She's Way Too Nice !!!

[Samuelx]

Have you ever met someone who just seemed way too nice ? At my school, I have a class with this girl named Yancy. I was in class, about to take a test and I didn't have a Number Two pencil. Without it, I would have failed. She gave me her pencil ( she was done real fast) and I aced the test. The next day, I saw her catch some tall girl who was stupidly leaning back on a chair and fell. Why, just today, she did something nice for someone else too, right in front of me. I can't help but stare at her. Why is she so damn nice ?

 

[RawHumor]

Good parenting?

 

[Samuelx]

Good parenting?

Possibly. Maybe she's just someone decent who's had a good experience with other human beings. Personally, I've met a LOT of bad people. Psychotic guys. Sociopathic women. Manipulators, liars, deceivers and thieves. Violent femmes and brutal men. Oh, yeah. I've seen a lot of evil. Is it any wonder I'm paranoid even on a good day and covertly misanthropic on a bad day ? Here's to hoping that there are good men and good women in this world. I hear talk of them just like I hear talk of Atlantis. People say it exists but I've never seen it.

 

[Wolfman1982]

samuelX: Don´t be so susspissious about that, I know for a fact many people have hidden agendas with their actions, But I am on of those people who does good actions, of unselfishness, because it gives me pleasure, that other people get happy because I have helped them.

The woman/girl could be one of those who does the same thing. Learn to trust people, and then take it step by step. Heck you are worse than a worrying hen over her chicks. So take it easy, and well just smile when people are nice to eachother. Since it is like you are seeing ghosts, all the time. Heck don´t worry, and don´t be so shy

I know you and foster, are with eachother, but remember if you get too paranoid over common humanism, then you will get some serious problems , and they are worse than your past problems.

And I know Foster isn´t ready to come out as a bisexual, but just don´t see "dead people" all the time.

 

[Samuelx]

samuelX: Don´t be so susspissious about that, I know for a fact many people have hidden agendas with their actions, But I am on of those people who does good actions, of unselfishness, because it gives me pleasure, that other people get happy because I have helped them.

The woman/girl could be one of those who does the same thing. Learn to trust people, and then take it step by step. Heck you are worse than a worrying hen over her chicks. So take it easy, and well just smile when people are nice to eachother. Since it is like you are seeing ghosts, all the time. Heck don´t worry, and don´t be so shy

I know you and foster, are with eachother, but remember if you get too paranoid over common humanism, then you will get some serious problems , and they are worse than your past problems.

And I know Foster isn´t ready to come out as a bisexual, but just don´t see "dead people" all the time.

Wolfie, you're right on, as usual. I think I am a bit paranoid, due to unpleasant past experiences. I hope to get over it someday soon. how are things in your part of the world, btw ?

 

[Wolfman1982]

Wolfie, you're right on, as usual. I think I am a bit paranoid, due to unpleasant past experiences. I hope to get over it someday soon. how are things in your part of the world, btw ?

I am sick (cold or something in that area), for the fourth week in a row, and I am coughing, I have snot in my nose, and well I am also sneezing ( sp? the atjoo sound ). So this Monday I will go down and ask my doctor how it looks, and thank goodness, we still pay our medical bill over the tax in Denmark

And well I have some serious past too, on other subjects and such , so I know why you are so alert.

 

[Samuelx]

Absolutely. Yes, there is a cold going around in Boston too. I caught it and had it for three days. It cleared up quickly enough, though. I think the only reason I caught a cold is because our house heater system broke down for two days. It was chilly inside. Drink up some coffee and some orange juice, mate. it's what i did and it worked wonders. also, stay warm. stay super, bro. peace.

 

[sseg]

decency

Have you ever met someone who just seemed way too nice ? At my school, I have a class with this girl named Yancy. I was in class, about to take a test and I didn't have a Number Two pencil. Without it, I would have failed. She gave me her pencil ( she was done real fast) and I aced the test. The next day, I saw her catch some tall girl who was stupidly leaning back on a chair and fell. Why, just today, she did something nice for someone else too, right in front of me. I can't help but stare at her. Why is she so damn nice ?

