious to find out who you are and thus must be taken with a pinch of salt.

The Earl


You drinking Margarita's? Salty Dogs?
 
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