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[Yasashii_Kaze]

This is an area I've been nervous about for quite some time. Snooze has talked about us playing with another woman since I've been showing some switch tendencies, but I'm not sure if I'm okay with it. I'm not bi and have never been the least bit interested in other women, although lord knows I've tried to be. I think it might work for me if I had no sexual contact with her, but I'm not sure of what my reaction will be the moment I see her with Snooze. I'd hate to discover that it's a highly negative one in the middle of a scene, yet I don't know how else I'll find out where I stand.

 

[therodoggswife]

is to simply go with your feelings. Plain and simple. Not one of us is in your shoes - we don't know all the circumstances revolving around your relationship and at the end of the day it will be YOU that has to deal with the consequences of your actions or inaction.

Personally, since I'm a guy the prospect of a fmf 3sum turns me on to no end; however the idea of a mfm threesum - even where I don't touch him or he touches me just bothers the crap out of me - however I did promise myself that if I was ever with a woman who gave me the "gift" of a fmf 3sum that I'd do my best to give her a mfm 3sum (oh boy I hope someone doesn't read this).

Maybe you can tell him what's good for the goose is good for the gander.. and maybe bluff your way out this. Since you've had a fmf.. tell him its time let you have yours. If he backs down.. then you've won - but that's a pretty risky game of poker you'd be playing and again.. I don't have to deal with the consequences if he calls your bluff - you do.

Seriously.. best of luck to you!

He has already said I can have a MMF one if I want. I donot know how I feel about that one either.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

He has already said I can have a MMF one if I want. I donot know how I feel about that one either.

At least he says he has an open mind.

 

[LittleJade]

My honey of six years, and I, just had another couple over for the weekend. Our first real forray into "poly" lifestyle.

It's a slow road.. but one that I think he and I will find worth it. I'm not jealous about him at all.

 

[somberReality]

Hmmmm i think if there is 2 women involved for the benefit of the man/hubby/bf, then the wife/woman/gf should be able to have a guy too.

Just to be fair.

 

[LittleJade]

Hmmmm i think if there is 2 women involved for the benefit of the man/hubby/bf, then the wife/woman/gf should be able to have a guy too.

Just to be fair.

I agree- if it is being done for the benefit of one spouse, rather than the benefit of both, there should be some kind of compromise.


However, I don't believe in fucking women just to please my spouse... I do it for me, and my desire, so long as he is okay with it. He can watch, join in, have his own fun, and I'll be quite happy.

 

[somberReality]

I agree- if it is being done for the benefit of one spouse, rather than the benefit of both, there should be some kind of compromise.


However, I don't believe in fucking women just to please my spouse... I do it for me, and my desire, so long as he is okay with it. He can watch, join in, have his own fun, and I'll be quite happy.

Agreed.

 

[Bandit58]

Hmmmm i think if there is 2 women involved for the benefit of the man/hubby/bf, then the wife/woman/gf should be able to have a guy too.

Just to be fair.

I don't want any other man. I'm perfectly happy with the one I've got In fact I get uncomfortable if there's another guy there even if he's just watching. The couple of times it happened, I wore a blindfold so I could pretend he wasn't there

 

[catalina_francisco]

I don't want any other man. I'm perfectly happy with the one I've got In fact I get uncomfortable if there's another guy there even if he's just watching. The couple of times it happened, I wore a blindfold so I could pretend he wasn't there

I am so with you...I really am happy with what I have, and he does manage to keep me very busy, why tempt fate by being greedy and letting my imagination fool me into believing perhaps there is always something better on the other side of the hill when I know it isn't so? As I told him before, I spent years experimenting sexually while I wasn't in a relationship...if I wanted to continue that pratice I wouldn't have been looking for a relationship in the first place.

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