Sharing

[Rhslonewolf]

For those of you that have asked how should I.we are a mid thirty aged couple, I have had lots of thoughts about wanting to try a threesome (mmf)before we are married. I figured if we didn't like it, it was at least before we did our vows.any ideas on how I should ask. I have dropped hints by saying things about how much I love watching her toy going in and asking if she likes it when I'm using her toy and in her mouth a sametime like she's got 2 cocks. Also asked what her fantasies are.
Thankx in advance for the help

 

[monkeyman057]

You could just ask if she's interested?

I mean, you never know until you ask, right?

You could write a story, or direct her to a story here on lit that illustrates what you have in mind, then ask her to read it and what she thought about it.

I've had the best success at breaking the ice on topics when there's a common point of reference.

Good luck. Hope it works out for you.

 

[Rhslonewolf]

Thanks for the help. Does anyone else that's has been in the same place have any ideas also?

 

[IsoDomCouple]

I would love to share my wife with another man, I dont have the courage or the know how how to break the ice and ask her if she wants to invite another man in the bedroom. I am afaid that she would say no and tell her friends I asked her for a 3 some with 2 guys!!

 

[tomwantstosee]

So you tried the toy as a "second cock"- and did she enjoy the idea? I think she needs to know that tthis is something that turns you on markedly. And that you would consider trying in reality. But the slowest one always sets the pace- maybe she needs to get used to the idea...

By the way- where are you from?

 

[DarkPleasures]

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[Rhslonewolf]

She stated that she loved the way it felt with me in her mouth and the toy inside of her at the same time.i told her that I loved watching it, and feeling her moan around me at the sametime and that it really got me hot.she said she could tell cause I felt bigger then usual. And Tom were in southern pa.

 

[tomwantstosee]

hi, did you tell her how much you enjoyed her- and how much the thought of the toy being replaced by another cock? And if so, did she enjoy too?

 

[Rhslonewolf]

I didn't not tell her how much I had wished it was another real cock. I did say that watching it as a licked on her was the hottest thing I had ever seen and really enjoyed it

 

[KlaytonFrost]

This might not necessarily work for you, but do you ever watch porn together. I do with my partners, and I find watching some videos and then talking about what you watched can be a great way to introduce new things. Same applies to reading erotic stories, of course.

 

[silverwhisper]

if you ever read erotica/watch porn together, watch her interest level when there's MMF scenes. from that, you should be able to dovetail the conversation to the subject, whether just blurting it out or asking what she thinks of the scene, or mentioning that it's something you've always found intriguing or hot.

that's how to broach the subject.

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[Rhslonewolf]

Thankx for all the help people. Think I'm gonna try some mmf porn next weekend when the kids are gone.

Wish me luck!

 

[deskuser]

Thats what got me wanting a mmf watching lucky women in porn films. It corrupted me.

 

[Rhslonewolf]

Thankx deskuser... I don't think I would call it corrupted if u enjoy it!! By the way love the av

 

[deskuser]

Hmmm it corrupt but I imagine a lot of fun.

 

[appleapps]

I would love to share my wife with another man, I dont have the courage or the know how how to break the ice and ask her if she wants to invite another man in the bedroom. I am afaid that she would say no and tell her friends I asked her for a 3 some with 2 guys!!

Umm, your name states Dom, so are you a Dom or not?

 

[captamerica]

For those of you that have asked how should I.we are a mid thirty aged couple, I have had lots of thoughts about wanting to try a threesome (mmf)before we are married. I figured if we didn't like it, it was at least before we did our vows.any ideas on how I should ask. I have dropped hints by saying things about how much I love watching her toy going in and asking if she likes it when I'm using her toy and in her mouth a sametime like she's got 2 cocks. Also asked what her fantasies are.
Thankx in advance for the help

I danced around the subject with my wife.and we have talked about it.she is totally against the I dea of another guy.but she does participate in the fantasy for me by playing with a penis vibe and giving me oral.I dont think what I truly want is another guy with her,I just like the fantasy.and the pretending alone gets me so hard,and i orgasm so strong. hope this helps.

 

[AtlantaGirl487]

I Don't Know, But......

"RHSLoneWolf", I'm going to repeat myself with some verbiage that I posted on another thread:




"Married4Willing", I'm going to give you the benefit of the doubt and treat you as a "genuine" post (even though part of me agrees with the above posting that it's a total fake).

Now, that being said, I think you need to ask yourself if this is nothing more than a fantasy; that is, you want to see your wife with another man. If it isn't, and you really want to share your wife then, if you approach her, completely cold, you're likely to get not only a "No" but a "Hell No".

The only think I could suggest is that you get some tasteful (well, RELATIVELY tasteful!) porno that features threesomes (MFM) and try to gauge her reaction to them. If it's negative, then brother, it's just NOT going to happen.

If you get a positive reaction from her, then again, you'd better think over the implications of what you're suggesting. Are you really prepared to agree to your wife having another man between her legs? Maybe it seems really erotic to you right now but, in speaking to other women and men who have "gone the distance", sometimes reality is a lot different from fantasy and it's not always a pleasant difference.

In the case of my husband and I, it has really worked out great. But, from what I've heard from other couples, well, it hasn't been so great.

Not trying to throw cold water on your plans, but "be careful for what you wish for".