she hates being controled

[axel]

to quartz_crystal

thank you quartz_crystal for your advice.The trouble is that she is a very contradicting person.She hates being controled and she went out of every previous relationship because the guy tried to control her.She also hates when ! accidentally pull her (extremely long blond) hair! She is very proud and stubbborn and she can be very ill-tempered and explode furiously if she feels offended.In her everyday life she is not submissive at all, she is VERY assertive.She is also VERY strong.In an incident in a bar, when she had an argument with a guy, she got up, punched him right on the face and left him unconscious on the floor!
On the other had, she wants me to entice her to an argument and punish her by coercing her forcibly into having sex against her will after a fierce struggle, during which she will fight with all her might to avoid it !
You can e-mail me how your friend takes you by force.Thanks a lot.

 

[•Quartz_Crystal•]

Well axel I'd email you, and I tried to, but it says that you have that function disabled.

So for now I will just reply here.

To be honest, you're g/f sounds alot like me (except I like my hair pulled, but not pulled OUT. And I too punched a guy flat on his ass, with a full water bottle (he deserved it too! hehe). I am NOT submissive in any other aspect of life, but in the bedroom, I crave it.

It sounds like she wants a bit of confrontation to begin with.

Like, you know those little petty things that lover's will quarrel about, where no feelings get hurt but tempers get flared?

Find out what gets her a bit angry beforehand.....use this as the foreplay.

As for actually dominating her, if the hair is off limits...perhaps all you have to do is take on a dominating role. Speak with authority, and demand things. Like if you tell her to get down on her knees and she doesn't, PUSH her down to her knees.

If she's anything like me, she wants to put up a good fight, but she really wants YOU to win

 

[•Quartz_Crystal•]

Oh, I was alost going to suggest role playing.

She might like the idea of submitting to a 'character' as opposed to the man she knows, loves, and respects.