Some folks believe in treating other people in a decent fashion. I've recently had some experiences that have piqued my cynical side... I choose my friends based on their sense of honor and decency and sometimes I forget that many people are self-centered greedy jerks who don't care one whit about other people around them. In a meeting full of people debating on whether we honor something we advertise which can negatively affect a lot of people if we don't. Half the room was "it's their problem." The other half was "look, we said we'd do this, we do it even though it will cause us more work." In some ways it was interesting to see why I have never really warmed up to most of those people, and in other ways it was disappointing to see people for whom I'd had a lot of respect take that attitude.

I believe very strongly in doing right by others, even strangers, without becoming a doormat. I don't always manage to live up to my ideals, but then, that's what ideals are all about, eh?

To end this on a positive note, on a plane flight home a week ago I was puzzling over which gate to meet my connecting flight when the guy sitting next to me asks which flight (I'd been doing this quietly). He then pulls out his cell, calls his secretary, gets me the gate and flight information, then points me to the proper gate as we are exiting the plane. I was touched that this stranger, without apparent agenda, did me this small favor. Good people do exist in this world.

 

[CuriousNiceGuy]

That is way too nice?..And why is she so nice?.. Can't people just be nice to each other without ultimate schemes of world destruction?
Anyways, I really think people should be like that more often. If we've come to the point to think 'Why did she help her get up?' I think we should stop and think 'Why not?'. Why would it be better to just not care about others at all. Why would she let you fail when she could very well help you without losing a thing?(you did give her back her pencil didn't you? )
Kind people should be treated like they treat others.It's the least you can do to these helpful people. Be nice to them and make them smile.

 

[raisedSkirt]

Many Reasons

My dad has always told me that you should do unto others as you would have then do to you, and surely being nice is one of those. My dad is a respected diplomat and I truly admire him in many ways, and have quite often, taken his advice.

I always try to be nice to people even when you don't want to be, and I would also agree that good parenting has a great deal to do with this too.

I know...I am a newbie and should not say anything but I am a very determined person too

Fleure

 

[Wolfman1982]

My dad has always told me that you should do unto others as you would have then do to you

That sentence is one of JC´s karma sentences after he told the story, about the good samaritan

And no I am not a Christian.

 

[PredatorSmile]

Cynicism, pessimism and paranoia, when seen in a once-positive individual, can be signs of reaction to torment and distressing times.

- Anonymous.

 

[Xtinas_Girlfriend]

Have you ever met someone who just seemed way too nice ? At my school, I have a class with this girl named Yancy. I was in class, about to take a test and I didn't have a Number Two pencil. Without it, I would have failed. She gave me her pencil ( she was done real fast) and I aced the test. The next day, I saw her catch some tall girl who was stupidly leaning back on a chair and fell. Why, just today, she did something nice for someone else too, right in front of me. I can't help but stare at her. Why is she so damn nice ?

She's probably had bad experiences too, but chooses to treat people nicely unto she had reason not to. I'm sure if someone was rude to her she wouldn't be so nice to them. That's how I am at least - nice until/unless you give me a reason not to be. And maybe she believes that Anne Frank quote (which I'm going to butcher a little) - I believe that deep down, there's good in everyone. So maybe she really is just that nice and wants that out of other people.

 

[chun_gong]

Many good posts here. But, really, is there such thing as TOO nice? I mean, being considerate is a good thing the last time I checked.

Besides, it might have been me that you were speaking of. (well if I were much younger)

 

[Wolfman1982]

Many good posts here. But, really, is there such thing as TOO nice? I mean, being considerate is a good thing the last time I checked.

Besides, it might have been me that you were speaking of. (well if I were much younger)

Hmmm I don´t really think there is a term called "too nice" I just think some people gets nervous about "freindlyness" or kindness for that matter. Me ? I just get very shy when a girl/woman gets nice, and kind to me. And I blush when it gets too intense