Sharing

[Mrddtitties]

I would like to share my wife with another man but am clueless on how to bring it up to her

 

[Mrddtitties]

I need to clarify myself. The reason I want to share my wife is because I have ED and because of health issues my doctor said no to viagra. My wife still wants sex and I am unable to provide for her. I am not a great communicator and tend to get things all twisted up when trying to explain things. I could use some advice.

 

[Britva415]

I feel like two different things are being said, here.

On the one hand, you are talking about "sharing" which makes it sound like this is about you and your thrills.

But the whole ED thing makes it sound like it's about her getting some because you aren't in shape to provide.

I guess it could be about both.

But anyway, regardless, it's just words. Just open your mouth and ask if she'd be interested. There is no secret formula for making her agree to it, or for making her be interested in it. So just dare to ask, and be prepared to be told "no thanks."

For that matter, are you prepared for her to say she might be interested in getting some with another guy but NOT with you present, breathing their air and staring at them while they do it?

Be careful what you ask for.

So this is the advice. There are three parts.

1. Be sure you want to bring it up, regardless of the outcome.
2. When you're sure, just dare to start the conversation.
3. Make it about her and what she wants, and not all about you and what you want.

 

[Mrddtitties]

Thank you for your advice

 

[NCWSLvr]

I would recommend using a Magic Wand vibrator and involving your wife during those times. Talk out fantasies, including that one. Get her comfortable with the idea, and see how she responds.

 

[Mrddtitties]

I will consider that. Thank you for the advice.

 

[NightL]

The word share implies a sense of ownership and control. You phrased it like something you wish to impose upon her. Are there more issues than just ED?

If this is a concern your wife has raised then I suggest sessions with a sex therapist, both as a couple and perhaps for your wife individually. This would allow her the opportunity to talk through the issue and develop her own decisions free from pressure from you.

As for "I have ED and because of health issues my doctor said no to viagra" is this something that can be improved with exercise and diet? If so your first priority would be to get yourself in shape ASAP.

 

[Mrddtitties]

I brought up the idea of having another man have her and I couldn't believe it but she had been thinking the same thing. Now the problem is finding someone who will be willing to fuck her.

 

[Mrddtitties]

Does anyone have any ideas about where we can find a good man to pleasure my wife?

 

[NightL]

I would like to share my wife

having another man have her

where we can find a good man to pleasure my wife

you don't own your wife and if you attempt to control her she may discard you.

If any of this thread is genuine and your wife has thought to take on others for sex, then with your blessings leave it up to her to decide what she wants to do and how she chooses to go about it.

 

[NightL]

Why not suggest to your wife that she participate in this thread to seek opinions and suggestions for herself?

 

[Mrddtitties]

you don't own your wife and if you attempt to control her she will discard you.

If any of this thread is genuine and your wife has thought to take on others for sex, then with your blessings leave it up to her to decide what she wants to do and how she chooses to go about it.

You are right. But she and I are into this together. It is ultimately her choice what she wants to do and with whom. But she also knows that she has my blessing and undying love.

 

[Mrddtitties]

My wife shared herself with another man last night. I am feeling jealous but really turned on at the same time.

 

[Mrddtitties]

It was a pretty quick process. She found a guy at work who she spent a lot of time with and really liked. I am not sure where this will proceed. But am anxious to find out.

 

[Mrddtitties]

After having her successful date in which she shared herself, I suspect she will start accepting other offers to date. She understands that they are really only interested in one thing. But then so is she.

 

[Mrddtitties]

My wife just made another date for this evening. I am out of town so I would imagine she is trying to keep from getting too lonely.

 

[Mrddtitties]

My wife texted me this morning and said her date went very well and added that they both got what they wanted.

 

[chattyman_69]

Experienced bull here

 

[Mrddtitties]

She has made another date for this evening. Hope she gets what she wants.

 

[Mrddtitties]

It has been awhile since I have added anything. My wife has gone out with a few men on dates. I really love helping her get ready for them and enjoy helping her select the right apparel. She always wants to look sexy but never slutty. She has told me she loves going on these dates but won't give me any details about what happened. I have no doubt that she has been having sex with these men. She is a definite no on letting me watch. But that can change when she feels more comfortable.

 

[Britva415]

that can change when she feels more comfortable

What if it doesn't?

Or what if her boyfriends don't want to be watched?

 

[Mrddtitties]

If it doesn't change, it doesn't change. If the boyfriends don't want to be watched then they are not going to be watched

 

[Mrddtitties]

My wife has another date with one of her boyfriends this evening. She wanted me to know that she might not come home tonight. Evidently she us planning on doing some serious fucking. I wish she would get more open with me and share details.

 

[Mrddtitties]

She did stay all night with her date. When she came home in the morning she was missing her bra. I volunteered to go to her boyfriends and retrieve it. She declined my offer and said she was going to pick it up this afternoon. I guess that means she is going over to see him again today. She must have really liked what she got from him.