Sharing

[UtilityCurve]

I am 1000% convinced that men are, at least in theory--IRL it gets too real sometimes--more willing/wanting to share their women/GF's/wives with other men than they are to share their men/BF's/husbands with other women.

As a guy, I have a theory why that is so, but I wonder (A) if women/GF's/wives agree and (B) why those W/G/W think it so. The easy explanation is that, push comes to shove into, guys hold back the jealousy until the other cock is just outside of your girl, but I think that's too simplistic.

 

[NCWSLvr]

So, I’m someone who shares my wife. I never have the thought she is going to run-off with him, or that he’s better than me. But she, and I think many women, would wonder is he tired of me and has said she couldn’t handle the other direction. A built in insecurity, I suppose.

 

[Funcouple778]

I would share my wife but it has to be together. Regardless of male or female. I am not interested in sending her off by herself and I am not interested going off by myself. We are in it together.

 

[Lustopia]

My anecdotal experience with women in my life is that they were NOT into to me fucking other women. It makes them jealous, even the bisexual girlfriends I had didn't want to have FFM threesomes with me, but these same women were totally cool with having boyfriends on the side or having MMF threesomes with me.

I suppose I tend to select for strong-headed women who are multi-orgasmic and promiscuous, so my test set is small and biased.

 

[zoso682001]

My anecdotal experience with women in my life is that they were NOT into to me fucking other women. It makes them jealous, even the bisexual girlfriends I had didn't want to have FFM threesomes with me, but these same women were totally cool with having boyfriends on the side or having MMF threesomes with me.

I suppose I tend to select for strong-headed women who are multi-orgasmic and promiscuous, so my test set is small and biased.

My wife was always the jealous type and never wanted any part of seeing me with another woman .Then it changed when she developed some kind of feelings for the husband of some long time friends of ours . The wives conspired to set up the foursomes we all had for a number of years .

So she became fine with me enjoying the beautiful wife of our friends as long as she could fuck and suck the husband .
And she enjoyed every second of his thick cock cumming in her mouth and pussy . We always did it when we were both present.....as far as I know . But I have my suspicions not that it matters . .

 

[MaxwellSmart86]

Almost 2 years ago, my wife came to me with the suggestion that we try having an Ethical Non-Monogamous marriage. Up until that point, we had been together 23 yrs (married for 15 yrs) and it caught me off guard because my wife was the type that got upset if she had any inclination of another woman flirting with me. In fact, just about a month before she suggested the ENM arrangement, I told her about something a coworker said that, to me, seemed like flirting and my wife was not happy about it. But now my wife says that she gets turned on from the idea of me with another woman and has actively encouraged me to find a play mate. Needless to say, I've been hesitant because after 25 yrs of seeing how my wife reacts to things, I half expect to go have fun and then catch hell afterwards...even though it was her idea to begin with.

 

[Dearelliot]

I like other people to see my wife naked but her having sex with other men is different and so much more complicated in my mind...all of the ducks have to be in a row and that seems almost impossible.

 

[TXRafe]

I am 1000% convinced that men are, at least in theory--IRL it gets too real sometimes--more willing/wanting to share their women/GF's/wives with other men than they are to share their men/BF's/husbands with other women.

As a guy, I have a theory why that is so, but I wonder (A) if women/GF's/wives agree and (B) why those W/G/W think it so. The easy explanation is that, push comes to shove into, guys hold back the jealousy until the other cock is just outside of your girl, but I think that's too simplistic.

this for me is entirely the opposite...i've never had an issue with my partner wanting to be with a woman/women, not a twinge of jealousy at all. i'm not sure i can explain it, women feel complimentary, not like competition. of course she could leave you for another woman, but if thats what she wants then i am probably not what she needs anyway. just my opinion.

 

[strongnsensual]

If my wife isn't okay with it, she really needs to stop telling me I should find a girlfriend....

 

[svengali_decL]

If my wife isn't okay with it, she really needs to stop telling me I should find a girlfriend....

ditto....

 

[cdstefi]

My wife's completely not into men (our relationship is quite atypical for her), and has always said that if she ever had sex with someone else it'd be with a woman. I'd actually support her in this if she did, whether I was involved or not, and she's been reciprocally supportive of my desire for cock occasionally.

It sounds like an odd relationship maybe but we are extremely tight and secure.

 

[hiker283]

My wife is with her boyfriend in Seattle right now. She went up Thursday evening and will be home tomorrow. No jealousy on my part since I know she will always come home to me.

 

[Burlx]

Females are more used to be the center of attention, whereas males are used to a little more competition regardless of species the sexual energy is just more natural.

 

[bisissyhusband1]

My wife shares my sissy pussy with several of her girl friends. I love being pegged by all!

 

[Phatfeet]

I am 1000% convinced that men are, at least in theory--IRL it gets too real sometimes--more willing/wanting to share their women/GF's/wives with other men than they are to share their men/BF's/husbands with other women.

As a guy, I have a theory why that is so, but I wonder (A) if women/GF's/wives agree and (B) why those W/G/W think it so. The easy explanation is that, push comes to shove into, guys hold back the jealousy until the other cock is just outside of your girl, but I think that's too simplistic.

We no longer live this lifestyle, but my wife and I had an open-marriage for several years. She liked both men and women, often being "the other woman" in a FFM with her best friend and her husband. Other times it was just her and another man... a stranger. I knew where she was, not always with whom because he was a stranger after all, but I was never with her as she was with others.

But she was never with me either. It was only with other women for me, but she was fine with me being with others, and often knew the women, several times these women insisting that they be told it was allowed by her, to which she would openly tell them, "go ahead. I am fine with it".

While that attitude from a wife is not unheard of, it is also rather rare, so I agree with the original poster.